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[quote author=Toks2008 post=92317653]The idea of a wife material by many men is not different from the idea of having a slave in the house... Men want a woman who will be able to wake up as early as possible when others are still asleep, do the house chores and tend to the needs of the kids, the husband and after serving her household, she will go out to make ends meet and latter come back home to make sure her kids and husband are well taken care of and this includes cooking, washing their clothes and lots more... Men want a Nanny, A cook, A laundry lady, house cleaner, An errand lady, Sex provider and many more in one lady who is considered a weaker sex and as if this is not stressful enough, most men would rather boast about the ability of their lady in washing hard fabrics with bare hands, they will talk about how they so much love a lady because she can pound yam the natural way and will be proud to talk about how good their lady is in using archaic methods to prepare their meals... And the worst twist is that even if the lady is pregnant, they will still watch her do these tasks.

So I ask: is there anything different between a wife material and a slave? Will heaven fall if the man assists his wife in the home front?

Does common sense not tell the man that he needs to make life easier for his wife by getting a washing machine, a vacuum cleaner, and several other home/cooking appliances that will make life easier for her. Must a lady even know how to cook before you tag her wife material? What if she just can't cook or is the ability to cook part of success in life?

Please don't get it twisted, I'm not here to advise ladies to be redundant in their homes. Every married lady must be a home keeper, ensuring that her kids and husband are her priority...but nevertheless, in my opinion, a wife material means a gentle, submissive wife who will love you for who you are, tolerate your weaknesses, a Wife Material is a woman who is about her business, can hold her own in a conversation, is generous and can handle money well. A woman who will put your needs first and values her marriage so much that she won't defile it by being unfaithful... And just as the book of proverbs 31 says,...'' a virtuous woman is one who leads her home with integrity, discipline, and more and all the virtues she is practicing are aimed at making the life of her husband better, teaching her children, and serving God'' this is never the same as having a slave in the house in the name of wife material.

My prayer for every man reading this is that God provides for you so that you will make life easier for your woman so that you can look beyond that slave-like quality that many men use to qualify a wife material.


Every educated and reasonable man must know that a good husband is a husband that assist his wife because she is not a slave.

I rather remain single than to turn my wife to bounded slave.

If you cannot hold yourself go and marry or you go to brothel w.

All rapist should be stoned to death.
You will see it reduced to the lowest minimal

Guys should stop the habit of rapist.
Every rapist should be stoned to death


People like me, as in, as a judge that I am, or a prosecutor, or as a police officer?

What about the hundreds of men like you that are still wandering about, raping people's daughters and ruining lives because of the law protects you?

So many more lives are ruined because the people who should be in jail are getting away with rape.[/quote]

If you cannot hold yourself go and marry or you go to brothel w.

All rapist should be stoned to death.
You will see it reduced to the lowest minimal

What on Earth does guys gain from raping women?

I think every rapist should be castrated and burnt alive

God should destroy every rapist :

What on Earth does guys gain from raping women?

I think every rapist should be castrated and burnt alive

God should destroy every rapist

What on Earth does guys gain from raping women?

I think every rapist should be castrated and burnt alive.

I would have been more elated if the woman succeeded in bitting off his penis.

Guys please stop raping women.
If you cannot hold yourself go and marry.
Rapist should be castrated,others will learn a very better lesson

In a polite and romantical way
Tell her to stop entrying the guys
Çar while going to work ,tell her to delete
The guys number then watch her
Response and reactions.
If her response is on the negative
Report to her mom,if zilch happens
Buttend the Relationship for a broken
Relationship is better than a divorce
Marriage.

What on Earth does guys gain from raping?

It's high time rapist should be castrated for others to learn from.

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