₦airaland Forum

The guy is stupid and useless to think to act like that. If the op truly self serviced as she said and if she did explain to the guy as to what she was into and the guy still doesn't believe her then something is wrong with the guy because he married her because of her virginity and not love.

This is going to be a problem along the line unless the guy changes. Never will he ever believe her even when she is telling any truth.

This also should serve as a lesson to some ladies who fail to open up to tell someone about her past when going into relationship. Op should have told the guy that she normally was self servicing before they got married and I believe the man wouldn't have taken offence after.The lady knowing fully well of her past, should have taken steps to open up before proceeding with the marriage. Also for the man to have acted this way goes to show that he was bleeping other women and was reserving her for the d day but was disappointed.

darlenese:
Ask ur father to invite ur finace, so both of them can bathe together, tell him ur father is interested in seeing the hammer that will be hitting his dota's honey pot every night.
QED

Well said. Let her father invite the son inlaw so that he can now weigh the size of the son inlaw's hammer. Nonsense.

The lady should call off the said marriage because she is going to have problems in the future. This is just the sign of a bad family she is getting into.

You can imagine that all their bre--Ast dey firm and looking good.Nowadays, most young girls at 18, their bre--Ast done fall.

Immaangel:
Please help me. I went to visit my fiance at his village because there was a family occasion going on. I came two days before the occasion and stayed 3 days after the occasion.

Each time I want to take my bath, my would be mother-in-law will carry her bucket and want us to bath together. I've been avoiding her but it is getting out of hand.

What does she want to see? What is her motive? Please I need solutions to this problem.

Run for your life. She is a witch and want to initiate you.In fact I have never heard of such, unless the would be mother=inlaw is a lesbian.

Listen, just call off that marriage from the so called fiance.

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Sometimes I refuse to believe we have men who are emotionally wicked.

After how many years? And you let a good woman go?

And then he had the guts to ask that they still be friends probably out of his guilty conscience.

That man is wicked [/color]

Well spoken. The action of the guy is wicked and come one day, he will surely pay for that as nemesis will catch up with him.

[quote author=dossypretty post=31914777][/quote]Oh boy, you get eyes, brain and sense. Who on earth that will not be happy with this angel God has given you.

Happy married life. Mehn, if your wife should be as beautiful in heart as she looks outwardly, you should be happy.Handsome man and beautiful woman.

lalasticlala:
davido shared this on instagram a while ago....


''IT HURTS ME THAT THIS MAN WAS HOMELESS... HE SPOKE TO ME YESTERDAY FOR AN HR ABOUT LIFE AND HOW PPLE COME AROUND WHEN YOUR DOING WELL BUT AS SOON AS YOU LOSE EVERYTHING THEY DISAPPEAR ... FEEL LIKE GOD SENT A MESSAGE TO ME THRU HIM .. HE ALSO REFUSED THE MONEY I GAVE HIM , HE REQUESTED FOR ME TO BUY HIM FOOD INSTEAD ''


https://instagram.com/p/0kqyo3KULF/?taken-by=davidoofficial

He could be an angel in disguise.For giving food and hope to the man, Davido surely will be blessed.

A real man of God, educate from heaven by the Almighty God. He is real and God will continue to guide him.

The guy no get sense.He wanted to show off to his own detriment and the result is what he has seen.

How can a sane man use hand to pick an explosive.

Airforce1:
dis one suppose be man

God forgive me

God will forgive you because you said the truth. Even if she was created a woman, she has turned herself to a pure man. If she/he claim to be a woman, let she/he pull down that pant on her.

What I see is a pure acrobatic man who can even torture even a woman on while on action. Nothing for a man to even sleep with she/her unless the man is a bi-xesual

Something is surely wrong.

You pray that he does not have gang as what you did, might turn around you because this guys can be wicked when they come out of the trouble.The Nigerian police or those that you handed him over can collect money from him and let him go and they can turn around and come after you guys.

Thank God for what He has done in your life.

I think we should narrow every aspect of life to discipline.If you see food and over feed yourself because it is free, it becomes sin.If you even drink water and over use it, it becomes sin.If you even get married to a woman and when you are supposed to go to work, you are on top of her, it becomes sin. If you over laugh or over enjoy yourself, it becomes sin.

Nothing that is not sin. Even some pastors commit sin when money given as offering and tithe becomes what they think and preach, instead of giving to the poor ones among them.

Sport betting is something that you can play for fun and still go about with your life.When you get addicted to it like alcohol, it becomes sin.When you steal in order to play betting, it becomes sin same way to steal and go to church because you want to be known as a man who give the largest offering and tithe, it becomes sin. Food you eat and cannot do without eating it, becomes sin.

When you are working in an office and you are not comfortable with the salary you get, it becomes an addiction when you start taking part of your employer's money, it becomes sin.

I do not look at people who bet as sinners because they use their money in doing that and when they go out of their way to borrow to play and start incurring debt to play, it becomes an addiction and sin.

When you look at a woman lustfully, it becomes sin. Nothing on this earth when you get yourself involved and no discipline is taken, you are in for it because we all are sinners. I hate when people come here to talk rubbish. What of churches whereby they start selling bazaar and people offering different prices and the highest bidder gets it, is it not gambling or betting?

rokiatu:
Offcourse that's his dream. Nigga be doing everything usher does just to be another usher.

Well breaking news there will be only one usher. The one and only usher Raymond.

That said, they actually kinda look alike. Peter if you are viewing this thread, you can now celebrate cuz I know that's what you wanna hear.

Well said Rokiatu.Just doing everything within his reach to be like him but that shows inferiority.That is just him but not Usher.

He got only four fingers? He lost one out of five?

Photoshop

The guy no sabi how to pose with a lady? Na waoooooooooo.He looks like a house boy and his madam.

The parents of the dead child should be jailed for the death of the innocent child. Anywhere in the world, you do not leave an underage with a baby. Too bad.

Steezz:
Guys I don't think it means they are dating...it probably just means they have been platonic friends for 8 yrs...come on!

Maybe the so called boyfriend is a gay guy,

omanifrank:
www.nairaland.com/attachments/2230533_dsc4202edit_jpeg46d0e8946d4e239961a9b0fa88ddb165
Anita Odiakaose (Miss Tourism Asaba 2014/2015)

The Delta State Born Is A Beauty Queen For Sure..

www.nairaland.com/attachments/2230534_dsc4210_jpeg47bd128b78ea247dfa2c6161e415b0cf

She Is The Current Miss Tourism In Asaba Delta State.

www.nairaland.com/attachments/2230535_dsc4224_jpega5dac47df76b8572eae202975c606fb0

Anita Odiakaose Is A Young Promising Deltan Lady

Lets Unveil Somethings About Miss Tourism Asaba..



[b]May We Know You -

Am Anita Odiakaose

Are You Been Called By A Nickname? -

Oh yes!, Some Of My Friends Do Call Me CherryA

www.nairaland.com/attachments/2230536_dsc4205_jpege8f1fb39faa9ef4f0a9050adbbadbc40
So What Tribe Are You From? -

Am Proudly Ibo

www.nairaland.com/attachments/2230550_dsc4199_jpeg757695f4f9b480fc276f3b0b71ec4892
www.nairaland.com/attachments/2230551_dsc4229_jpeg543b69d47ac25a74ca6ae1fd4d6e79af

Is There A Man Hanging Out By You? -

Well For Now Am Pretty single

Occupation - Student

Whats Your Educational Background? -

Hmmm, AM Currently Schooling At Nnamdi Azikiwe University,Studying Political science And In My (300L)

SOme Of Your Turn ON and Turn Off - I love been cheerful and I hate been sad

www.nairaland.com/attachments/2230579_1_jpeg83b5009e040969ee7b60362ad7426573



Instagram - @exclusitequeen
Facebook - Anita Odiakaose‎

What Are Your Hobbies? -

I Have Always Loved Modelling, Dancing, Acting Till Date

www.nairaland.com/attachments/2230578_dsc4227_jpeg8eb81ee01e2077464b06351ccc3f771f

Tell Us In Brief About Your Biography? -

Am From Delta state, IKA Northeast Local Government Area, Akumazi -Umuoacha. A Young Promising Lady Who Loves To Contribute To The Society.)[/b]

Mis wetin dem call you, If Uduaghom catch you, the Governor or wetin be his name, you will hang for his bed.

mchimezie:
[size=50pt]FOOLISH IGBO BOY WANNA STEAL IN A YORUBA SKUL
THUNDA TIRE UNA EZE FOR OWERRI[/size]

Poor man from poverty ridden family.Why calling IGBO here.You already know is one of you. It is not hidden and his name is there.

favoured234:
I don't know if its because I am petite or something else... I don't feel intimidated by anyone's look I just act like I don't care..
Petite ladies have got extra guts and I know I am pretty smart..
What about Will Smith and Jada?
I am a 5'4 and was with a 6'4 don't ask us how we coped .. The times I felt funny were when we get to some gathering and all eyes will be on us...(I know in their minds they will be like how is this little one coping)

Being a petite lady is a blessing baby because you do not have problem with weight an all those flesh that age them.
Do you know the problem most of these ladies go along with? Their breath, their inability to take proper bath, cannot cope with their thighs and so many problems and also sweating. In fact, big ladies have problems. Moving them around when you are having fun or itimacy is another big problem.You cannot maneuver them and their thighs are always a problem to handle while petite ladies would turn your life around with most of them having firm bossoms and many things.

Let them post the pix of the ediot

Op, build your faith in God and work with the lady in a righteous manner and at the end if you end up getting married, you will enjoy her because both of you built your faith in God.Such ladies are hard to come by. Never allow those encouraging you to try drag her into sin.

She is a good girl and please at 26, you can get married and God Almighty shall provide you with all your needs.

Such ladies are hard to find.Most ladies these days will open their front and back in order to woe you to sin before marriage and at the end, you suffer.

swtme:
Just keep reassuring her that u truly love her. ..she just needs u to continue proving ur love 4 her

You see your life? Because you get involve and have no remorse over your action and you are here telling him to keep reassuring her of his luv until the guy start having carnal knowledge of her like you are doing.

Why not tell him to allow the girl be since the guy is not ready for marriage yet.

almostFamous:
lol@giant ladies. Now,do u ladies have inferiority issues,like when u see ur "boo" talking to a bigger ladie with all d curves,don't u feel intimidated? I have never seen a tall dude getting married to a small girl before tho? Sex would just be awkward.

Where on earth you stay? Are you telling me here that you have not seen a tall guy getting married to a petite lady? Listen, bigger ladies with those curves are been covered with fake dresses they put on. By the time you remove those dresses, what you see, will put you off.Stretch marks and body that cannot move a guy.Unless the guy doesnt put on light before getting down on them.

BritneyStacy:
This is a follow up to my earlier post this morning. I want to shed some light and possibly answere some questions raised by some Nairalanders..
We don't Ђåvε̲ a child yet because my husband insited he is not ready for one yet. That he needs time to setup this particular business and getting a baby would distract him sort of. I differed greatly from that.mbut he isnsited that he I get pregnant when he is not ready I should be ready to cater for it alone till he is ready. I had to yeild n register for family planning. Now I am thinking of deliberately getting pregnant and telling him it was a mistake so as to secure my place in the marriage. Unfortunately,I gave him almost al my savings to start the business which am yet to understand what form its taking till now.
Secondly, when I said I contributed to about 60percent to what is in our home now, am not making a mistake. I met him just 1year after he started working. He had barely nothing in his apartment as he just startewd working na and that is quite understandable. We Ђåvε̲ been dating since then till we finally got married.. Since we started dating, I Ђåvε̲ been supporting him! I'll cite just an instance-when he bought a car , the car dealer got something costlier than his budget. I gave him 200k then to balance the payment. That was before we married. There are many other instances ike that. I wouldn't mention them because I did it for us and I believ in "us" but now it feels am alone in such thoughts.

Madam, having gone through your write- up, I deduce this that you are surely into bondage and been taken advantage of as I believe that you married a fraud.I am sorry to use that word.

How can you be taken advantage of up to the point that you were asked by a man you are married to and he is not ready for children and if you get pregnant, that you are on your own? I now ask you; are you into BONDAGE or are you blind to note that this man is deceiving you? Were you been blindfolded spiritually or that you do not know what you want as a grown up?

In fact it is even better that you do not have a child for such a man and you can walk out of this relationship because there is no light along the tunnel.

One should note that you do not marry out of sympathy. One should not marry out of sympathy. I believe that he is taking his time to establish himself and come one day, he would take another woman.

Find your way by taking a walk.