Why do ladies say NO when they actually meant YES

Well i don't understand the topic so deeply but i can still make some contributions.

Some Ladies don't know when to say yes or no because they might have made a mistake in some initial stage by saying Yes istead of No (vice versa)  and vow not to make that kind of mistake in the future. so when they are in a case that they meant to say Yes or No they will not even think about what they should say and because of what had once happened 2 them they will say No and later Yes after they might have think deeply.

BE COOL !!!

so that guys don't think they aRE CHEAP or take them for granted

Ok, how many versions of this topic do we have? Many people have answered it with some good tips. Check the archives.

diz topic again and moreova, why alwayz ladies, dawgz do da same damn thing

that was back in the day, now when i say yes i mean yes, and no, i mean no

bluenubian your d bomb!

I dont know why some girls still behave like the early man.

The world is too sophisticated now for you to pretend.
if its yes say it and if its no say NO and stand by it.

woleprof:

Why do ladies say NO when they actually meant YES

whoever told U that hun

i cant remember saying yes or no,,,, i think its childish

exactly!!! it's gonna be really silly!!

Maybe Woleprof has been asking the wrong kind of girlz out, i mean the under 16's. They're d ones that don't really know what they want.

Well i don't think all ladies fall into this category.
Some ladies say yes when they mean yes.

I also think a good reason for this is because a lot of girls would like a guy to work hard to get them, so they wouldn't appear too cheap or be taken for granted.

I know of a realtionship where the lady said yes because she really liked the guy and later the guy started messing up and she felt guilty because she thought it was because the guy got to go out with her easily.

Well, The answer is straight and simple, LAdies are never secured. They feel insecured at all times and thats why they switch in btw "yes" and "no".

at least its better for them to say No, and then guys understand it as YES, at least weve got an understanding there.

what if they say "YO" or ?

good one kimba

THEY DON'T.

GUTS JUST MISUNDERSTAND THEM.

@favourwal be sincere with yourself lol

woleprof:

@favourwal be sincere with yourself lol

@woleprof sweetie, i can't be nymore sincere. Guys just most times red the wrong signals.

e.g maybe a girl wants to go clubbing and needs a partner, the guy who offers to go with her assumes she is ripping for him when all she really wants is just to dance.

so sincerity has a lot with being very specific and unassuming.

Are you saying most of you ladies do engage in the act. Even guys get the signal?

we dont

women!!! na waooooo

you u wat?

since most of you (if not all) are pretender, i take your "we don't" as "we do. LOL

well! well!! well!!!
we dont n why should we.
if we say NO u guys will want 2 push us 2 say YES
wont u, n as 4 me ooooooo,i'll never use a no 4 a yes n vise versa 2.

@habibat
i hope your re a "woman of your word"?

yes i am
n why did u ask?

because a lady of her words are always my kind of girl.

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@Habibat
yes o

or do u hv anythin in mind

That playing hard story is so old. Some of them actually mean no. So listen and stay away. For those who mean yes when they say no, they r plain old fashioned.

@ topic, not all ladies say no and mean yes, what's the point? Maybe if we said "GET LOST" it'll be easier to communicate the point

It depends on the question.if u ask a girl "do u care for an ice cream" she will say "yes" even before u finish voicing ur question.But if it comes to what the topic implies,their like "yes"(respond in low voice) then thinking how big(d<>k) it could be,that is when the "NO"comes out loud.

Macgreat:

It depends on the question.if u ask a girl "do u care for an ice cream" she will say "yes" even before u finish voicing your question.But if it comes to what the topic implies,their like "yes"(respond in low voice) then thinking how big(d<>k) it could be,that is when the "NO"comes out loud.

i dont pretend if i want a guy, i go for the gold. but i can pretend if i dont want you and i dont want to hurt your feeling.