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i wil pretend cos i cant tell him its too embarassing

okay now i am back after how many days,

he not only likes me he is in love with me too, so all yee jealousys here donlele and co i guess u dont have a sexual life thats why u cant feel me on this issue and soon i will be inviting you to our nuptial, as for everyone that supported me thank you very much and may God give you the bones of ur bones and if u have one already, may it bear fruits and if u already have fruits may the fruits bear more fruits in ur presence


AMEN

tru true but as i said i am not telling him to leave his girl but if he wants be back i will e back within a second , he is just a girlfiend not a wife and if my boyfriend does the same well i will cry but such is life u win some u loose some

Hey hey hey , whats all the mess in here

1. i didnt leave this guy when he had nothing he was still something when i was with him but i thot he wasnt serious

about me and moreover i didnt tell him to leave, he left because he thot my other guy may pick up a fight with him which

he didnt want so he preferred to leave me for the other guy but now i have tasted both sides of the river and i have

seen what i want. i would nt say i want him cos of his money or material things but from what i have seen i would prefer

him to be the father of my kids cos of how he is good at plannning life while this other one is extravagant.


2. i didnt drop him ,he more or less just let me learn my lesson i have gone back to him a couple of times thinking we

could mend things but he ends up thinking i am with the other guy and leaves but now i am ready to be with him for

good

Donlele or what ever your so called name is i am only like every normal girl shit happens so if u think insult is the best way to communicate i will be quiet for you cos i think silence is the best answer, (guess you know the rest)

i dont know about love but i think he still cares about me , he told me he wants me to have his baby while we were at it , he told me to fly back to see him that he'll take care of the cost i just dont know what to do or think

i messed up so i should be the one to try my luck again i know he loved me then i dont care what y'll say ma going for what i want and if i dont get it at least i will know i tried, but the new question is how do i go about this now (going for him)

Euphoria , he always made me happy when i was with him but he left when my ex had a fight with him, he said he didn't like trouble with other guys and it would hae helped if i drove the other guy then but i was into him then and was blind too see , and now i want him back ,

i agree with u am gonna go for him cos

am really sad about that i wish he was mine

okay janey be happy for , i said the guy has a girl friend so why are u happy ? thats y i asked y u were happy for

janet girl pls why r u happy for me .

kiki pls what magic ? let me know

i used to date him then we had issues and split up , i travelled and met him again and men hes turned to my dream man, how can i have him back hes got a girl

i met him again, he is doing well and am in love

@SWEETNESS,,,, true dat

@SWEETNESS,,,, i agree

The guy is shaking and he made a spelling mistake

pity him, i wish i could help but i cant we all have to go thru it

am over mine, this is ur time

@Kimba, when a guy is showing you that you are all he wants , how will you know if you are putting your hand in fire or not you can't. i said "i found out that the ones that aren't players are the ones we don't fall in love with and in my opinion i think they are the boring ones"  thats my own opinion, the guys i have dated that werenot players i got fed up of them i don't know why that may not be yur own opinion. i prfer outgoing, funny guys its just my luck i have not come across the quiet ones that are still outgoing ,funny and not players

I am not saying i like players dont get me wrong i just haven't seen the others. But my boo was a player now he has chilled big time

Please dont let me get sacked this is toofunny

Pls ask on my behalf o , i dont get it duhhh

i cant remember saying yes or no,,,, i think its childish

@Lotanna, i agree with you, girls are the worst players. I know a girl that sleeps with this guy **UNCLE**and the boyfriend thinks the guy is her uncle. The "uncle" comes to see the guy in his house and the guy is always like "yes sir" to the guy**uncle** this has been going on for years now , sleeping with your girl right under your nose. What can be worse than this??

Thats why it hurts us(girls) so much when we get played because we are the worst players. I have been a player too, a bad ass one for that matter but now i have changed i am growing up and i need to settle down. Its a phase everyone or most people must pass through. So leaving a man or a woman because she played you is not an excuse because you dont know if the next person you date will now play you and urs sis or bros or even your best friend. So when you get played just chill and relax, It's a phase and you will outgrow it.

Saying a man should change is rubbish no one can change for anybody until they have all the p****y they want and are satisifed. Not until after that you can have peace. Its not all guys that are players but i have done my research and i found out that the ones that aren't players are the ones we dont fall in love with and in my opinion i think they are the boring ones

I WILL LEAVE IT TO GOD , cos he said VENGEANCE IS MINE SAYS THE LORD.

its not that you must be nuts , i think you are actually nuts

really i have nevr heard this before its really funny

Diddy, i want to ask you a question, what if you get Hot

@Rhodalyn, please this your bum all over my screen i am getting tired of seeing it i beg move the yanch  

@ bluenubian, its no different to what i went through i have been with this guy for 7 years and the longest we fought and we didnt see was for 2 weeks. there were some fights because of this other whor*e that people thought, yes this is the last straw for this couple but no the next day you see us laughing. the thing is, do whatever makes you happy ALL / MOST GUYS CHEAT.

Let me tell you my technique now i dont check his phone ,i dont look for what is not missing, if he says am going out i will just say okay bye. i dont ask where hes going so far he comes back to meet me. WHEN you treat a man like that they get scared they will think you are seeing someone else and you dont send them anymore and as time goes on when he sees you dont bug him, he will start behaving. Also i think you have tried by showing him for 4 days dont just do it too much before he now gets used to not seeing you

no

sweetheart,  am sorry. i have been in the same spot before but i didnt leave the guy i didnt care what anyone said no matter what the guy did to me i still loved him. Yes it was easy for people to say move on, move up , move down. But i knew what i was going thru, i would leave the guy thinking i have moved on and then 2wks we are back. This other girl too said she wasnt leaving and i wasnt ready to leave too. the girl gave up at last but i think it was because i had a kind of bond with this guy i dont think i can ever have with anyone else no matter who he tried to see it never worked out. i tried dating other pple too but i didnt like them as much. I am  sure if i had seen someone else i could love i would have left but i didnt soo,

my advise , never in any way let this guy see that u are unhappy or you are crying , it pains guys when they see that there ex- is looking fly and mos o all happy, even if you cry ,,do it alone and not in his presence it will make him feel like he won.

Be bold . you will get over it thats if u guys don't kiss and make up

noth

LOLOLOLOLOL

got it

mrlover mail me now am waiting

i know the trick you make money first then you loose it

me i want to make the money and leave

i am a big risk taker if there is any attribute i posses thats one