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190 are you serious.///ok u met a girl and she knows who she is, so why don't you tell her, i guess this is ur way of letting her know, nice job,

are you the owner of NL, if not, then who cares, there are some new people on this site, that might find an old thread interesting and decide to respond, why don't you start making new threads to "keep things fresh and new"

hmm, if something happen between them i can't control it,

me and this girl are not really friends, she just latched onto me when we first met her, she is a liar infact, she told me she was a nurse when later on i decided to help her with her resume and she is a nurse assistant

@pennywise, if he finds her attractive and he did all as u said, THEN GOOD FOR HIM, i am not someone that speculates, there so much going on in my life that i do not have time to think about "whatif"  i just appreciate that he told me, i know he has many faults but one thing i know is that he is honest even if it hurts

thanks shy, i was actually born in America , , but you are right its not worth it, i've never had any altercation with the law and intend it to stay that way, i just feel like she has disrespected me and i wanted to let her know, but yea its not worth it, and i have stopped going there, my bf friend called last week to invite us over and my bf just told him i was working so we could not make it

this is a long story, however i need opinions. I can be very blunt and confrontational so i am trying to turn a new leaf.

my boyfriend and I always hang out with one of his good friend who is 35 years old. Recently the friend started dating this white girl, who is out of control meaning she smokes, drinks and even admitted to taking crack once , since it is not my place to talk to my boyfriend's friend, i always ask my bf why his friend is with this girl and why he doesnt leave her, anyways the friend moves in with this white chic, we go over there on sundays to have dinner and play video games, now the first time i met the white girl i knew she was into my bf by the way she was staring at him(and he is handsome), some sundays i can go there and sometimes i decide to stay home, this sunday he went by himself, he comes home and makes a statement that the white girl is crazy and she is not my friend

, i ask him what he means and he says nothing, so NOW 2 months later he tells me that the day he went there, it was just the three of them and the friend had stepped out to go to store, he says he was on the couch playing video game when all of the sudden the white gir jumps on his laps and plants a kiss on his lips, he says he pushed her off and she was like " dont act like you do not want me" he said he declined her and told her if she doesnt stop he will tell his friend and me, she begs him not to tell either of us

, so i am now mad at him for not telling me earlier and still letting me go over to this girls house and giving her rides, not knowing that she has tried to sleep with him, he states because he knows i will kick down the girls door and that he doesnt want to disrespect his friend and hurt his friend, so my question is what should i do, should i go confront that chic or let it be,

slap yourself for telling her to jump off a building,

you need to be worried about letting this man run up in you raw instead of condoms in his car, if he is cheating, well at least u might not catch anything, he will never tell u the truth, its ur decision to stay or leave, i am sure u will stay

poster do you value yourself? i ask because i feel you have low self esteems, as u stating that you knew he had nothing to bring to the table, yet some how you thought you could change a grown ass man who has been mooching off his family and others for years, yes i feel you were a fool and he was def playing you, i think you should be very selective, but hey that's life, sometimes you have to play the fool to not let it happen again.

how resourceful you are

I am extremely curvy and gifted in all areas. once in a while i will wish to be smaller, however anyone that i have ever dated has told me not too, but at the end of the day i will do what i want, and whatever makes me comfortable,

i do not think that guy is really interested in you, if he was TRUST he would have made some kind of move, by him telling you he does not chase women and that you have to make the move, says it all, he is just not that into you, so i would not even bother, if a man wants you bad enough, he will find you,

very true, some men love when a woman is harsh with them

hmm you need to show him just how CRAZY AND IGNORANT you can be in public as well, trust me once you do, he will never try to shame you in public,

you need to ask yourself that, however i am glad GOD has dealt with you, the one girl that has been by yourside, you have treated with no care, and the one you love has dealt you wrong, hopefully you will learn that not all that glitters is gold.

if our relation began like that and i am ok with it then ok, however if we have been intimate before and have intimacy and he suddenly stopped, i would ask why and get to the bottom of it, i would tell him to kick rocks at the end of the day, if someone does not want you, move on,

wow did you just write that or did your 5 year old? YOU CANNOT BE THAT DRY AND CORNY, i got hit by a car and yelled who hit me, INTERESTING, you really know how to crack on people  

wow ur dumb of course the correct spelling is retarded, as ive called u that in the previous page, thats why i made sure u know i meant kretarded, wow u can't understand easily huh, lmao now first i was a granny,.,.a librarian assistant now i have two sexes? ooh she is trying, good for u, so are u going to do ur family a favor and die ?

lol and who told you that? ooh i am sure more women see ur husbands nuts than you, you know 2005 yet you still dress and look like the 80's, swertie i feel sorry for you because you are a waste of skin, ur better of dead, no?

wow you are truly kretarded, yes kretarded, i dont know, didnt the didnt INS tell you that information when you were bringing your husband over? yes you are fertile, isnt that how you make your living, poppin out kids left and right, are any of them ur husband? does he even know he is ur husband or is this a fairlytale man