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selfwife:
just think straight man. forget the virginity and sex thing. if your brother was the one doing this to you, how would you feel? if your brother gets to know or find out, if will ruin is family and your family because nobody in that family will ever trust you again.family is more importanta when you have one. cherish it and forget about that woman.

How to stop this

amar3664:
I know, but we have become very close to each other.. She is the last with whom I lost my virginity. She is in out house from last 13 years

Before getting into relationships with her. I was in affair with her sister, everyone in our family knew about my relationship with my sister in law's, sister. She married 5 years ago and since then my sister in law started to came in contact with me... I did not Bleep her sister, but now fucking my sister in law

[quote author=Dami12345 post=74117556]Do you think she feels this way about u?[/quote

Sorry. She is the the first lady with whom I lost my virginity, she married my brother 13 years ago. I have been in relation with her from last 5 years, but the physical relation started 2 years back.. Whenever we are free we do it whenever we find place in house we do. Kitchen terrace my bedroom.... But never on her bed

selfwife:
you know it is morally wrong you are only looking for confirmation. if any of the above is true, learn discipline and self control. don't destroy your family ties although it is shaky now.

I know, but we have become very close to each other.. She is the last with whom I lost my virginity. She is in out house from last 13 years

I am 33 years old, my elder brother's wife has affair with me.....she is 41 years old... She is beautiful with body size of 36 30 38 ....i live in city and work in a private company.. My brothers wife live in village with our joint family comprising of uncle, aunty, grandmother, neice and nephew,my brother earns less money than me.. Whenever I go to my native place I give some money to my brothers wife ensuring no one knows about it. Me and my brothers wife talk very normal when family members are there, but the moment we are alone, we get physical with each other, I had sex with her more than 50 times.... She was the first lady with whom I lost my virginity... Even if I marry to any other lady. I will keep my secret relation with my sister in law.. Is it bad to have secret relationship with her...

WetinConsignMe:
Why not get a female

She never said if female

Is my wife healthy n fit

I am 35 years old and I live with my wife who is 30 years old n son who is 4 years old, since my wife has blood pressure issue, she is unable to do house work, so I have kept a servant for him, what are chances she might do sex with servant in my absence. I frequently go on business tour, leaving behind my wife kids and servant. Once I said while I am out of town you need not worry, if u need anything or wants to go to doctor, u can go with servant. What are chances she might get close with him

Mankosi:
it may be a joke. But what do u expect? U started the joke in the first place......

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How I started the joke

Mankosi:
She told u what u expected

What she told? Does she mean what she said?

FisifunKododada:
Your wife's sense of humor is scary.

My advice: Sack d male servant (see her reaction) and employ a mature maid. Then later jo
ke 2 her that you might sleep with the maid.

What are chances she might do

] am 34 years old and married to a woman who is 29 years old, my wife has divorced her husband before marrying me 1 year ago..she has a 4 years old son from her ex husband..we had been in relation from last 2 years,now i live with my wife,her son and our servant ..servant does all the household ..once in a month i go for offical tour to.other marrying for 2-3 days,i have asked my wife to.come along with me for tour along with her son,but she never goes with me citing reason that her son studies will get hampered,i told her what if u feel alone at house while i am on tour? then she says she will talk to me over phone in night while she feels alone, then i said u need not feel alone,as our servant will also be there in house,so u need not be scared,then she jokingly said that she hold servant and sleep with him ,if she feels alone,what are chances that she might Bleep him in future..why did she said like that,can she be trusted.what are chances she might Bleep him,i already had more than 5-6 trips after I keep my servant 11 months ago..

dairykidd:
If u read what u posted i am sure u will see the answer very clearly

I guess she will do

gabinogem:
now I understand ur point...that was actually an expensive joke oh. Just give her the benefit of doubt, that it was all a joke.

It was such a big joke

gabinogem:
has she given you reason not to trust her before or is it because she divorced her husband to marry you

Neither of the above, I married her because I love her and, but a wife saying about fucking her house help then it's really shocking for me.. That's the reason I said

] am 34 years old and married to a woman who is 29 years old, my wife has divorced her husband before marrying me 1 year ago..she has a 4 years old son from her ex husband..we had been in relation from last 2 years,now i live with my wife,her son and our servant ..servant does all the household ..once in a month i go for offical tour to.other marrying for 2-3 days,i have asked my wife to.come along with me for tour along with her son,but she never goes with me citing reason that her son studies will get hampered,i told her what if u feel alone at house while i am on tour? then she says she will talk to me over phone in night while she feels alone, then i said u need not feel alone,as our servant will also be there in house,so u need not be scared,then she jokingly said that she hold servant and sleep with him ,if she feels alone,what are chances that she might Bleep him in future..why did she said like that,can she be trusted.what are chances she might Bleep him

dairykidd:
Aśśhole was fûcking her while she was still married to her ex husband now u want advice... She will not only fûck ur houseboy but u will also raise his son thinking he's yours

How sure you about this

Any response

gabinogem:
negativity... if u just can't trust the lady u call ur wife, why marry her

What are chances she might go close with him in my absence

] am 34 years old and married to a woman who is 29 years old, my wife has divorced her husband before marrying me 1 year ago..she has a 4 years old son from her ex husband..we had been in relation from last 2 years,now i live with my wife,her son and our servant ..servant does all the household ..once in a month i go for offical tour to.other marrying for 2-3 days,i have asked my wife to.come along with me for tour along with her son,but she never goes with me citing reason that her son studies will get hampered,i told her what if u feel alone at house while i am on tour? then she says she will talk to me over phone in night while she feels alone, then i said u need not feel alone,as our servant will also be there in house,so u need not be scared,then she jokingly said that she hold servant and sleep with him ,if she feels alone,what are chances that she might Bleep him in future..why did she said like that,can she be trusted.what are chances she might Bleep him

] am 34 years old and married to a woman who is 29 years old, my wife has divorced her husband before marrying me 1 year ago..she has a 4 years old son from her ex husband..we had been in relation from last 2 years,now i live with my wife,her son and our servant ..servant does all the household ..once in a month i go for offical tour to.other marrying for 2-3 days,i have asked my wife to.come along with me for tour along with her son,but she never goes with me citing reason that her son studies will get hampered,i told her what if u feel alone at house while i am on tour? then she says she will talk to me over phone in night while she feels alone, then i said u need not feel alone,as our servant will also be there in house,so u need not be scared,then she jokingly said that she hold servant and sleep with him ,if she feels alone,what are chances that she might Bleep him in future..why did she said like that,can she be trusted.what are chances she might Bleep him

TimeMachine:
You can not trust another man in your own home. Trust me if they have opportunity, they wanna out-do you on the field of play. It has always been like that.

You can trust your wife, but you can not trust the ravaging female hormones and the fantasy they crave. What if I told you that I have met very responsible woman whose fantasy is to be fuccked in a club toilet ? .......then they should fantasy of husbands who will like to fucck house-helps. So is there a possiblity of a house wife whose fantasy is to be fuccked by a domestic staff whenever she misses her husband. I repeat, they feel like being fuccked when they miss their husband, they will think of their husbands while being fuccked that they justify it.

Think bro, think. Do not give them a chance to ruin your peace of mind. Shiit happens every where. People only refuse to talk about it cos of shame.

I wonder why not once she said for female house help, before keeping him, I have asked my wife that I am going to keep a male servant, and she agreed to it now once she said for female househelp

TimeMachine:
Most definitely if you can not take a joke. Your wife was joking, but the truth is that there was a night I nearly bleeped my domestic staff and I have two beautiful ladies 19 and 20 working with me and they are very beautiful. When I said I nearly, I mean it. And I run my home like a dynasty. I do not hire illiterates. I hire smart and beautiful people.

I told you my truth so you can understand that if your wife is on her heat period and she can not handle the hormones she will fucck him.

What you need to do as a man is do not listen to wife. Have a house girl not a house boy.

Brother thanks for your valuable advice

TimeMachine:
Friend, let me put your mind to rest with a simple truth, truth you do not want to hear but you know.

You did not disvirgin your wife and you will not be the last person she will sleep with.

Oh

How can I forget to add that;


Your wife did not disvirgin you, and she is not the only woman you will fucck.

Ignore those mundane things and focus on your Soul Mission in Life, if you do not know your Life Purpose, then find one and stop worrying about sex.

It means she will Bleep him

] am 34 years old and married to a woman who is 29 years old, my wife has divorced her husband before marrying me 1 year ago..she has a 4 years old son from her ex husband..we had been in relation from last 2 years,now i live with my wife,her son and our servant ..servant does all the household ..once in a month i go for offical tour to.other marrying for 2-3 days,i have asked my wife to.come along with me for tour along with her son,but she never goes with me citing reason that her son studies will get hampered,i told her what if u feel alone at house while i am on tour? then she says she will talk to me over phone in night while she feels alone, then i said u need not feel alone,as our servant will also be there in house,so u need not be scared,then she jokingly said that she hold servant and sleep with him ,if she feels alone,what are chances that she might Bleep him in future..why did she said like that,can she be trusted.what are chances she might Bleep him

Any advice

Any advice pls

id4sho:
You should change the servant to a adult female, I hope the male servant doesn't sleep the night at the house. Shit happens, it happened to a family friend. The wife got married to a male guest hosted in the house. A woman who's first born was 18yrs, 2009 the year I will never forget.

She never said me for female servant, even while keeping this one she never said me for female servant

id4sho:
You should change the servant to a adult female, I hope the male servant doesn't sleep the night at the house. Shit happens, it happened to a family friend. The wife got married to a male guest hosted in the house. A woman who's first born was 18yrs, 2009 the year I will never forget.

It means something might happen if he remains

marshalldgreat:
You better better keep such thoughts out of your mind before it starts causing unnecessary problems in your marriage...

So it means I should simply neglect her words.. It's OK then

Can she or not?

] am 34 years old and married to a woman who is 29 years old, my wife has divorced her husband before marrying me 1 year ago..she has a 4 years old son from her ex husband..we had been in relation from last 2 years,now i live with my wife,her son and our servant ..servant does all the household ..once in a month i go for offical tour to.other marrying for 2-3 days,i have asked my wife to.come along with me for tour along with her son,but she never goes with me citing reason that her son studies will get hampered,i told her what if u feel alone at house while i am on tour? then she says she will talk to me over phone in night while she feels alone, then i said u need not feel alone,as our servant will also be there in house,so u need not be scared,then she jokingly said that she hold servant and sleep with him ,if she feels alone,what are chances that she might Bleep him in future..why did she said like that,can she be trusted.what are chances she might Bleep him