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she is a wife material, I like her nd I lover her but she is too religious to bang her sef go be war , I have tot about it and I don't want to hurt her nd same time I don't want to lose her , she is so caring nd amazing, and am not ready for marriage ni, she is a wife material nd she has every quality of a good wife but am in the world nd she is in d spirit how we go cope if konji hold me ........at same thing don't Wana lose someone amazing like her

hello guys , I got to knw this girl from where I do buy computer software, she is cute, talk and nice , we got along , nd we exchanged number, even d day I took her number , I didn't save to tell u I wasn't after her sef, nd d second time I took her number she was like so u didn't store my number , nd wen I took it this time around I saved it with software girl , now from there she invited me to her church before going it took me time , after going to her church we became close , she is this holy girl type , all our talk na church , give ur life to Christ, la bla bla, we became so close that she won't sleep at night without hearing my voice nd any time i dirty talk with her she will say she is a child of God I should stop it, if I tell her I love her she will say God love is d best, so I one her side but I knew it that she liked me, so I decided not to advance , suddenly one morning she sent me a voice note saying she can't stop thinking about me , that am I sure I really love her , me I shock ooo......now she met a friend of her who is married nd when that friend asked her when she will have a man in her life she told me , she tot of me when her friend asked her that, now she said she wants us to go out on a date to have a deep discussion .....should I open up to her or i should just be friend with her

we have been dating for a year now , I have asked her direct question nd she never answered , but d one that's painning me is , she just got a job and I asked her she said she can't tell me, tho she stays far but we are both In Lagos, she said wen she comes over to my area next month she will tell me so manything and if I tell her to tell me via phone or whatsapp she will say till we see

and if she doesn't open up, how can I knw her more , how can I understand her , how can I make her happy

it's not that , she sounds so quite , don't mind her, she loves clubbing, she her a nose ring sef, she likes partying sef, but maybe d problem is from me, maybe am too dull nd quite , and I love her nd she loves me but na compatibility matter now be d problem,

this was our chat , pls read and tell me what I can do


[10/23, 3:09 PM] Trap republic: I feel more loved nd I feel that we are into each other wen u open to me nd I open up to u it bring about trust , understanding, intimacy nd closeness
[10/23, 3:10 PM] Vhicky: Yeh, u re right..... Bt sweetheart, I ain't hiding anyfin from u
[10/23, 3:10 PM] Trap republic: Like u not telling me about ur job,and what's going on with u, nd ur family ........Baby everything about u matters to me coz I have we have passed that stage of being new in relationship
[10/23, 3:13 PM] Trap republic: I knw u might not be hidding anything but at least open up, be relaxed d comfortable with me, it's how u see me that u will relate with me, if u see me as just a friend or someone who loves u, d way u will relate to me will be limited , but wen u see me as someone more Dan a friend , as your man, Someone who u love nd someone who u are dating , I tell u nothing will be limited , u will fell free because of d rapport nd closeness nd d love......it's as simple as that baby
[10/23, 3:14 PM] Vhicky: Sweetheart, I've heard you, oiit.
[10/23, 3:15 PM] Trap republic: Wish u understand my point here or maybe am it even understand u,nd I want to understand u nd knw u more
[10/23, 3:15 PM] Vhicky: Am trying my best to be free with you,
[10/23, 3:15 PM] Vhicky: Its jez dah am not use to ur kind of person.
[10/23, 3:16 PM] Trap republic: If u love me d way I love u , u won't find it hard , u won't struggle to be free with me , it will be natural , nd simple baby

that's why you need to know your man , understand him before u start any serious relationship, guys are different, so as girls, if you find the right person nd u become a blessing to him you are also blessing your self nd children but wen u find d wrong person , at d end the guy will leave u because the girl has failed to lbw the kinda person that guy is , a girl will see a guy with pink lips or with pointed nose or with muscle nd fall in love , if that guy leave u no blame any man u made your choice to choose a man is by heart , head and character , his environment and up bringing , girls go forget this one because of pink lips or he little money den , una go follow am , why won't he break up or leave u ..........take time to study your partner if he or she worth your effort nd blessings

Most girls want already made men, because they are not hardworking enough to make a man wealthy, they will wait for anoda girl to make a man wealthy then they will collect that man, and if one day the man becomes broke they will leave the man because innitially they didn't make that man wealthy and they don't know how to, the bible says he that has found a wife which is also a woman has found favour and blessings , but most girls don't knw that they can either a problem to a man or a blessing to a man, but most girls want a wealthy man, let help d girls out , u see that rich guy , that's spending any how, might be broke someday and u see that guy with little money , that has double his hustle and with big vision will soon be rich it's a matter of time, now girls learn to see the future it just only now, learn to see a guy if he has potential to be rich when you see that , stick with him and support him, encourage him and be a blessing to him ... to understand more pls follow this link for more relationship matters and goals

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this is the same girl that says she has nothing to do with Lagos, knowing that I base in Lagos, that she can't come to Lagos, she grew up in abj , even this hols, she didn't want to come to lag, this was same girl that sent me these messages wen I asked her if she loves me , but now she wants to do her birthday she needs me, I don't knw if she apologised to me knowing that her birthday is this October so we will be in good terms so she will get something from me, she says she loves me nd am the only one

should I do it, my gf in Abuja wants to do her birthday and she said she needs money for cake , and I was like during my own birthday she didn't even call me to say hi, only on whatsalp she said happy birthday I was if whatsapp no dey nko, now it's her own she won make I send money for her , and since we started dating she never spend 5kobo for me , and things are hard now , pls what should I do , tho she always claim she loves me , she calls once in a blue moon , what should I do

Tanks a lot every one

is it that she loves me nd she wants attention, time nd fun nd maybe the distance is fucking everything up. Or she doesn't want me any more or she has gotten. someone else

this was our chat again



[18/09 6:08 pm] amazing: Hw dare you say it's a blind date, so that's he u hv been seeing it , that's Hw u took it, I bet my life that wasn't he u saw it the first day
[18/09 6:10 pm] amazing: Why won't u get. Attached to the man u love , then what's the need for luvin at first, if u don't love deeply nd get emotionally attached how would u knw what u really want nd what u feel ?
[18/09 6:30 pm] Jennifa: Baby
[18/09 6:30 pm] Jennifa: Pls am sorry
[18/09 6:31 pm] amazing: U want d best for us ? Nd what's d best by saying all these to me nd by saying u could fall in love with someone
[18/09 6:32 pm] Jennifa: I hate it each time we fight
[18/09 6:34 pm] amazing: First of all
[18/09 6:34 pm] amazing: Why did u say u don't want to get too attached
[18/09 6:34 pm] Jennifa: I have experienced break up
[18/09 6:35 pm] Jennifa: N i alwys b d 1 2 loose
[18/09 6:36 pm] amazing: I hv experience that also
[18/09 6:49 pm] Jennifa: Dont talk 2 me like dat
[18/09 6:50 pm] Jennifa: I said am soory
[18/09 6:50 pm] Jennifa: M very sorry,dont push it
[18/09 6:51 pm] amazing: Do u love me
[18/09 6:51 pm] Jennifa: I do with all ny heart
[18/09 6:51 pm] Jennifa: N am sorry
[18/09 6:53 pm] amazing: U got me angry like I don't mean anything as if u don't want me any more
[18/09 6:53 pm] amazing: How do u rink ama feel
[18/09 6:53 pm] Jennifa: M sorry
[18/09 6:53 pm] Jennifa: 4give me
[18/09 6:53 pm] Jennifa: Didn't know what came over me
[18/09 6:54 pm] Jennifa: Didn't mean 2 hurt u

hello every one, I have been in a relationship with this girl before she got into the uni of Abuja, so she is in Abuja nd am in lag, I always call nd text, nd if I complain abt she nt showing or having time for me she will say that I should worry too much that she loves me nd she is ok, just that she is d cap of her department so she doesn't have much time , she is always busy , bt this recent chat with her got me confused



[18/09 5:59 pm] Jennifa: I might fall in love with som1
[18/09 5:59 pm] amazing: So u ar saying .....
[18/09 5:59 pm] Jennifa: Its like we are in a blind date
[18/09 5:59 pm] Jennifa: I dont wana get 2 attached
[18/09 6:00 pm] Jennifa: I dont wana break ur heart
[18/09 6:00 pm] Jennifa: Nexxt month i will b 20
[18/09 6:00 pm] Jennifa: N u know i still have a long way
[18/09 6:01 pm] Jennifa: I cant b d perfect girl
[18/09 6:02 pm] amazing: What's all these you are typing
[18/09 6:03 pm] amazing: U mite fall in love with someone ? Forgetting u at in love already with someone , that only happend when u at nt really in love with someone already then u can fall in love with someone else
[18/09 6:04 pm] Jennifa: Dont get me wrong
[18/09 6:04 pm] Jennifa: I want wats best 4 us
[18/09 6:04 pm] Jennifa: M tyad of all dis
[18/09 6:05 pm] Jennifa: M tyad of u been far 4rm me
[18/09 6:05 pm] Jennifa: M hurt
[18/09 6:05 pm] Jennifa: M scared
[18/09 6:05 pm] amazing: To me it's nt a blind date , coz I saw u , Cox I call to hear from you, or is that how you have been seeing it from the start ?

i hv read ilegend nd the bang book nd evn d advance bang book bt still yet this girl keeps makin me cry , hello guys, i met this girl around my area through a friend , after few months , i started dating d girl, but things changed, she piered her nose nd started putting on mose ring, she doesnt call me only once in a blue moon, and if she wants to ma flash only or a call of 3 seconds, same goes with text, she says she loves me , bt she is always rude with her words nd character, but anytime i ask her she said she love me , but i cant see any prove , d problem is i dont knw if she truly loves me or if she is playimg games, all i want is hw to knw if she really love me nd if she doesnt hw can i stop loving her, coz if i say ama stop, i see my self falling more for her, bt she doesnt respect, or treat me like am her guy, is there a way i can test if am really her guy nd if she loves me nd if nt hw can i fall out of love , because i guess she knws i do love her much nd maybe thats why she treats me anyhow knwing that i stop loving her.....

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[ Which i will also explain
[ From both men nd women side
Any man thats wants a bea should be also able to carry the load bt thats on the contrary
There are factors that affects many girls to tinkd that way
1 family
2 environment
3 training
4 influence
5 character/behavioir
Well the people that fall into this trap are je guys that are also called mr nice guy, they try to woo a girl by buying heaven and eartj, which means their strength is in their money, which 50% thats what a girl wants bt other 50%nko ? Like gesture, humore, understanding, care, tolerance emotional wants md sexual wants ?? Such a girl will kmw d mans weakness nd go for d money nd wen d money is gone d guy goes broke md wll have nothing to offer again nd d girl will go
This is what players use , simple guys mite nt hv d money, bt if they can give d other 50% very well , d girl will stay , will even get from d rich guy nd give it to the other bad smart guy
Ladies wants d guy that can take control, d guy that will make dem.cry today nd fucl dom so well d next day, they want a guy that is bold nd less emotion so most guys that knw d secret use it to survive bt it will nt also last long wen the money is nt there bt at least dem enjoy d girl pass d mr nice guy wey go spend heaven nd earth bt will nt see ordinary pant
So nw from the girl side
If a girl is after money, its her own problem, cox she mite fall into trap of rituallist who she mite sleep with nd lose her womb
Or she mite fall into d trap of if everybody knws she is after money, even a small guy can give her small money nd still sleep with her
All these boils down to if she comes from a good home, the environment she grew up in, the good training her parents gave her, the influence she gets from friends, Internet or tv and dhe natural character she had from childhood
If she has dis her imagination nd fantasy wont be after d money but after hvin a good man nd raising a boy to a man
The Bible says he thats finds a wife /good woman has found a good thing nd a blessing
Nd beside every successful man there is a woman nd also beside every unsuccessful man there is a woman
[Some girls wants already made men, which is bad , coz if dah man becomes broke tomorrow u wont knw hw to raise him again coz u didnt raise him at first place
U need to knw what to do to raise ur man up, even if he is ur type bt doesnt hv much , d strength God has given u is to make him a better man,
If a guy spends on u that doesnt mean he loves u
Bt if he is with u nd he has no money , for s fact he has nothing nd he has u, that means he has a good taste coz even without money he is nt settle for d less which is u, that means he has a good standard nd taste nd hat means he has d potentials of becoming rich
Nd finally some guys are lazy, they want to eat from where they didnt cook, some guys are stupid nd idiotic in nature, instead to work tink on hw to get money nt only to keep a woman bt to hv a family nd hv a family they are busy wanting pussy pussy pussy
[ Nd also for d girls, a wise girl should knw hw to determine if a guy has a vision nd also if a guy would be rich,
For example girl a will see a yahoo guy nd say he is rich while girl b will see a humble , hardworking , guy with vision, girl b will come in help him, nd make him that rich guy, by d time wey d humble guy go get money, d yahoo guy money go Don finish
Girl a only saw now nd only wants now nw nw, bt girl b , saw not only nw bt also what d humble guy has nd what he could become in d future
[What i say wen a guy see that any girl is a girl A , he should run away from such girl, coz they will take d little he has nt even caring if he has eaten or not ,
The materiallistic girls, girls who follow a guy based on money nt love
And 4 a guy should be strong enough to tolerate girls coz no matter hw a girls is she is still lile a little sister, a guy should be strong enough nt to be emotionally nd psychologically down
No girl should treat his guy like trash coz he has no money, no girl shoulf disrespect his guy coz he has no money, no guy should abuse the facts that a guy doesnt hv mucn
A girl should learn hw to be independent , should be hardworkimg
So men wont knw thats d weak point
So mem wont capitalise on that
Even d husband mite decide to punish d girl by nt giving her money, bt if d lady is educated or she has someting doesnt , she wont even feel bad or ask too much from d husband nd d husbamd wont hv any reason nt to give her money
Dont look at what ur frends hv nw, d kinda cloth nd material tings they hv nw, better ones nd tings are ahead , nd dont also put pride wen a guy gets u stuffs coz he mite use that to insult u tomoro
Its better u get it ur self u understand to also let him knw u are also hardworking so he cant use his money to influence or control u
Knw ur guy nd hw big his pocket is, always ask for d most important timgs nt irrelevant tings, dont frustrate ur guy with ur wants nd needs he is just a bf nt a busband , knw wen he has nd knw wen he is broke, communicate with him to knw dis, dont make him to hv anoda tot abt u that u ar only after d money, dis will make him wen even d money comes he will be afraid to give u, coz he mite ne tinking that u ar only after money
And dont make or drive him.to go nd steal
Be contented nd satisfied he is nt a fool, he loves u nd he knws hw to make u happy maybe d money no dey nd his hustling to get it nd surprise u
But that doesn't mean he wont spend on u at all ooo, he should once in a while , send card, buy u ear rings, mayne sexy cloths, shoes, even if na only at least na someting, he should take u out , bt that's wen he has enough dear
D facy still remains, a girl get parents, uncles nd sisters and other relatives nd close friends that can help her nt everytime d bf , nd before u asl knw d income of ur guy , what he does , if he is hustling nd geting like 30k nd u ar askin a fone of 70k, u want to kill him, that one sef would make him to change his mind,
He alsp has other responsibilities, he needs to buy stuffs for him self also, its nt a must he will spend, u can also take him out, md buy stuffs for him, stop watiing till he gives u money,
[As far as a guy is nt yet married , he can only help or asisit a girl with d little he has thats if its available , its nt d guys responsibility to get all her needs , nd to carr her wahala for him head

Nw i blame both the girl and the guy, Love comes with alot of list, If a guy wants to get a sexy, fine babe , he should be
1 serious
2 marureed in age nd in mind
3 he should be commited nd involved
4 he should be boyant enough
5 he shouldnbe strong
: he should put d girl nd take nd look at d girl as his own nd a potential wife, mature in age nd mind means he should be able to comprehend women language nd understand a woman nd he should be exposed to alot also, Nd he should have other experiences with ladies
he should be commited and involved means he should let d woman inhis life bt nt to take control over him or d relationship, he should take time to knw wen his girl is happy nd ready to asist , bt nt to make it his own cross nd responsibility
He should be boyant enough means, if a man decides to have a woman, then his pocket is full enough also
He should be able to take care of him self before even tinking of amy oda human being wherher girl or boy sef
But that doesnt mean those that are nt boyant shouldnt have taste or desires also or shouldnt have good things that other are having
They shouldnbe given equall right also
amazingcidpro: This where most girls fail to distinguish nd understand

tanks alot guys, hv heard all nd i know the righr thing to do

you guys no understand, i tink she is confused on who to follow, she keeps on teeling me she loves me nd she doesnt want to lose me, love her bt that was before now, alll i want to ro is remove my mind off her , anytime she come bck i go bleep her nd play along till she opens up bt if she no open up , maybe after bleeping i to tell her wetin she dey do, bt i was never in my life expecting this from her , was surprised nd shocked coz i did really lover her , maybe i will forget abt her nd d relationship nd play along, coz if i never knew should would be pretending to me till God knww wen

i knw am nt yet married to her bt i asked her, i told her the kinda person i am nd what i wa t nd what i dont like, even if am nt yet married , she should be loyal
faithful

we have been dating for a year nw, before she went bck to skul, i called her nd i sat her down nd i told her, that i love her so much nd i want to spend d rest of my life with her nd that lets be sincere with our selves nd of she knws she doesnt love me that muj or she doesnt want to be with me she should tell me or if she gona cheat on me , its better i knw nw nd maybe stop it nw before getting into some ting serious, bt she saod she loves me, she wont cheat nd she will love to be with me , we agreed nd she left for skul, after like dew months, i saw on her dp she nd a guy pic mixed togeda, nd there was wring saying will always love u my sweetheart, i was shocked , i sent her a message askin her who is that guy nd whats d meaning of her dp, she said it was a mistake nd it was someone that uploaded it , sje said she was charging it at d hostel, i asked my self , hw can someone access ur fone, nt only that, access ur whatsapp nd upload such pic without u knwing , wen nd hw did d picerson get nd pic mixed both pic, she said its one guy like dah is always disurbing her , after that few days letter, her room mate added me on whatsapp nd told me that she is cheatin on me, i asked hw she got my no, she said she took it from her fone, that she has told her to tell me bt she wont nd it hurts her to see a friends decieving me , she even gave me my gf nd the guys pic wen they were kissing nd other pic, nd if i ask my gf abt anyting cheating she will say no, she will even say she loves me so much, now should i play along nd Bleep d hell out of her or just break up nd i really love her