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Congratulations to the gunners


Meanwhile,

Points well stated


Many deny it, but marriage is still a major status symbol in the African society.


"She is a married woman", has more societal regard than....... "she is a single woman"

Men are not spared either

All my mistakes are lessons, however, the most profound lesson I learnt was "your health is your biggest asset".

Many illness will be prevented if you eat enough fruits daily and get good rest.

In all you do, take care of your health!


Meanwhile......

Thinking pregnancy can earn marriage is still one of the prevalent reasons for uprising rate of single mothers.

A lady knows what to do to control pregnancy, but many try to use pregnancy to manipulate and get commitment, forgetting that it's too big a risk to take.

Do a quick test and ask random ladies, if they will be single mothers for their celebrity crush, you will be amazed that a good number will have no problem with that.


Pregnancy trap works in western world, ladies, don't think pregnancy will give you access to a man's resources or commitment

Akwaibom to Calabar.......... Haba, any serious guy would try to meet up.


2 years and no physical meeting between 2 neighbouring states....... The lady has a point

Budget for screening teachers' background should be deployed to their welfare first.


Teachers deserve better

I saw my secondary school Math teacher, retired, a very sound and exceptional man....... I wept inside



Meanwhile,

I wonder how self made men shoulder all these bills.......


Meanwhile,
An unfailing female psychology secret is ....... "Provision gives submission"

Forsake not the days of humble beginnings....


Olamide is here, just like the first day of the year.

If you remember this line, you're a legend

Nigerians should understand that Dangote is a business man........ and must get ROI


70% production capacity is still short of maximum returns for investors


Although we benefit from Dangote, he is not the saviour

The same way, many men do not see green lights given by women interested in them........even when every woman can tell the signs.

Many women do not see the red lights of a man who wants to have her honeypot....... even when every man can tell the signs


Every man knows what is behind the "pure intentions"

Village people

Hardest lesson:



A man who stands for nothing will fall for anything.


Meanwhile,

If not for sexual perversion, what is wrong with the friend zone!



Must you date every girl you like, can't a guy like a girl and a girl like a guy without romance!

Nollywood has shown us many invisible people, they are called ghosts, they haunt those that killed them.


Plot twist: after you do what you want, you'll realize you can't return to your normal visible form...... That's when you'll appreciate who you are now.

Lies are soothing to the ears

Many so called relationships of today is business.

Sex and resources, nothing more than these two.

Op has a point "no one wants to be choked"

The most profound way to spot a girl that likes you is when she gives you things that cost her money.


If a naija babe spends her money on you, then you truly matter.

Someone ince said that "When women chase you, then there is a next level blessing coming" and " Women are attracted to glory, this is a test, after you discipline yourself and pass, then you'll see that a breakthrough will come afterwards"


This may be true or false, but stay away from forbidden pleasures like married women.

Mistake that made me better

Giving cash in big transactions, receiver denied.

Now I do only transfers for my business dealings, the receipt helps to show proof and help me track my cash flow.

Humans can not be trusted with face value especially when big money is involved.

Entitlement mentality is the worst mindset for anybody to have.

Family, friend, lovers or even work....... Entitlement is jealousy, selfishness and ungratefulness put together in one.

Avoid anyone with this mindset, they are the true enemy of progress

I had a 25yrs old friend who has flat backside and tiney bre@sts, guys do not toast her because she looked underage. As soon as she started adding more flesh, see attention....


Qualities to be toasted
If you have bre@st or Ny@sh or height or gap teeth or fine face or nice skin or sexy voice....... Men will toast you. Having 2 - 5 of these qualities is enough, more than 5 and then you will become the goddess of lust to men

You can enhance your toast ability by working on these qualities

Nehyooh:
Well done o Professor of toastology, keep it up o

How about they donate parts of dead inmate to those that need them for medical issue? Just thinking out loud.


Not organ harvesting

When a house agent in Lagos tells you to pay inspection fee and transport for every house you guys inspect.

... And agent fee is more than 10% of annual rent.

The most agreeable reason why a lady in her 30s is unmarried is because of unrealistic standards, there is always a guy in your circle that you can manage, but he may not be the dream guy you see in Korean movies.

I see my girls competing for a minority of men while their friend zone is filled with potentials whom they disqualified.


My ladies, check your friend zone, your potential husband is there.

He has a valid point.

Everyone has their prime, use your prime time wisely.

A man's prime increases as he gets older with more resources, a woman's prime decreases as she gets older with less youthfulness.

Everyone should maximize their prime time and not settle for less than you deserve.

In the primitive mating plane, Virginity and low sexual count is valuable on a lady, because the body feature and capacity is important in reproduction and family preservation but for the man, ability to provide resources is the supreme value on a man, hence the virginity and body count of a man does not matter much to a woman as it is to a man.


In basic family reproductive plane:
Women need fertility, a good womb, suckle mamary gland, preserved chastity
Men need ability to provide, protect and sustain


Conclusion: A man considers a virgin or low body count as mother of his children.

A woman considers the provider and protector as father to her children.

Therefore, the advice of the OP makes sense but in reality, is invalid.

Once a man can control himself from getting sex, he gains control.

When a man can control himself from giving sex, game over!

Sex is power to most ladies, so when a man outrightly rejects them, they doubt themselves.


No

lowkeybahdguy:
............. Man is an animal and thus, must fulfill his animal desires and responsibility.

What a way to reason!

Iamsane:
Keywords right here... Getting sex, giving sex. Madt o.

You're wise

Avoid bad friends, they influence you unconsciously.