Its not deluded to pay your tithes and give your offerings. What you do is between you and God and what they do with it is between them and God. Chikena!

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Fantababy,
My honest advice to you is to leave this guy alone for your own sake. I am married and I can tell you that marriage is very difficult and you do not want to add the pressure of looks to your wahala. So if he thinks u are fat now what will he say when you are pregnant? I believe a size 12 is a beautiful size and if u are happy with urself he shd be happy with u. I was a US 6 when i got married and got to a 12 when i was pregnant I'm stuck at 10 and not once has my husband complained ( ok to be honest he complained when i jumped into his arms ,lol!). But the truth of the matter is that u do not need this guy and if he truly loves u he will tell his friends that he doesnt care how old u look, that he loves u and will love u forever. I think he wants to use u for whatever his intentions are and then chase small small girls around abi? Just my 2 pence.

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Give him his ring and tell him to go f**k himself. You don't need his sorry a** in ur life. He probably is reconsidering his proposal, tell him to get lost.

Men selfish bastards and she shd not leave her job.