[quote author=DoctorOlasDesk post=111917399]
Even if that's how elections are won, does it make it the right thing to do? Nigeria is where it is today because we don't want to do the right thing. Campaign funds are scrutinized in developed country, you don't spend anyhow. Ex-president of France was found guilty of campaign funds related offences.
If most Nigerians think like you then we are not ready to leave our current situation. Sad.

Dstv, play station 3 and AC and you say you are comfortable?
1. I think there's more to life than what you mentioned. That you mentioned dstv and ps3 as properties makes me see you as poor minded as they are not properties at all and don't want to think you have arrived.
2. Since you consider yourself as someone that has it all made, why not marry her? Marriage is not as complicated as you think or as people make you feel. The complication in marriage is the mindset of the 2 people involved. If you can take care of the lady as you claim, why not marry her?
3. I see you just want a Bleep-buddy and someone to satisfy your loneliness and sexual urge. Nothing is free in life even in Freetown. You will pay one way or the other. And as some people have already commented, it's a trap. Don't she have parents or close relatives?
4. You're only looking for someone to validate your sinful actions. Am not one of them. Anyone that tells you to go ahead is setting you up for a fall and a big one at that. Remember all that glitters is not gold.
5. Any time you want to mention properties, remember people own houses at banana Island and Ikoyi.
6. Rethink what you are about to do.

You didn't marry the wrong person, you are just waking up to the reality of what marriage about. Am not a writer of some sort but I will only enumerate some thoughts for you.
1. See her as an opportunity to grow yourself financially.
2. Work on your self esteem cos I see you have a low self esteem and a poor worldview.
3. Your wife is supportive and she thinks big, use that to your advantage.
4. Be a leader in your home.
5. Be proactive, don't be reactive.
6. Initiate things and don't accept anything that would put you in debt.
7. Change how you see things. Be a man.
8. Hustle ooooo..
9. Let me say this again, your wife is not a bad person, don't see her as that.
10. Stop thinking you made a mistake.

I may be naive.

What can you do to get the one you love? In Titanic, Leonardo died for kate, Romeo died for Juliet, your fiancee lied about her age to get you, lol. Like you said, you've already made a decision. Are you sure that's the best decision? Her lie compared to her qualities and every other virtues, which out weighs which? Guy think,