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there is this guy that has been off and on...he might disappear for2 to 3 yrs and re-appeared again after i might have forgotten about him....his here again asking me to live shool and go back and complete my fashion and design work.....plz is he reali looking for my progress ?

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author=byvan]Just delete his contact,he ll come to you with tales of marital woes but
all are lies.Adulterers always have such tales for their exes so they
can open their legs once again or more.[/quote]thanks..i will do just dt

byvan: I mean,why are you still keeping in touch with him,knowing that he is married?

@ byvan......i just came to know about it some days back coz i ws not around and we were not stayin in d same state.

Dyt: He's nt well
And u will b a foooool to open ur legs
I c it comin sha

..... how do u mean by you see it comin......wud u do dt? i mean someone u ev been dating for yrs concluding that u did nt want to marry him without proposing.......yet u still go a head to...... abi na jazz

byvan: Severe contact with this f*ol...if not,you might be telling another story after this.

@byvan i don't understand ur respond plz

He said i did not accept to marry him while he has not ask me to marry him or propose , now his married and stil want to sleep with me. is he well at all

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Thought this would help.... though am not finding mind yet oh even with all this...
Read and enjoy

Be Attractive
I know, I know, this is both obvious and oh so typical, but you simply cannot fight the way we (men) were made! Guys, even “great” ones, are still first drawn by looks! Does that mean if you don’t look like [insert your own concept of a super attractive woman here] you have no chance at a great guy? No! Emphatically no! There are things you can do to up your chances. Like caring about how you look. Do your hair. Wear clothes that suit your physique (rather than the latest fashion). Carry yourself well. Put a smile on that face. Be nice. It’s not so much your figure as it is what you choose to do with it! You’d be surprised how far good posture, a pretty smile and a friendly disposition will get you. A great guy is thinking long-term, and he’s subconsciously in search of someone to help him be a better man; no great guy goes looking for a sloppy frowny inappropriately dressed woman for long-term commitment.

Be Interesting
Do yourself (and the world, really) a big favor … know something about something; and no, the latest fashion and biggest sales don’t qualify! Travel, read, learn a second language, be up on current events, go see a hit play, play sports, popular video games, garden, exercise, do something! It can even be about work … but your work should be interesting. If you work as interpreter for the UN, or are a reporter for the Washington Post, you’re on to something, a secretary for a non-profit, hmm … maybe not so much, unless it’s a really great non-profit. But the point is, bring something to a potential relationship. A great guy wants to know he’s adding to himself. If he thinks he’s all there is in a relationship, that it’s all about him, then he’s not such a great guy, is he?

Be Interested
Here’s one that will require a little effort, but it pays off in big dividends. If you already know a great guy, pay attention to what interests him and learn a thing or two about it. Does this mean you’re selling out—a phony? No! Let’s say your great guy is into sports, or a particular team. No doubt he’ll provide some indication of his passion, a bumper sticker, or a banner or something … Ask him about it! You don’t have to become a expert on football (though I have to tell you, you could do a lot worse), but when you see him in the parking lot, ask him, “So, where did you get the [fill in the blank] bumper sticker?” Notice I did not suggest a question that has a yes or no answer … that would be a rookie mistake. Your potential great guy should provide some measure of pleasant conversation, that is: A. Non-work related, B. An insight into his personal life, and perhaps C. A great opening for the future.

Be Somewhere
Math time! If you tune into 60 Minutes in search of a Jay Leno comedy routine one hundred times, and you only see Leno once, what percentage of the time are you getting what you were looking for? One percent. Very good. Let’s say the segment they showed was not to your particular liking, how many more times do you anticipate watching in hope of seeing another? An additional hundred. I think you get my point. At that rate, with only one chance per week, and taking almost two years to spot anything worth considering, it could be many years before you, by chance,* would cross paths with your “great guy.” If you are going to the same work place, same church, same clubs, same association events, same whatever, day after day, year after year, and only seeing perhaps one possibility of who you’d consider “a great guy,” then it may be time for you to change your habits a little. Think about the types of things you’d want your great guy to do in his free time, soccer, baseball, gardening, museums, library, boating, horseback riding, hiking, movies, theater, fine dining, and get your butt out there and be in those places! At least place the odds in your favor!
(* It’s a different matter if your focus is on a particular type of great guy. In some cases you’ll have to narrow your field to perhaps museums, library, or just church … and in the latter case, prayer is likely your best option, but it doesn’t mean you can’t visit other churches and church functions with friends.)

Be Faithful
Picking up on the asterisk (*) above, for those who have faith, and have been praying and trusting God for their great guy, don’t give up the ship! All of these points assume that while you’re waiting for something this important you’ve got more to cling to than the number of the local pizza parlor and the a pile of Lifetime movies to cry through. When you’re waiting and hoping, it can get very very tough. Absolutely everything can feel like a giant “I-don’t-have-a-man-and-life-is-passing-me-by” sign pointing right at you. But truth be told, I don’t know of a single single that does not have a very good reason for being single (apologies for that alliteration). Most have avoided or escaped relationships with someone that just didn’t measure up, others have themselves been busy with their careers or time-consuming pursuits that just kept them out of the availability pool. But for whatever the reason, I’ve always found that during this process it can be difficult waiting on God … but it is nearly impossible to bear without Him. So don’t give up the ship, keep praying, and prayerfully add the other six points mentioned here to your strategy.

Don’t Be…
We’ve covered much of what you should do, but it’s worth mentioning a few that you don’t want to do. Don’t be desperate, desperation makes for poor decisions, and makes short term gains for long term problems. Don’t be fake—a key component of desperation; it’s okay to learn about what makes you more or less appealing, but remain true to all that is good in you. To put it bluntly, you don’t have to do things that are morally suspect to get (or keep) a great guy!

Last, But Not Least, Don’t Be Short Sighted
Sometimes there’s a great guy right under your nose but he just doesn’t “show well.” Very often … okay I’m gonna gamble and say almost always, the guy that brims with confidence and flare falls in one of three categories, self-centered, hiding a terrible flaw, or regretfully, already taken! There are perhaps a few exceptions, younger guys, recent widowers, and great guys who are so dedicated to something (career or noble cause) that they just haven’t realized how lonely they are, but those are rare. The point I’m after is that there is often a host of other guys, potential great guys, that just need a little polish. Perhaps they lack matinee star looks, or they’ve had their egos stepped on a few times by less caring women, but for whatever reason, there they are, true diamonds in the rough. Guys have a lot of garbage fed to them in their youth, and if they aren’t star athletes with all the smooth moves and a fancy car, they often don’t realize what great guys they could be. This is where the perfect yin to his yang is required. So don’t be so short sighted as to overlook the shy guy who with just the right woman can become a great guy. Widen your perspective a little. Perhaps he’s a few years younger than you, or maybe a few years older than you. Take a chance! If he invites you to dinner, and other than the one concern you have there’s no reason to be apprehensive, then apply a little shine to that lump of coal and bring the gem out! I’m not talking about rehabilitating someone with serious social issues, or accepting someone whose little flaw happens to be that he’s got a girlfriend (or worse, a wife!); but rather superficial short comings in the hair, height, weight, class, or dare I say, financial status. For just the right girl, a man in love can make some serious changes in his life. Changes that can mean the difference between being just any guy, and your great guy.

Men don"t appreciates people that are honest.....should i start telling lies?

Are there any good universities in Benin Republic.. i which to improve in french and have a degree also..Good information in needed .
thanks

Please can any one help with information on any good Aviation study center in Lagos......there are many addresses am seeing here but i really don"t know which to chose since am not in Lagos... plz i need urgent respond.
I just want to do something am so tired of staying at home looking for admission ...

He do help though, she is not saying is his obligation, but his disappointment at this dying minute,,, Normally she wud have seen how to get her rent, but she was relax coz of his promise.

what"s ATM, he promise to assist not to giver her everything,

how will you react to a boyfriend that says he want to marry you but refuse to help you.

Example your rent expired since a month ago, and you have inform him before now, and he promise to assist you, but refuses when the time comes, he rather tell you that he want to give his uncle"s wife a befitting burial first before your rent.

this is what my friend is going through

@ Renike, are u saying that there are no good ladies out there, ? it just thta the good ones happen to meet with the wrong ones

@ 190 who told you that all women did that? guess most men are Afraid of Relationships?
or resistant to real relationships, even though I'm sure you have your own "proof" to the contrary.

Men are everywhere, so why is it so hard to find the right one? this has been bothering me,
coz all men now to me happen to be the same

@ freecocoa, u shud no what nasty pix is. We have been for like 2yrs ,

@ mynd how wrong? U mean if u said u wnt to marry me and u are capable of assisting me, is wrong.

So you guys believe this fake story, Men are nt that stupid the days oh, Ask him well or let him tell u the truth @ lefu

This man is real case , i guess this man is married coz he wud ask me to just be flashing him dat he will call bt he won't

@ mishino no bi small thing oh,

Is it wrong for me to ask someone that says he want to marry me for an assistant? Must he be asking for my nasty pictures, ? Is he right by saying am telling him stories if i objected to his request? Why wud he be keeping other people pictures but deleting mind and if i ask him he will say is for security reson? Plz i need help

Please i want to know if there is anything that am lacking that could be causing this weakness each time am with my Menses, please this has been happening for some times now, i mean i will be very very weak and some times i will get scared.

hey, chy, people would not just stop copy and pest job, guess what some one came in here and copy this Topic and almost all the point i gave and went strait away and pest it on a page in today"s Sun news paper,

Mean what is that things that really really get you people attracted?

thought this tips would help,

1. Be sure there is trust in the relationship. [/b]The main fruit of keeping a long distance relationship is trust, you have to be able to trust your partner. It's difficult to do that because you don't really know what goes on the other side.

2. [b]Have patience. You signed up for this you need to wait.

3. Communication. Another important key, where possible communicate daily by email text or chat. Discuss interesting topics. Keep the discussion healthy. Forget the world and the problems. Show it to each other that the long distance is working for you. Tell your girl or guy you love him every time you communicate. It won't hurt. Remember somehow to make up for the time you had apart.


4.[b] Make sacrifices. [/b]Love is kind. You sacrifice many things for love. What ever may come up during you stay alone when you are lonely waitng for your love. There some things. Good things will come up. That is what you need to sacrifice.

The Game


I gave you a chance,
with my heart.
It tore me apart!
I heard the words,
you wanted me to hear.
Felt the connection,
You wanted me to feel.
Made me a believer,once again,
Of the feelings,I thought werent real.

Then came the reality of this game!
You played me like a fool!
I guess you thought, you were cool.
I assure you, it was just cruel.
Dont make a game of my heart,
Is all I ask!!
Tell me the truth, and we shall last.


This is so sweet

U guys here are actually not serious, well i trave, am somewhere now enjoying myself and ma money,