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BaeMercy:
why did she marry if she doesn't want kids when she knows she can mistakenly take in... some women sha

Well, I think not everyone believe child bearing is mandatory in marriage.

extol1:
op, the foundation of the marriage was based on pure lies. to an African man, child or children are his pride. a man with so much wealth without a child is not value in the society. and I want to believe that the lady know that the man lied to her by agreeing to her terms.
for me, she can give birth to the baby and take the baby to an orphanage home

I can't really tell if the foundation was based on lies, they both school abroad, same orientation. Maybe along the line the man developed a different desire from the initial plan

Juliearth:
I dropped your moniker on the thread, go for it girl, but please be careful and do your due diligence, Okay?

Yes. I've seen it. but i''m not interested.
Thanks so much

waleademolaa:
I didn't divorce, she mistakenly got pregnant, that's how it happened, I send them money monthly though, a boy too

I saw your reply yesterday, but I didn't know what to say. I'm sorry about that.

I'm not interested. I wish you all the best. May you find lots of happiness and fulfillment just the same prayer I pray for myself.

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In a democratic would, the citizens have freedom of peaceful protest.

Which system of government do we practice in this part of the world?

Shame

Greedy and selfish people ruling innocent people.
In Nigeria, once you're out of government, you speak against the government.

Mr Jiga, you would have made great change in the country for the freedom of the common man, but what did you do during your time?

The failed nation we have today emanated from your betrayal.

Without talking his wife down in your presence, how can he gain your confidence?



Don't mind them, they're just lieing.

Besides, a man who calls his wife those hurible names, is incapable of geniue love.

Was almost taking this serious until I discovered it's a guy behind the story?

Lieing and scaming no dey tire una for this place?

Jokers everywhere

waleademolaa:
You're given up so easily babe gal, why don't we try

can we chat here alittle before we go private?

Were you married and divorce or how?
Me, I've never been married. Just had a son with my ex boyfriend. That was a long time ago.

TheCongo2:
Don't give up.
Just apply excessive caution.
The set of people you meet online are the same one you would find in real life, good and bad people.

I would encourage you to keep on meeting people online but don't rush into anything.

Best of luck to you

Thanks dear

Foodqueen:
Check that waleadedamola out, he requested for same thing in one of his post.

Give him a chance. Above all, am glad that you are doing this with your eyes wild open.

Best wishes.

Thanks dear

This is inhuman. The Jesus we're emulating will not hurt us like this.
It's high time Africans stop glorifing church wedding like this.

waleademolaa:
OK, thanks, but can you tell me why

I tried, it didn't work, so I gave up and completely lost interest.

waleademolaa:
Have you seen!? I'm a single dad with a boy child, let's connect

No. But I'm no more interested. All the best

purehearttt:
clearly you lack understanding.

Understanding of what? Why am I wasting my chat on you sef?

Dainy1:
@op, did you find any from here? Hope everything is going well with the relationship?

I didn't. The first person I connected with, was calling from osun state with an international number. It looks frudelent. So, I blocked him. The next person I choose to connect with, really swept me off my feet, our communication was perfect, but i later caught him through Facebook. He was married since 2019. He lied. Anyway, I have forgiven him and blocked him already.
We never met, just phone calls and chat.

I amost shared his name and wedding pics here but no need.

The rest PMs, going through their previous post, I was not interested.

I'm no more interested in online dating any way

What do you expect?

madridguy:
Is the man following her up and down?

Since last week, she has been on house arrest. The man wouldn't let her out and promise to kill her if she have Miss carriage.

Klass99:
Meaning no offence but this woman is sounding dumber and dumber, with more details you reveal, and if it's you my apologies.

I know for certain I don't want children and I don't plan to have any, so I am very deliberate, intentional and meticulous about it not happening.

You don't make mistakes with this sort of thing, she has been careless in different ways. Getting drunk then romping without before or after precautions, is just one of the ways she has been careless. I'm just saying not trying to rain on her parade.

If she's legally married let her have the baby, they say it changes our minds about not wanting kids, hopefully that may happen for her, but if it doesn't she still needs to be thoughtful and considerate of her spouse and the foetus. Her desire cannot at this time trump his or the foetus who didn't ask to be conceived.

Whatever she decides pls let her not terminate the foetus, it is not just mere blood forming in her womb, it is a whole and complete person taking shape inside of her already. And please tell her to move on from this without being this careless in future, if she's truly serious about not wanting kids.

It's a friend I'm advising, I've really exhausted all my advice that's why I brought it here for bigger mind.

She's insisting on divorce, but the man said no until their baby is born.

mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

Why do you want to drag your innocent mother into an online insult? What's your problem spoit child?

adanny01:
She should have done Hysterectomy before meeting her husband.

Yes. You're right. That's past now, the deed has been done.

DaddyRochie1642:
Op tell us the truth,.... I know It's YOU that this thing happened to.

No. Not me.

StPete:
How can a man trick you when you first have the power to use birth control pills of several kinds if you're so dedicated to not having children.

Also, if she truly didn't want any child, she would've done an abortion without mentioning it to her husband

accordingly to her There were both drunk on two to three occasion. No protection

madridguy:
She should also trick the man too and get rid of the pregnancy

I just hope the lady never get pickin somewhere come dey bobo the guy.

But the man is aware now.

A lady who never wanted to have a child, Accordingly to her, she don't want all the pain and stress women go through to nurture a baby.

She aggreed with her partner. And both claim they don't want children, but two yrs into the marriage, she mistakely took in.

Now she want an abortion and the man wouldn't let her. The family is breaking out. She claim the man trick her.

What would you advice here?

Size and shape gone wrong

purehearttt:
you're foolish, op is trying to give hope to our sisters and you are saying rubbish.

If a woman post, you insult her, if a man post, you still indirectly insult the woman. What is wrong with some of you and your sense of reasoning in this part of the world? No one do another a favor by marrying them.

LutanFyah:
No High Value Male will waste his time and resources on the dregs (single mothers) of the female folks.


I can get virgins and sweet girls without baggages with the same resources, so why waste it on filth in the name of love and have me cater for a bastard(s).


Simps and men reeking of low self esteem can have all of them.

As a wise man, when you come across post that detest you, you walk away. There's no need displaying all these on my post.

Newbreed2018:
Maybe u need to start a tutorial. To improve ur communication skills and spoken English so that when the right man comes u dnt chase him away with ur spoken English. Tnx

Really?

JayReeMai:
I’m not captain save a ho’

Is that how you call your mother, girlfriends and sisters? Who made you a savoure?


Well, I don't waste my time exchanging words with your type because I don't know if you're going through hard time or you might be a teenager who is privilege to own a mobile phone, so you might not really have manners talking to people on a faceless forum. So, relax. I don't have time for you.