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FamilyRe: Comparison In A Family. How Healthy Is It? by Amenya96(f): 7:20am On Apr 15, 2017
@Acode
if we tell you here that your father is to blame, it wont make things better or worse. You know why, he won't come and read our comments. But you should seek our advice on how you can become a better person. First you need great and good friends, not agbaya people onh,people that will come to your mind to go to when this hate come up and I believe when you finish talking over with them, your anger should have boiled down.
secondly, there is an adage that says "with Time we shall know who is foolish ".See,if your dad is the typical Nigerian man no amount of your talking with him will make him change. And if you try to please him, you may end up selling your soul to the devil for sucess. do your best and leave the rest for God. Do what you can, I wish I could talk to you more. so you understand.work hard,face your studies.work hard.the end shall tell. Never, I repeat NEVER you put your anger on your brothers, you know why they are going through the exact same thing as you. learn from them
You guys should mak your dad see what gifts he was blessed with as sons. If you need to talk, you can reach me
HealthRe: Help! I Will Be Having Hemorrhoids (pile) Surgery In Few Days by Amenya96(f): 1:06am On Apr 08, 2017
@Incognito 101.my mail system is bad.you've been trying to reach me.you can reach me on 08163662374
HealthRe: Help! I Will Be Having Hemorrhoids (pile) Surgery In Few Days by Amenya96(f): 9:32pm On Apr 03, 2017
Incognito101:
My name is Tope. I am 26 and have had problems with hemorrhoids for years. It was getting to where I was spending several hours indoor due to the pains and discomfort. I don't socialize, don't go out, always behind closed doors.

I got referred to a surgeon recently and he said I had bad case and set me up for surgery. They decided to do a colenistimy (colon probe. where I guess they pump you full of air and put a tube all the way up) and I was told afterwards that I had some of the largest they had seen.

I will be going back for the main surgery in few days and I am scared to death the risk and complications that might follows.

Any advice, suggestions, what to do and what not to do from you all will be well appreciated. Thanks.
@Incognito101.
There is a cure for it in Edo State
Esan,Irrua to be precise in Umehlen of Ugbegun Village.
That is if it is really pile.My mum mentioned a relative of ours being afflicted at a young age and today the girl doesn't even know she had such a thing in past time.Shes all grown now.i found out when she directed someone to the man.Iwith his treatment Its a gradual process but will fade.So I don't really know how you will go about it.
please decide on Time what's the best option but try this and you won't regret.Av seen it work
LiteratureRe: Forgiven By Glowingscenes by Amenya96(f): 12:32am On Mar 26, 2017
following the story
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RomanceRe: In Love With Two Girls But Wants One. Advice Needed. by Amenya96(f): 9:57pm On Mar 25, 2017
Daniyemi:
I and my exgirlfriend parted ways about 3 months ago precisely on new year day.
Shortly after our breakup, I met a couple of girls. I had flings with quiet a few of them but I wasn't comfortable because at my age, I am not suppose to be having flings but a committed relationship.

The problem is I currently have two girls I am in love with. They could easily pass off as models. Beautiful ladies with good hearts. I had to pretend I was flat broke to know if they were coming because I am rich(not very rich though but I am super comfortable for a 20 something yrs old guy. I own a law firm and a school which is setting off soon) One of the ladies is in Abuja she studies there and the other with me here in Kano she is also a student. As a lawyer, I know it is improper to date two girls at the same time cos if one should find out I may end up loosing both.


My problem is I tend to love the one in Abuja more, she is 20 and I took her virginity I was amazed to find out she was a virgin. But the downside is the distance. Distance was one of the factors that led to I and my ex parting ways. We lost the trust we had for each other(there are other reasons though.).
She comes to the North to see me. She was here last month. But I am already feeling since she is no longer a virgin she will want to explore especially giving the fact that she is beautiful.
I don't know if I should use the distance to leave her alone as I do not want a repeat of what happened between me and my ex.

The second one with me here in the North she is 23, very beautiful has a good heart, jovial, polite my friends like her. she is a good cook as well.

When I was asking the girl in Abuja out, she was playing hard to get and I asking the second one out too just incase the first girl failed to date me. They both eventually agreed to date me even when I feigned I was a broke nigga.

Pls house I really do not want to double date. As I can only marry one wife. (I date to marry like I did with my ex). I can't Introduce two girls to my People. What do I do to remedy the situation? insults are welcomed.

Modified* I was well aware that no viable solution will come from nairalanders. As usual they didn't disappoint.
I wonder if it was my own doing to have had the girls say yes to me almost at the same time.
I will resort to prayers.
O.P @Daniyemi if you are sure,go with the one you broke her virginity if she feels the same way for you.and get married as soon as possible to avoid a repeat of the last case.apologize and explain to the other and live.my opinion thoughBut pray about it to know whats the right choice.@Daniyemi
LiteratureRe: DAYO'S ANGEL( Love, Lust And Betrayal) by Amenya96(f): 10:01am On Mar 18, 2017
Chumzypinky:
as in d mata tire me. Let her complete one first
I thought am the. only. person who. noticed the inconsistency and different threads..But that alone is not what annoys me,,what really annoys me is when you speak your mind on her thread she comes defensive.She go soon come attack you @chumzypinky for your comment and if more comments like this she drops the thread madam Angelssss.honestly I also like your work but your attitude towards readers is something..please take the advice and finish one by one or better still have a routine of posting
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LiteratureRe: Silhouette; A Short Story by Amenya96(f): 10:38am On Feb 11, 2017
ah ah
fiyah
no update since
y nah?
Abeg come update fine girl
LiteratureRe: The Devil Who Loved Me (true Life Story) by Amenya96(f): 7:41pm On Feb 06, 2017
Oga,abeg Na here the story end?abeg Na.temper Johnson with mercy.update biko
LiteratureRe: "365": A Novelette by Amenya96(f): 7:39pm On Feb 06, 2017
swan,please update,please
EducationRe: 2017/2018 PTDF Scholarship Scheme (Overseas And Local) by Amenya96(f): 7:15am On Dec 28, 2016
Mayflowa:
Yes. They do.
please,how can I go about it?
CelebritiesRe: The Worst Dressed Celebrities At The Headies 2016 by Amenya96(f): 9:06am On Dec 26, 2016
Aduni wan do Rihanna own but she no add boot
LiteratureRe: "365": A Novelette by Amenya96(f): 9:45am On Dec 18, 2016
oh ma gosh!Kay is gonna ruin thisd for me... Say yes....Pls.... Shiloh is soonest.. u could get a miracle...
#TeamKay
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LiteratureRe: Secrets And Scandals by Amenya96(f): 7:47am On Dec 15, 2016
Amenya96o:
skarlett dear cry
But I don't see any update
LiteratureRe: Hearts In Ashes by Amenya96(f): 7:43am On Dec 15, 2016
skarlett love this story was a bomb.....
u re the best
I rate u high over angelsss
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CelebritiesRe: Leo Mezie Thanks Nollywood And Nigerians With New Photos by Amenya96(f): 7:59pm On Nov 23, 2016
Princelegacylemoha:
Otito Diri Jesu
Ana bebe
LiteratureRe: Secrets And Scandals by Amenya96(f): 6:51pm On Nov 23, 2016
skarlett dear cry
FamilyRe: How Does One Cope With A Short Tempered Wife? by Amenya96(f): 6:31am On Nov 23, 2016
Sir,
I must commend your effort to seek help
First thing is right now you can not change her.
If you live in a city,try to get a professional therapist or counsellor
Before this,try communication.Explain to her how this behavior is affecting your marriage and you.
It's her weakness,see how you can avoid the triggers
Then try to set a meeting with the counselor to know if it has to do with a scar(in her heart)since childhood.You what we go through sometimes affect us..E.g a girl that was raped may not be cool headed as a girl with a normal childhood.maybe she lacked attention growing up.It could even be hormones imbalance So see a counselor.meet other couples ....Do activities involving patience
Then,dont and never act with hatred.She is spouse.How often do you pray for her?
There has to be someone she takes serious and has great respect for,(am against third party but).Go see the person.This should work for a few weeks.
If she persists talk to her again and if it persists leaving D house may expose the both of you to external forces dat break homes.....
Just continue and control,lets hope child bearing calms her.
LiteratureRe: Hearts In Ashes by Amenya96(f): 6:12am On Nov 23, 2016
O my God!Did Tunji just commit murder?
What Was his motive?
I think that step was more than a move out of anger or a sense of protection.
Or maybe it's actually a move towards protection.
Maybe there's another secret of the couple to be unveiled as regarding children......
Lets watch and see
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LiteratureRe: Hearts In Ashes by Amenya96(f): 9:53pm On Nov 21, 2016
[quote author=skarlett post=51244655]Dedicated to foxyluv, tgirl085, bossy512 and amenya96


Twenty-nine

“Good morning,” he greeted cheerily as she walked out of the gate.

Omotola didn’t go towards him, didn’t slow down her strides, just said, “Good morning, Dayo.”

He caught up with her in a moment’s time, her much-shorter legs no match for his long strides. Falling into step beside her, he asked, “Where are you off to?”

“Nowhere important,” she muttered and told her jittery stomach to calm down. Much to her own chagrin, it wasn’t just his presence that was making her feel trapped. It was her body’s, her heart’s reaction to him that was eating away at her.

Even now, her heartbeat was quickening. Being near Dayo set her blood to boiling and her nerves dancing. His scent. His voice. His nearness. All combined to make her want with an ache she knew would never really leave her.

And to have him close by was a torture. Maybe he saw what he was doing to her and enjoyed it immensely. She risked a gaze at him, his smile was too friendly for her liking.

“I’d like to know exactly where nowhere important is,” he said.

“Mt. Sinai Hospital,” she told him with a wave.

“Who’s at Mt. Sinai Hospital?”

“My mom,” she mumbled staring down the road for a taxi.

“Great then, I’ll drive you there.”

Her eyes closed into slits as she regarded him, “why?”

“Well you’ll need a ride there and there’s no reason you should get a taxi when I can drop you off. Also I’ll get a chance to meet my future mother-in-law,” he smiled sweetly at her as she turned at him. “We will kill two birds with one stone.”

“No.” She shook her head. “You are not going anywhere near my mother.”

“Why not?” he asked softly.

A sizzling fizz of heat began to fire deep down in her body. That there was something else going on here as well as the conversation they were involved in, made her flicker a wary scan of his face. He was leading her somewhere and she did not want to look at where that might be.

“I would be too ashamed to present you to her,” she said.

And hit a raw nerve. Omotola watched the warm possessive golden light in his eyes turn off like a switch. He drew back from her as if she’d physically struck him. It was like watching a dangerous animal take a serious blow it had not been prepared for, and she

WoW,I feel loved....
Thanks for the dedication skarlet
I love you scatter
You are the best
love you plenty

Story is coming to an end
I pray Tomiwa is safe
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LiteratureRe: Hearts In Ashes by Amenya96(f): 12:13pm On Nov 21, 2016
skarlett love welldone.nice one
I guessed rightlol
blessing. d killer
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LiteratureRe: Secrets And Scandals by Amenya96(f): 7:00am On Nov 16, 2016
oh oh.......well done ehn...so. how is it going to be
LiteratureRe: Secrets And Scandals by Amenya96(f): 3:43pm On Nov 13, 2016
Happy Sunday skarlett love
Still waiting
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LiteratureRe: Secrets And Scandals by Amenya96(f): 8:58am On Nov 09, 2016
skarlett:
I will update at noon dear, still working on it
ook dear
LiteratureRe: The Murderer: A story by d9ty7 by Amenya96(f): 6:25am On Nov 07, 2016
please update o
LiteratureRe: Secrets And Scandals by Amenya96(f): 6:24am On Nov 07, 2016
skarlett Biko update
LiteratureRe: Hearts In Ashes by Amenya96(f): 6:21am On Nov 07, 2016
skarlett:
Lol, sorry about that but if you notice some scenes have to be told from the participants point of view so we can understand better ie Tunji saw Ife (was that Tunji's narration or killer's. U re getting me a little confused)before she was murdered so he told it from his standpoint. The murderer told us of things leading to Ife's death and Omotola ended the narration with how she saw her sister when she came back. All of it is sorta important if not I'd have done without it.

Its really almost certain that the killer is female
that Was not Tunji narrating now.It was the killers
LiteratureRe: Hearts In Ashes by Amenya96(f): 6:06am On Nov 07, 2016
skarlett love,
Good Morning
gosh,I forgive your birthday
happy birthday in arrears to you this prolific writter
more dollars(until naira becomes useful again)to your account
I wish you all the best thing of life
And most especially I wish you all that you wish yourself
also,am really sorry I didn't notice that you dedicated a chapter to me
am really sorry,my bad.But I think it's your fault sha,lol.U write so good a story.That once I see your update the next action that follow for me is to finish..lol
once again,thank you for the dedication.
U don't know how it made me feel.I feel honored.
I think the killer is Blessing.Tomiwa's nanny.Come to think of the dogs and the easy access she has to the house and car.She probably has a score to settle maybe Dayo had a fling with her.because from Wat I understand the killer was supposed to kill Omotola.She was vexed because she saw Ifelo and Dayo.not knowing that the real girl was Omotola because Ife stood in for Omotola for the date Dating already made reservations for.Also Stephanie dated Dayo.Dr Lily was killed because her picture was found in the detective's card box of investigation.wat do u fink?
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EducationRe: 2017/2018 PTDF Scholarship Scheme (Overseas And Local) by Amenya96(f): 4:44pm On Nov 03, 2016
please do they have any scholarship scheme for undergraduates?please someone who is aware should reply.
please?

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