Re: Why do boys act weird to their girls after getting what they want

for those that want the full link, this is it https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-3011.32.html#msg372602

this was my reply to the question above.

u just said; why do guys act weird to their girls after getting what dey want?


u answered the question. they have gotten what they want thats why they act weird.

guess u have seen why girls are told to close legs. if he doesnt get it. he will not leave u or treat u badly. u guys think sex in a relationship seals it up well it doesnt

many guys just want sex and please don't get deceived during the first 4 weeks of sex cuzz u think eerthing its going well. nahhhh it aint. he just hasnt gotten enough of u. wait till he gets enough of u and then u will see what will happen. refuse sexing your guy and if he complains, ask him if he loves u or the sex. make him choose one. if he says u and u notice he has changed, just kick his ass out of your apartment and tell him to go fu*k himself. trust me ladies, he aint worth the hair on your pussy. sex shouldnt be the priority in a relationship cuzz it does the opposite of what people think it should do. it spoiles it. u keep your legs closed and any guy that comes, tell him straight up what u want and if he agrees, y'all can date. even if he later brings it up, just tell him to shut the fu*k up or leave before you kick his ass out of earth.


be yourself ladies, even if u have a crush on him. don't give him what he wants or expects from u. he aint worth it. only your husband is worth you .

i got a friend that has been with his girl for 5 years and they never broke up for ones. what do u think is the secret, well let me tell u. they never had sex. not for once. u people might think is impossible but believe me it is possible.
they are getting married this august and i was given an invitation so i will be heading back to naija very soon.
sex is not important in a relationship. it is the love and care you have for each other that is important.


don't say but if i don't sex him, he will leave me. my girl, go and bring your AK and shoot him out of your house. only u thinking of that should tell u what he wants.

this is what i got to say. hope i helped shaa.

thanks ladies.


you guys can add to the posting, subtract or ask me questions about the postings. or comment on it

awwww diddy hun, you've posted this all around the forum and still you get no response

I love every word you've written there - a very mature response.

You are one package that is always full of surprises God Bless you hun

2cantango:


awwww diddy hun, you've posted this all around the forum and still you get no response

I love every word you've written there - a very mature response.

You are one package that is always full of surprises God Bless you hun

thanks for being the first to reply hun.

i appreciate it.

awwwwwwwwwwwwwww my sweet diddy,u are so sweet

Diddy you gave me another reason to love you

diddy4dt, good boys don't get chicks. Enjoy being single, my friend.

diddy is a man, not a boy

afeni are u so jalous of diddy that even when
he's doing good thing u will hate it ooooooooooo boy u gotta
chill out

Afeni:

diddy4dt, good boys don't get chicks. Enjoy being single, my friend.

that is where u are wrong man. we dont get chicks. we get ladies. u know the difference right?

and secondly, i aint looking for chicks cuzz i can get who i want.

3rdly, i am enjoying every minute of being single cuzz am single but no alon or lonely.

i am the happiest guy and i dont need to be in a relationship to be happy.

i know i am spoiling show for u guys but the ladies have feelings and y'all hurt them a lot. i gotta call a spade a spade.

lol diddy tell him

thanks a lot girls for your support. people always hate even when u do good.

nawa for them.

diddy4dt:

thanks a lot girls for your support. people always hate even when u do good.

nawa for them.

yes ooooooooooooo nawah for dem

diddy4dt:


that is where u are wrong man. we don't get chicks. we get ladies. u know the difference right?

and secondly, i aint looking for chicks cuzz i can get who i want.

3rdly, i am enjoying every minute of being single cuzz am single but no alon or lonely.

i am the happiest guy and i don't need to be in a relationship to be happy.

i know i am spoiling show for u guys but the ladies have feelings and y'all hurt them a lot. i gotta call a spade a spade.

You, diddy, is what this world needs more of.

2cantango:

You, diddy, is what this world needs more of.

please thank God for creating me.

diddy u are real.
yes i will dance like u for the second time

aiight hun, get jiggy with it.

shake it like u just dont care.

hmmm diidy

trust me ladies, he aint worth the hair on your pussy.

we already know that boy!

wise talk @diddy

LadyB:

wise talk @diddy

thanks a lot.

Diddy, i want to ask you a question, what if you get Hot

blacknbold:

Diddy, i want to ask you a question, what if you get Hot

well, u can take the risk but i hope u start blaming 5mins for your woes later. i am only telling u the best way to earn your respect from your guy. if u get Hot, take it to the bathroom and do what has to be done or u go ahead and give it to him and after sometime when he stops calling you baby, just remember that day u were Hot.

diddy4dt:

if u get Hot, take it to the bathroom and do what has to be done

Is that how you handle yourself when you get Hot diddy?

2cantango:

Is that how you handle yourself when you get Hot diddy?

nahhh, my own case is different. i dont. u will only get Hot when u think of it.

but the girls have got the dildos and stuff like that so they are pretty lucky.

diddy4dt:

nahhh, my own case is different. i don't. u will only get Hot when u think of it.

but the girls have got the dildos and stuff like that so they are pretty lucky.

Hmmmm, dildos and stuff like that. . would you care to educate the rest of us with your knowledge?

@diddy4dt
You are educating me

diddy4dt:

. if u get Hot, take it to the bathroom and do what has to be done

Lmao diddy

2cantango:

Hmmmm, dildos and stuff like that. . would you care to educate the rest of us with your knowledge?

emm 2c, i noticed u said u love banana so, emm, y do u love banana,

Cos dey got wat dey want already.

Diddy never felt that a guy can be so resistant like you. You know what i mean. Teacher teach me somethin no bi nonsense. Thank you dear Diddy.

u r welcome girl

haha! what about ladies with no vibrators of Love Machine nko? use candle??