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Family / Re: Is Chisom Only A Female Name Or Both Sexes? by Amiga4u(f): 5:49pm On Sep 26, 2010 |
thanks alot ,if the name is both for male and female then i will keep it for my boy.lol but still need more input on this. |
Family / Is Chisom Only A Female Name Or Both Sexes? by Amiga4u(f): 6:19pm On Sep 23, 2010 |
Because i really like the meaning of the name for my son ? |
Family / Re: I Am Officially Bankrupt,homeless,depressed And At My Wits End.just Wnt 2 End It by Amiga4u(f): 1:08am On Jul 12, 2010 |
@ Gaby. i just smilled when i went through ur post cos i was just about to write something similar concerning my life for nairalanders to give me support,encouragement and hope ,even though i know that i have HOPE IN GOD but as human my hope do weaver sometimes lol But right now i can see myself giving you my 2cent of advice and encouragement and also taking the good ones people have written to u. Well,i must say that i have been in a worst situation than your now and people asking what u did for ur family and friends to hate u this much cos ur demoted is WRONG ,never judge people with ur imaginations. I never did anyone wrong but good in my family but the same people are the ones who joined together to bring me down .Why? cos of jealousy and evil heart,i was the bread winner in my family from the age of 21 now i am 29 yrs old ,i took care of all there needs ,brought 2 to europe,trained one in university,the house they live in now is my hardwork,the cars etc but instead of appreciating they prefer to give to me and bring me down ,some even tell it in my face of course not until i went home to see for myself cos people change during the years and all the things they tell u on phone while ur abroad is not the same thing when u see them in person, I lost my home in nigeria worth 15 million naira,lost my home in Europe ,my husband ,child and my financial stability and security and got poised cos they wanted me dead and gone, spiritaul attacks up and downs ,u have no idea ,hospital was my home for 2 yrs without doctors finding out anything wrong with me , It has been a battle and still battling but God has always been my helper to deliver me out of the hands of my enemies (Household enemies for that matter) Today ,i live in a shared room with a girlfriend LOL me that use to live in a mansion home and abroad,now no job and very broke. Sometimes i think that i will never become rich again like i use to, even tonight i´ve been thinking the same thing that i have wasted all my good opportunities in life But no God will restore me fully again ,i just dont know when but i am hoping and waiting on him. But in my battles of surviver i never GAVE UP ,first of all i wanted to be delivered from all the diabolic poises ,i went straight to church deliverance MFM and most of the poises and attack has stopped but i still do weekly deliverance until i am completely free which i will with time. Then after my divorce from a cheating and abusive husband which they diabolically changed him into that cos he is not that kind of man by my sibbing when she lived in my house and had an affair with him ,i prayed to God deeply to give me a man of my own ,it wasnt long i met my husband now who was just a low income man not compared to my rich ex-husband and he wasnt even my class or taste but had all the qualities i wanted in a man and very faithful to me which i am very grateful to God on that aspect , but since i have been with him ,God has raised his salary twice with prayers,i know God choosed him for me not me cos if it was my choice i would have gone for flashy things and end up with the wrong man. Today God has started restoring my life gradually ,we now have our own apartment in europe small but comfortable ,i will be relocating to a different country to join my husband and start life all over again ,i know after my language course i will get a job plus my husbands job we will be fine and with time i will be restored fully and even above what i had before and i have closed every contact with my family because of what they did to me. What i always say to myself is that : *GOLD WENT THROUGH FIRE BEFORE IT BECOME THAT BEAUTIFUL ( so thats what i am going through now) * THE DOWNFALL OF A MAN IS NOT THE END OF HIS LIFE * IF THERE IS LIFE THERE IS HOPE * EVERY BAD SITUATION AND TRIBULATIONS IN LIFE IS MAKING A WAY FOR A HIGHER PROMOTION * WHAT IS IN THE FUTURE IS GREATER AND BETTER THAN WHAT WAS IN THE PAST. life alone to me is a testimony, because thats what my enemies didnt want to see me breath this Air,God will see u through ,go to a good church for consuelling and deliverance and it shall be well with u. 1 Like |
Travel / deleted by Amiga4u(f): 4:37pm On Oct 18, 2009 |
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Family / Re: Genuine Advice Plssssss. by Amiga4u(f): 6:23pm On Oct 16, 2009 |
@ Poster, I am sorry about your situation ,how come you dated him for 2 good years and didnt seem to know him well enough? its sad if he was good during courtship and then changed just 2 months into your marriage. I personally can not live with any man that lay his hand on me. i think your husband is cheating period . he probally was seeing the lady before he got married to you and still continue´s the afair. Every marriage has its ups and downs its not a bed of roses ,if you truelly want your marriage to work you have to get closer to God,i think consuelling could help but if that doesnt work then a trail seperation would be good if its possible to go and stay with your parents for a while and during that time use it and go for prayers and deliverance for your husband and marriage ,there is nothing God cant do or change. Or stay in your matrimonial home and go for prayers and deliverance from there to avoid him bringing another woman in while your gone,during this period do everything in your power to avoid argument with him and dont question his movement. If you´ve tried all this things and they prove abortive ,then you can now decide if you want to live your marriage or not,no one will make that decision for you but yourself but let it be that you´ve tried your best to make it work. |
Dating And Meet-up Zone / opted out by Amiga4u(f): 1:04am On Sep 13, 2009 |
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Religion / Re: Any MFM Members Here: I Need your Urgent Assistance...and prayers by Amiga4u(f): 9:29am On Apr 25, 2009 |
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Religion / Any MFM Members Here: I Need your Urgent Assistance...and prayers by Amiga4u(f): 4:05am On Apr 25, 2009 |
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Properties / Re: From Lawyer: Before You Buy ANY Land ,Property And Mortgage Read This! by Amiga4u(f): 11:28pm On Mar 28, 2009 |
@ LAWYER,i sent u an email yesterday concerning some personal issues,please get back to me,i have tried calling ur phone number several times and its not working. |
Family / Re: People Living Abroad,where Is Best To Buy A House First Nigeria Or Abroad ? by Amiga4u(f): 8:48pm On Mar 03, 2009 |
chaircover:thanks for ur wonderful and reasonable advice i know few people who is doing that here in europe,its does make sense. |
Family / Re: People Living Abroad,where Is Best To Buy A House First Nigeria Or Abroad ? by Amiga4u(f): 8:44pm On Mar 03, 2009 |
jacq:thats very sad on what ur uncle did to ur land ,mine is also similar situation to urs, thats one of the reasons why im discourage buying in nigeria again for now but God will fight for u. thanks for ur advice |
Family / Re: People Living Abroad,where Is Best To Buy A House First Nigeria Or Abroad ? by Amiga4u(f): 6:57pm On Mar 03, 2009 |
Hotstepper:thanks for ur advice @Hotstepper |
Family / Re: People Living Abroad,where Is Best To Buy A House First Nigeria Or Abroad ? by Amiga4u(f): 6:37pm On Mar 03, 2009 |
Fhemmmy: thanks for ur advice u made a good point. |
Family / Re: People Living Abroad,where Is Best To Buy A House First Nigeria Or Abroad ? by Amiga4u(f): 5:21pm On Mar 03, 2009 |
ibedun: thats also a wise advice,thanks for ur reply,i personally wouldnt want a show off house in nigeria,i prefer a house i can rent part of it and as well have a hoilday place to stay whenever i visit nigeria with my family,¨that will also helps to have someone take care of the house when im away. |
Family / Re: People Living Abroad,where Is Best To Buy A House First Nigeria Or Abroad ? by Amiga4u(f): 12:47pm On Mar 03, 2009 |
**osisi: now u understand what i mean cos alot of nigerians dont reason that way and they are trying to brain wash me on buying first in nigeria before abroad im very confused right now ,as i also thought buying a house abroad first make´s more sense cos we spend more time there,Nairalanders what do u all think as more opinion will help me determine where to buy first. 1 Like |
Family / Re: People Living Abroad,where Is Best To Buy A House First Nigeria Or Abroad ? by Amiga4u(f): 4:29am On Mar 03, 2009 |
i understand that but what if someone is buying free of mortage or very little mortgage to pay monthly? the person wont have that much problem about the property being taken. |
Family / People Living Abroad,where Is Best To Buy A House First Nigeria Or Abroad ? by Amiga4u(f): 4:18am On Mar 03, 2009 |
Ok Nairalanders,i need ur advice,as someone living abroad and spends 85 to 90% of her time overseas,which is obviously where i call my home,if i decide to purshase my first house which country do u think i should consider first? Nigeria or abroad where i made my permanent base? after being dumped ones by a family member whom i trusted would help me build and surpervise my house last year. if ur in my shoes would u still go ahead and start building a new house urself or buy first where u base ? we should consider that buying or building a house in Nigeria is alot of headache,419ers, difficulties controlling what ur contractor ,builder or family member is doing with the money u sent to them ,some family members using ur money for themselives and decieving u that they are building a house for u and at the end u loss everything ,some using juju on someone cos of land ,family member overtaking ur property if anything happens to u and then ur wife and kids or husband will be left with nothing etc And abroad where everything is legal,geniue ,secured and less or no stress,if u had the money to buy a house after being dumped once would it be wise for someone to still go ahead and build a new house in Nigeria ? i mean u dont want to keep paying rent for the rest of ur life abraod , if u had the money to purshase a house abroad right? someone can always get something in nigeria later in the future. when ur sure that no matter what happens u already have ur home abroad and i only visit nigeria ones a year or even ones every 2 yrs depending on how busy i am,so i wont even spend much time in the Nigeria house. your option is needed and will be appreciated. thanks |
Family / Re: Surrogate Mother by Amiga4u(f): 7:09pm On Jan 15, 2009 |
Im glad you brought this topic up because a friend of mine has been looking for a surrogate mother for a while now,she has heard of people doing it private but its extremely difficult finding any good one in Nigeria since there is no surrogacy Agency for it but she met 2 girls that were willing to become a surrogate mother for her but she didnt like there background so she didnt continue with them but she havent given up,she is still searching for anyone that will match her requirement. which are the following are: 1.) the person much be healthy and can bear children and havent had any pregancy complications before ( a blood test and fertility test will be done to verify this ) 2.) there will be a legal agreement between both the surrogacy mother and the baby parent( that will protect both of them,so that the surrogate mother wont refuse giving up the baby after birth and the baby parent wont refuse paying the full compensation fee after baby is born ) 3.) She must be a woman of the age of 18 to 35, with a good background,preferably having her own child or several children. If the surrogate mother is married, her husband shall give a notarially certified written consent for participation in the extracorporeal fertilization program 4.) the person must be stable and have a setting height , weight and goodlooking. 5.) the person must be willing to go through IVF,Intra-uterine Insemination (IUI) or Donor Insemination (DI) and egg transfer. 6.) Must have full support of someone close to her (her spouse or family member ,close friend etc )just incase she is on bed rest or even just too big to get around or work, she will need the extra support and help of someone for her and her children if she have any. 7.) must be mentally and physically stable enough to go through a pregnancy and give up the baby in the end 8.) she must be willing to abort the pregnacy if any genetic disability was found during prenatal check up at easily stage. 9.) compensation fee will be agreed between the surrogate mother and her . Note: My girfriend is willing to pay compensation for the surrogate mother to carry her baby,which include,allowance,medical care ,10 % of the compensation fee when she conceive and 90% when the baby is born. so if your friend is interested or anyone is intrested she/they should drop her email address and my girlfriend will get back to the person. best of luck. 1 Like |
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