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amarachi23:
yea you are absolutley right.well i will soon turn fourteen, and even past puberty, i start to ask my self is this what true love really feels like. you go with your heart and hpoefully it will last. it really has nothing to do with misconception. its most of all how you portray your image towards these circumstances. its either make a decision to intellectuallize your partner or you leave them alone and be your self. i think that the reason why its so hard to fall in love these days is because they rely on the outside and not the inside. it may not make sense but really but some people are so insecure that they try so hard to deviate from their true personality to please others, until you have truly hiddent the really you, and that mentallity can be both heart breaking and mentally dangerous, and could posssibly effect the people around you. my name is Njideka and you love will comne soon, god has a plan for everyone

amarachi23:
Not everybody is ready for the adversity of true love. No offense im a very pretty girl, but im also a smart one and i have the choice to choose who my life long companion will be. So im very careful to even put myself in that type of a situation. You have the choice of matrimonial offiliation, or just to be friends. some of my associates think: ooo man she really pretty so they say they like her. the next day i see the girl crying over a break up letter. so maybe you cant find true love by lust. people despise this suggestion, but sometimes it takes being educated. LOL, like if i get grabbed by a boy at school, i will take it as a major insult!!!And that is absolutley contradictory true love. do you get me on that theres a big difference, but the relationship needs to consist of commitement. i guess when their matured enough to realize that the world doesnt revolve around them.