CsRockefeller:


My dear, there are no second chance for most people. Yours is marriage, another might be to go back to school, another might be to re unite with their parents/children.

In life most people don't have second chance, if you finally get one grab it with both hands and guard it jealousy because it's a cold world out there, people will over run you when you fall instead of lend a helping hand for you to stand on your feet.

You're right.

JayReeMai:
so you’re saying men from other regions treat single mothers well lol I’m not even bothered about that.
I’m only concerned about myself, If you can’t gimme your best years, don’t expect me to be there for you when you far spent.
most of these women make stupid choices and end up with the wrong kind of men.

You sounds as if you're the Messiah that has come to save me.
Lol.

femi4:
Be open minded, don't restrict your options. Why are you leaving single men out

If he have a child and I have mine
is better, we could join hand to care for our children together. So that noone will feel cheated or left out.

Arsenate:

He probably feels, logically right, that it will be in your child's best interest to grow up with both parents, but as the typical emotional beings that women are, you are more obsessed with the fleeting feeling call love.

Thanks for sharing

genq:


Notice how "she" conveniently put this disclaimer out there - OP wants to make sure his/her victim is financially buoyant enough to be fleeced

Nice one!

My choice. You don't need to border about that.

oyatz:


Although my stand may seems old fashioned but I will still go with it;

Forgive your Baby Papa, learn to start loving him again and rejoin with him to build a happy home.


If the man is not a criminal, doesn't smoke weeds, not a drug addict and he is ready to change, accept his apologies and start working together with him.

I have seen many apparently bad men whose lives turned around for good when they settled down with a woman.

I know a man in the early 1990s who was an ex-convict, a part time tout and chain smoker but he somehow impregnated a beautiful lady in 1993.

His mother forced him to marry the lady and even housed them for years.
A job was fixed for him in Lagos Mainland LGA as a motor park revenue collector. He became financially comfortable and even started appearing younger that everybody started wondering how he suddenly transformed to a respectable & comfortable married man (in 1990, he used to bungled apartments in our compound and steal our things).

He started living a normal life, wakes up early to go to work, returned by 5pm to help the wife in her shop and they both come home around 10pm.
Ogoro drinking and weed smoking stopped, only occasional cigarettes smoking.

Your emotional stability will be better and things will be less cumbersome for you if your lover is also the father of your son.

Thanks for sharing. Although, I'm no longer interested in that direction.

murphyrichy:
OP, you didn't say your Age? where you married b4?

ok. I will modify my post

donbachi:
Wat if a nairalander pursue him wife marry u.

That's a wrong one. I didn't pray for that.

gerizzim:
rephrase ur request by telling us why ur nt wit d man marid u or the man dt give u belle so we know ur where ur comin frm?

Maybe when I met him, we'll share all those stories together not here.

decatalyst:
Babe, calm down and don't limit yourself.


You don't have to try again with a single father. A man who is young and not married can love you and your kids and you guys can grow together.

What you need to do is to be open-minded and never allow any man trick you into tasting before marrying you
Best of luck.

Thanks.

I don't know if this is the right platform to post this. But let me start from here.

I registered, just be post this.

I think it's time to take a good decision. I'm emotionally stable and willing to give it a try again.
I believe in love, good family, beautiful home, caring and loving partner and all the beautiful things that comes with marriage.


I want to meet a single father, who is ready to love again, a good and kind hearted person, whose relationship is not complicated.

We could start by being friends.

I'm 29, never been married. My son's father wanted us together, but there's no single memory of love and care to help me love him. So, it's time to make a nice decision.


Married men looking for second wife, young guys looking for sugar mummy, please stay away. Thank you