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@ Jenny, why not you mind your biz, have nt slept wit d two people u just mention, moreover i posted that stuff since , point of correction, my loneliness does not means my puzzy is itching for sex ok, Guess u are a lady

Am single bcoz, its seems am not Lucky enuf to meet d gud man, Even d one dat was twice my age which talk about marriage has even refuse to come down , Infact am just tired of the whole  stuff, maybe i show them lov more than they do,

u guys shud mind ur biz, This is her life for God sake, She knows what she want and what wud gives her peace, , or is it that u guys don't have what to think of or do, Plz u can start praying for our country,

Wish you d best

Thanks @ yusuf, i will baleful as much as i can, I nw God won't led me to any bad egg.

@ Dyt is not what u think, it just that u won't understand. I can as well visit a  good female  friend not men alone, But most females @ tyms are nt trust worthy like guys sincerely speaking. That y am closer to guys than girls,

Have just so board here need good friend to visit at least spent a week with , i mean real people not here for joke, just to change environment for some days. Any state is not far

@ clearemont, then what makes him not to open up, i mean is not by force, so why behaveing that way, ?

@ m m m, is not about getting what he wanted coz we ve actually not done anything yet. Am thinking if he has new catch

This guy does not pick my calls again, but he was so nice while i was in lagos but now that is in my state he would't

Our jealousy may be driven by social beliefs. Some of these beliefs that are entrenched in our mindscapes are:

* If my partner loved me completely, he/she wouldn’t love anyone else.
* If your partner finds the company of someone else interesting you need not feel insecure and jump to conclusion that you are not interesting any more and so on.
* If I was a good partner, he/she would not look elsewhere for companionship.
* Suppose your partner starts an affair, stop blaming yourself as the reason and instead of making it a my-problem issue, tackle it as a we-problem issue.

Is jealousy sometimes a good thing?

Every one of us has experienced jealousy somewhere or at some point of our lives. Jealousy has to do with possessiveness in relationships and is different from envy, which is targeted at someone else’s achievements or possessions. Jealousy is born out of other emotions like fear, anger, betrayal and powerlessnes, is it a gud thing?

Your girlfriend usually wants to know about what you like, what you don't like, how your day has been, etc. It's just about communication which is really important in a relationship. Also that your interested in her as well, try to ask her questions too and make sure the conversation isn't just focused on you.so what dose ur girl freind/ boy friend what to know,

Please i sincerely need good advice on what to do coz am really confuse,
My little sister of 15yr is pregnant i actually don't know what to do, And funny enough that she doesn't know that she is pregnant.
She came visiting me last week sunday from school and i just discovered it.
Please what should I do?

@Phate07 you are right coz have been noticing it

Not personality-fake, but artificial-accoutrement- fake: lashes, hair extensions, etc. To guys, these things shout high-maintenance! Not good.
what is really fake about u lol

@ desertboom

I know you want us to say something that will make you feel comfortable but the truth is always better. Why must a young able girl like you waste your precious life with a man that is not fully active in almost every sphere of life? Why must a young girl like you want to start what you may regret very soon in life? Why must all the young men break your heart if something is not wrong with you or your  behaviour? Why must you turn off all young men and choose old not-so-smart person man; don't you think is odd?  You may claim that you are not after money but the truth is obvious to every smart person. No offence, It's just the better truth.

I definitely know that is not everybody that will say something good about  this,With God i know i won't have anything to regret about, Nothing is wrong with me i say it and i will say it again, I just see myself being so open and transparent in a relationship and it happen that most men don't like that,  they are very comfortable with girls that will cheat on them, lie, i mean. I know the decision is just too odd but God will see me through

@ desertboom

I know you want us to say something that will make you feel comfortable but the truth is always better. Why must a young able girl like you waste your precious life with a man that is not fully active in almost every sphere of life? Why must a young girl like you want to start what you may regret very soon in life? Why must all the young men break your heart if something is not wrong with you or your behaviour? Why must you turn off all young men and choose old not-so-smart person man; don't you think is odd? You may claim that you are not after money but the truth is obvious to every smart person. No offence, It's just the better truth.

I definitely know that is not everybody that will say something good about this,With God i know i won't have anything to regret about, Nothing is wrong with me i say it and i will say it again, I just see myself being so open and transparent in a relationship and it happen that most men don't like that, they are very comfortable with girls that will cheat on them, lie, i mean. I know the decision is just too odd but God will see me through

Some pips are saying that something is wrong with me, Am possessing, difficult, all are wrong, I once post something about a guy I trusted so much, how He woke up one day and tell me that am too good for him to date, left me just like that in the name of what is best known to him.

@ Mygoldie, there is still needs for advice, there are pips that have been there for years , I believe with their experience , they still have some advices to give

A man died and goes to hell. There he finds that there is a different hell for each country
and decides he'll pick the least painful to spend his eternity.
He goes to the German hell and asks " What do they do here?" He is told " first they put you in an electric chair for an hour. Then they lay you on a bed of nails for another hour. Then the ,German devil comes in and whips you for the rest of the day. The man does not like the sound of that at all so he moves on. He checks out the USA hell as well as the Russian hell and many more. He discovers that they are all similar to the German hell.
Then he comes to the Nigerian hell and finds that there is a long queue of people waiting to get in, Amazed he asks, " What do they do here?" He is told " first they put you in an electric chair for an hour, and then they lay you on a bed of nails for another hour.
The Nigerian devil comes in and whips you for the rest of the day. But that is exactly the same as all the other hells, why are there so many people waiting to get in?" asks the man.
A concern fellow calls him aside and said, Because there is never any electricity so the electric chair doesn't work. The nails were paid for but were never supplied by the contractor so the bed is comfortable to sleep on. And the Nigerian devil used to be a civil servant, so he comes in, signs his time sheet and goes back home for other business.
Have a nice day.

Have tried with average guys but they turn to breaking my heart, not open, not honest, many things

thanks @snthesis, is a mistake , well that is where I found my peace.

This is not because of money or what, i just see him being the only man understanding me.

Please this is just me, i want to know if anything is wrong in marrying a person than is older than you, as in the age gap is actually wide lol

I am 27 getting married to a man of 53 please i just need real advice, i LOVE

The problems with GUYS:

If u TREAT him nicely, he says u are IN LOVE with him;

[b]If u Don't, he says u are PROUD.

If u DRESS Nicely, he says u are trying to LURE him;

If u Don't, he says u are from KAMPUNG.

If u ARGUE with him, he says u are STUBBORN;

If u keep QUIET, he says u have no BRAINS.

If u are SMARTER than him, he'll lose FACE;

If he's Smarter than u, he is GREAT.

If u don't Love him, he tries to POSSESS u;

If u Love him, he will try to LEAVE u.(very true huh?)

If u don't make love with him., he says u don't Love him;

If u do!! he says u are CHEAP.

If u tell him your PROBLEM, he says u are TROUBLESOME;

If u don't, he says that u don't TRUST him.

If u SCOLD him, u are like a NANNY to him;

If he SCOLDS u, it is because he CARES for u.

If u BREAK your PROMISE, u Cannot be TRUSTED;

If he BREAKS his, he is FORCED to do so.

If u SMOKE, u are a BAD girl;

If he SMOKES, he is a GENTLEMAN.

If u do WELL in your exams, he says it's LUCK;

If he does WELL, it's BRAINS.

If u HURT him, u are CRUEL;

If he HURTS u, u are too SENSITIVE!!
& sooo hard to please!!!!!
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Just laugh it out lol

lol, I think is just too early for a man u just meet

lol ahahahaha

Please what is your opinion on sleeping in a man's house you just meet not up to a month.

@ Google alone in anyway you can think of.