₦airaland Forum

firstking01:
ur welcome and may God guide ur heart.

Amen and amen.

firstking01:
Op if the first guy has a big dream and a future, marry him asap

Hmmm... Thanks dear.

Obioraaa:
suit yourself cinderella.

tubouncen:
Give him ur conditions, let him knw where u stand... Since he sees u as a perfect mother for his unborn children, tell him that u also want a perfect father for kids

He actually loves who I am without the willingness to become like me. He's comfortable living the wild life, full of partying and clubbing. He feels the mother should be more homely. From what I've seen of him, he's not ready to become the God-loving type. Don't you think it would be to risky to stake my hopes on him?

Obioraaa:
[color=#990100]babymama...


Employ a surrogate..


They're many ways.. It basically just takes sex n fertilisation to give birth...not marriage..[/color]

Nah, no sir.
I ain't cut out for such. I'll only raise my beautiful kids within the confines of a loving marriage as God originally intended.

Rexhenrex:
apparently you already know what to do,although you messed up what you did was wrong accepting the second Guy's proposal knowing fully well u don't wanna settle down with him.

my advice is you use a clear head to think through everything happening stand your ground never be afraid to turn down what you don't want follow your heart,for the fact the first guy isn't doing well now doesn't mean he won't be tomorrow with your both heads you guys can be financially bouyant as a woman you might be the one he needs to become a rich dude tomorrow(he who finds a wife have found a good thing) u might be the break through the first guy needs!

follow your chest heart.

Thanks so much. I really appreciate this.

Obioraaa:
[color=#990100] it aint compulsory to get married you know..[/color]

Sure, true. But how then can I bring to birth my wonderful kids of tomorrow?

danduchi:
Forget the man with television and follow the man with vision

Hmmm...

Some people are so daft you can't just explain things to them. Neither can their perverted minds offer anything useful to a sister in need. I never said I had 3 boyfriends or I dated three guys. If you read my story well, you should understand better than that. No need going over it again. I appreciate every post, and everyone who cared to advice. Condemn me all you want, no offense taken.

maoweidong:
U gave three guys the idea that you're dating them.When you're serious with your life you'll know what to do.

Thanks

PrimeMinisterr:
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lemme ask were you under duress to accept these three ? like on gun point?

Ok I wasn't. But I didn't want to hurt feelings, the publicity and all that It would look so embarrassing. Plus I was shocked, since I wasn't expecting any of that. Happened like a flash, I was dazed that I didn't know what to say
I guess I was also being too soft-hearted

Ifakiland:
u agreed to marry 3 guys at once...ure a LovePeddler, I wish one of dem pour u acid. idiot.

Thanks for stopping by.

HateU2:
#Teamwastehistime# kikikiki two of them thou
May God put you through sisi

Amen. Thanks sis. At least a prayer would help, instead of some hateful comment

PrimeMinisterr:
And to think someone actually believed this story copied from a magazine.

Primeminister, it's my life story, it wasn't copied from a magazine.

MzPecs:
I see no need for any advise here cos you already did that.

You love your first guy so what's with you accepting the other guys proposal?

If you're hardworking then why complain bout the first guy not being very well to do?
Complicated story!

I couldn't help it, not that I really wanted to accept their proposals

You know there's always something about starting from scratch and picking up from somewhere. Which would you prefer? To start up from scratch or pick up from somewhere, when you have something working for you already? That's my concern

tubouncen:
Marry the third guy, he will change... Lolz

You really think so?

Hello nairalanders. Something came up that's bothering me and I would appreciate your input and contributions to find a solution to this ish.

I'll go straight to the point, it happened recently. I got proposed to by three different guys in the space of two days
Let me explain.
The first person has been asking me out for a while now, and actually, I like him. This is because of his simplicity and fear of God. He has every intention of settling down with me very soon, and to be honest, I consider him a suitable daddy to my future kids. The only challenge is, he's not very well to do.

The second guy is an old time friend who is actually in the friendzone. I never considered him for a life partner, just someone I could catch up with from time to time. This guy is quite financially stable. At least, more than my lovely first guy.

And the third guy? This one is not worthy of emulation by my kids at all. His kind of life is not what I'd want my children to grow up watching and following. He does several things that are alien to the life of Christ in me and I cannot picture myself settling with him. But ironically, he wants me at all costs, says he'd love to have a mother like me for his babies

Now to the issue. Guy 1 came around and asked me to marry him. He proposed with a small and simple ring. I was happy, I accepted his proposal. All went well.

Next day, Guy 2 came and ask me to accompany him out. Proposed to me publicly and with a more expensive ring. He made it impossible for me to say no, even though my heart was screaming out loud! Immediately we left there, I removed his ring and threw it somewhere.

That same day, while I was yet to recover from Guy 2's shock, Guy 3 showed up at my doorstep. I welcomed him like any other, only for him to burst my bubble by kneeling in front of me and popping the question. Sincerely I was miserable, but couldn't stop him from sliding this nothing less than 200k engagement ring down my finger.

Now, all guys left, feeling they had engaged me. I love my first guy but these other guys keep dazzling their wealth in my eyes. I don't want to endanger the future of my generation by giving them a father without the right deposit of good qualities to impart their tender lifes, and neither do I want to bring up kids without the necessary comfort they require.

Now, before you condemn me, I'm not a lazy lady waiting for manna to fall for me. I'm hardworking and doing all it takes to make life comfortable for myself and unborn kids. It's just that, when you have two or more options before you, not even you, would prefer the toughest one...(except it's really worth it).

So there you go, nairalanders, please advise me. What do you suggest I do?

hawdi:
Lool! Yeaah, we still are!!! .

Hawdi Hawdi
The one whose name means Dwarf in my dialect

sabiguy:
And then. Here comes an end to a fantastic service year! Greetings to everyone who made it!

Choi Sabiguy is this you? Howdy guy?

ebrahyym:
Epele, sey na u dey open skul gate ni?

My dear, e tire me o

Gunbiz:
Eiya pele, u still at dat same school?

Yes o. Can't wait to leave jare. You go come cds tomorrow?

ebrahyym:
Done with my final clearance today. RELEASED by my ppa. waiting 4 d fuckin pop date

Chai! See people don free oo. Lagos why dulling naa? Can't wait to get out of this school jor! Imagine still running off to school @6:30 am. Choi!

therealdeal10:
Funny buh d mama na winch

Lol

falconey:
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Lol... Really?

yvelch:
Meaningless story. Sorry.



Abeg visit my store on konga for your exquisite fashion pieces, search "yvelch" for my store.

Did you have a bad day sis?

Finally...
CC: Lalasticlala, Rocktation, Farano, Ishilove, Seun

After that...

So...

Then...

Saw this story in pictures and thought to share. Guys be careful!

Akindotun:
Hello friends bin what...... A year since I came in as a user hw have u all been ... Its ajgentle , had an ish with my account that's y m using a different account now...

Ajgentle, oga bawo? Longest time o, you still remember us for this area? How life?

sojiboy:
Anugod whatIdo? Is 57 days much, compare to what u ve spent in that jungle We shall continue to countdown on this order 57,56,55,54,53,52,51...............3,2,1,0.lol

Abeg dem send you swear for us?

Jor ooo