Please this is just me, i want to know if anything is wrong in marrying a person than is older than you, as in the age gap is actually wide lol

I am 27 getting married to a man of 53 please i just need real advice, i LOVE

This is not because of money or what, i just see him being the only man understanding me.

1st tins 1st- tis age "difference" not "different"
2ndly y u wan marry ur granpapa agemate

thanks @snthesis, is a mistake , well that is where I found my peace.

Well u said u happy wit him
go on gal
i can do same 2

*Wonders Shall never end*

Chai, E woooooooooooo.

Have tried with average guys but they turn to breaking my heart, not open, not honest, many things

@OP, you already made up your mind.what do you need our advice for?will it make any difference? ''just wondering''

@ Mygoldie, there is still needs for advice, there are pips that have been there for years , I believe with their experience , they still have some advices to give

I know you want us to say something that will make you feel comfortable but the truth is always better. Why must a young able girl like you waste your precious life with a man that is not fully active in almost every sphere of life? Why must a young girl like you want to start what you may regret very soon in life? Why must all the young men break your heart if something is not wrong with you or your behaviour? Why must you turn off all young men and choose old retard man; don't you think is odd? You may claim that you are not after money but the truth is obvious to every smart person. No offence, It's just the better truth.

Please, moderators don't edit my post again. It makes some of sentence senseless.

One advice from me, consider the kids u are going to bring to this world wit dis old man, wat if he dies when the kids are just maybe 3 to 4 years, how will u take care of the kids, becos 53 is close to the grave, I do not wish him dead.
My own advice here. Think nd really think

OP,
It's ur life . . . . .Since u re happy with him and won't be complaining about his sagging willy . . .Go ahead!

Age is generally just a number, but that age gap is way too wide. By the time you are his age, he's probably long gone as in dead or very useless to you.

Babe I have always had issues with age differences and even came on here to post about a break up 'bout one but that age difference "27" and "53" is way tooooo much! It doesn't make sense. By the time you are 40, he would be 66 and so on. Not reasonable. I'm sure there are other guys older but not this much. Think wisely

Mehn,poster the gap is pretty wide o,but truth is no one can make the decision 4 you,if you think you can live wiv watever comes wiv the union,then its your call,but truthfully honestly i can't marry someone dat old.

The man is almost twice your age, think before you make the big decision, and will you be able to cope with his already retiring kondo, which is one of d most important thing in any marriage.

ammamat:

This is not because of money or what, i just see him being the only man understanding me.

There must be sometin wrong wit u,its either u are a difficult lady or u are possessed or ur problem wil be 4rm ur village.

From ur name am guessing u are muslim n thus ur background has an influence on ur choice. I personally will not advise such a gap but if u are confident in ur love for one another then let nothing stop u.

^^^ n wat has muslim got 2 do wit choices?
Gosh sm ppl thinks so abnormal sef

I guess your happy and thats what matters but even my father and myself is only 21 years apart in age!!!!! What about when your 40 and he is 60! Others are right about kids. Will he be able to keep up with his own children when he is a grandfathers age. Your way too young for this. But as i said, no one can stop you if you have made up your mind. My father was a grandfather at his age!!!

Nothing wrong as long as ure happy and can manage his shrinking and wrinkling balls.

obowunmi:

Nothing wrong as long as ure happy and can manage his shrinking and wrinkling balls.

Eeeewwwwwww!!!!!! Just got a visual!! Get it outta my head, get it out!!!!!!

^^^ mayb i didnt read wel b4 u modified
m.oron.

My cousine who is a medical doctor got married 2 a woman much older than he is,they are livin hapily and their first issues were twins (a boy and a girl).

Have you asked your immediate friends and close family member(s) for advise?

Dyt:

^^^ mayb i didnt read wel b4 u modified
m.oron.

What the

ammamat:

Please this is just me, i want to know if anything is wrong in marrying a person than is older than you, as in the age gap is actually wide lol

I am 27 getting married to a man of 53 please i just need real advice, i LOVE

Don't you have parents?

Is he a billionaire?
If he is a billionaire, then I'd advise you to marry him, make him will everything he has to you, then get in contact with me for cyanide;afterwards, we will live happily ever after.

Some pips are saying that something is wrong with me, Am possessing, difficult, all are wrong, I once post something about a guy I trusted so much, how He woke up one day and tell me that am too good for him to date, left me just like that in the name of what is best known to him.