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I'm not feeling suicidal but sometimes I really feel sad and bitter about life
I feel I'm alone in this world and I don't feel I really matter to anyone or anybody
I had a very rough childhood experience, And growing up I lost my mum, and then my dad works faraway, it just changed alot of things about me...
I just feel alone,Every semester I vacate from school I just come back to an empty house,I feel so left out in life
But I have never thought about suicide
No matter what I'm facing
I rather live my life hoping for a better tomorrow,with the help of God
When there is life
There is hope

Its my School and right now there is protest
And all students have been asked to vacate School premises with immediate effects
It is well with all balewites

It has been a sad and traumatic experience for me since I lost my mum at a tender age
I watched her give up the ghost in my very presence and it pained me so much that I couldn't do anything to save her
I prayed so much in my heart, but everything only worsened till she departed
It has not been an easy one truly, everyday I miss her so badly,I feel so lonely and empty
When I come back from each semesters holiday
I don't get anyone to welcome me
But God has been helping
He has been my comfort and strength through life's journey

Vicloteck:
Sincerely relationship is not about sex , the bad metality in youth now is sex is relationship , some even call it trade by bater (quid pro pro) , i won't really blame that , girls caused majority of the problem , almost all Nigerian girls have this entitlement metality in relationships , they believed the bf automatically become their FATHER instead of them to create goals that will help the relationship and make their life better with the BF instead you girls are after material things . As a result of this , the bf will take them as sex object since they have nothing to offer apart from their puss...

no you are wrong
Every guy right now wants sex
It doesn't matter what you offer
It's their nature
Well i rather stay on my own

Vicloteck:
You expect me to believe this GP . You are deceiving yourself . My only advise for you is to study hard , don't be distracted so you won't disappoint your parents . Incase you don't know , associate yourself with intelligent guys who are well disciplined and goal chaser . Lastly , if you failed to listens , guys will keep eating you and disposing you and you might carry EGGROLL with no owner .

yes youre right,that doesn't have to be my GP,that doesn't change the fact that I'm smart and outstanding student,why do you feel relationships is all about sex, well thanks 👍 for the advice no hard feelings

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Vicloteck:
OP , tell me your current GP and i hope you don't have any carryovers .

hmmm
Well my GP is 4.51
And im a medical student
It doesn't matter what a persons academic performance is
Don't go about insulting people
Please tame your tongue
We are humans and we are deserve to be accorded some respect

Dyfynezz12:
20 yr old girl should be facing her studies nd not looking for who to show her fake love.
U 're 20 yrs nd have received series of heart breaks got me thinking how old u were when u started dating.

i was 19
A very decent relationship void of any sexual relationship

Gee64:
At twenty, I expect you to think more about your career and upgrading yourself.

If craving for a relationship is your wahala boys go take preek scatter your toto and later call you names after they have all used and dumped you. You may end up being a Baby Mama.

They look for permanent preek instead of building a career for yourself and engaging in a paying job. Olodo. Obo to baje!

why does everyone thinks relationship is all about sex, why is the society now void of good relationships without anything sexual

Vicloteck:
OP , ur parents sent you to school to read and graduate with good grade but here you are looking for relationship. You don't have sense , no wonder most Nigerian girls are useless , they won't study hard in school which in the long run affects their reasoning level. This is not the first time i will say this guys , don't date empty skull in the name of relationship , try and check their reasoning level to avoid stories. Am sure this OP has nothing upstairs and that is why guys are dumping her. I thbelieve a responsible guy won't dump a decent knowledgeable girl .

well this is too much for me
I'm not dull
I am intelligent, creative and decent person
I think most of you here comment just because you want to ridicule people
I'm growing up,someday I'll get married and i happen to be in a relationship
But i noticed it isn't working out well
I don't see anything wrong in seeking for advices
Well,I'll look pass your insults..

Johnchrix:
i think u are not investing enough in ur past relationships. Change ur pattern and try again. Pay more attention to ur partners needs and attend to them.

true, i really do all i can to make things work out well,but only gets worst because i can't give what they ask of
But the thing is that they always come back to begging me to take them back,but i can't let myself,cos i don't want repetition of what happened

Rainbow10:
What are you self developing huh
"The right suitor will come"(everyday slank.......)

you've said it all sir

Johnchrix:
your location

bauchi

advanceDNA:
In the University...no one is ready for marriage... Sex and fun is the only things boys are looking for ...

thanks

Urexcellency:
Nothing is wrong with you, the right person will come

thanks
I think you're right
I'm fine
I'll just focus on self development
For now
And forget about relationships

CloudTrees:
Nothing is wrong with you.
When I was your age, I memorized all songs I could lay my hands on. That way, when I meet a woman I like, I will start singing especially all those 2face lyrics

Had females all around me like birds. The same way you can try doing that for a man you like.

thanks for your kind words

advanceDNA:
Yawn!!!! It's now u know u don't have sex....if u know the reason is because of ur no sex policy..why come here are u making it look like u don't know what thee issue is before.....y never mentioned that in the first place

. Everyone knows no sex stand will make men dump u in the University because no one Is ready for marriage but only fun......

hmmmm
If you read my writeup correctly
I said relationship
Who told you sex is the only thing needed in a relationship
Please just stay calm

advanceDNA:
U girls will see level headed, kind hearted guys in ur prime, that will even help u stay focused and productive.....u will not date them...u will say they are effico..too brilliant and boring..because they don't look like davido and lil-kesh

....yall will be looking for werey..., boys with 1.2 to 2.2 CGPA...boys that goes to party and off campus orgies ....that no matter how good u are they just want to fvck and go.... continue.. ur body count go soon reach 50...

please watch the words you use on people it'll help you live on earth
Firstly you don't know me from anywhere
Secondly I'm not that kind of person
I am decent and highly moral
I don't go about sleeping with men
I'm still young and sex should not be what i should engage in at the stage of my life
And i think that's the reason I'm getting failed relationships
Cos I'm not ready to do what my peers do
Please guard your tongue gentle man
It took me courage to share my issues
This was a bad idea afterall

Chibuzoripob:
Ok. Face your study and graduate.You'll see a good husband that'll love /cherish you

thanks so much
I'll consider this

Uchenna10:
Same here,but I'm a guy...

all is well

Chibuzoripob:
aJust exercise patient so that u won't fall into wrong ✋/ become emergency baby mama.where is yo location

I'm in bauchi state

Chibuzoripob:
All will be well with you.Dont RUSH in

i feel 😔 so
That someday everything will be okay

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AskProf:
It matters that you are a liar.

"You have not joined though you have not been active."

please i don't accept any ill statements whatsoever
If you don't have solution for me
Then stay calm

AskProf:
You just joined on 30Oct2022?

doesn't matter
I've not been active

wittywriter:
You've yet discovered yourself.
Get a lifecoach or go close to an elderly for life counsels.

Build your self esteem by never comparing yourself with others...drop your digits then delete after 2mins...for further expertise help/counsel.

Wittyness.

thanks

wittywriter:
You've yet discovered yourself.
Get a lifecoach or go close to an elderly for life counsels.



Wittyness.

you're right i think I've not discovered myself yet
I'm still battling with low self esteem

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Ok

Big congrats