₦airaland Forum

kodded:
why always look at a negative point of view when jonathan does a thing ?


if apc call for hand over date to be may 28 you will be shouting. jumping and praising sai buhari




smh

Just what are you sayiing that is not making any sense, the law says 29th, why 28th at a dinner party for crying out loud. Stick to the provisions of the law no wonder his administration never fared well. "STAND FOR NOTHING, FALL FOR EVRRTHING".

SHARIAREPORTERS:
I hate APC
Obanikoro just killed it
International observers re as confused as APC

Unfortunately for you if everyone else is saying something, including outsiders except you, I seriously think you need re examination.

Am so excited, this is victory for Nigerians, we can't be taken for a ride for every

I was really looking forward to see her but I was disappointed

My opinion is that marriage is decision made by adults to live together. That is why during the ceremony either in court or church, you are asked ' will you take her/him as you wife/husband' as the case may be. Even though there will be so many alternatives, you have seen him/her, think things through and made up you minds.
But unfortunately what we have are people carried away with emotions, sexual desires, warmth, financial comforts etc and when these starts wearing out they immediately start looking for the alternatives to meet their needs.

Love. This is a big one but am telling you, once you've decided, you can grow into loving your spouse. If you fall in love, you can easily fall out of love too. But if you grow into loving someone, your roots will be too attached to the ground it will take more than a shake to uproot.

I don't see anything wrong with giving a helping hand when it is needed and this is irrespective of the person in need. I will gladly render any assistance I can offer if she needs it and come to think about it, it takes alot of courage and humility for an ex to come back to you asking for help. If you don't help, what are you?

My dear, if you know what is good for you, think it through before going for him. Marriage is all about decision not somebody trying to coarse you with Holy Spirit or whatever.
Also for a man that wants to get married ahaaha! he should be able to show some independence from his parent except you will be fine when they will be dictating when to sleep with you. Lol
Finally age is nothing but a number. If he applies his heart to wisdom at 24 years, he will be far better that a fool at 40 years old, and am sure you agree with me.

Lala247:
I understand you but its tough .

Every woman wants her father to walk her down d isle her mum to buy asho oke , wear gele u knw wt i mean its tough cuz once ur married u cnt change it

How will she feel looking at wedding pic not one family member its sad

I know every woman would love to have just that but the ceremony is nothing compared to the marriage its self. Many never had such luxuries and just concluded things at the court and today their marriage is the envy of those who had the luxuries.

Lala,

I would have suggested you elope and the parents will come around to accept the union but Indian!! I tell you they can send assassin to get rid of the girl and that does not matter wherever the couple eventually settles. However getting married is a decision and it boils down to the people involved to make up their minds either for or against.

godsamist:
What is all this fused about?
Can't these elders behave well for heaven seka?
What is all this impatience all about?
Dose't Aso rock seat have expiring date?
4yrs is not forever,let him loot all the heaven in aso,won't the law has its course?
What pains much is at the of all this fuse,the heads of the ordiary man will roll while the nolbles seats to enjoy the sernario
These elders should stop stirring unnecessary tension for nigerians!

I like what you wrote here. The only problem is that some are hell bent on not to allow the law have its course. Thus for them, instead of the law to have its course they rather destroy everything. That is simply what we are up against as Nigerian youths

I went out with a banana because the voice told me to

Unfortunately for you, all I see when I saw this is a beautiful lady without an identity. Am sure by the time ebony becomes the in-thing she will have to start getting her skin dark again or better still she will need breast implant cause what she has at the moment is too tiny.

Cool ladies have respect for themselves.

zyzxx:
boys will Alwys be boys

Boys on my street are the best

mine is 58

So they even know what should be done. Unfortunately all the things Mr Johnathan is doing as a Presidential candidate he did not do when he was a President. He visited boko haram teritories as a presidential candidate not as a president as its supposed to be. Nigerians with PVC vote wise o!!!

I can't believe all our youth go after now is luck! luck!! and luck!!! no more room for hard work. Programs like youwin, sure p just keep killing the Nigerian youth by the day. Just work out the probability of six thousand people winning 2m to 5m out of the Nigerian youths vying for this PDP deceits. Change is the only reasonable thing we need.

Ochek:
All those answers above are so on point.
You have got to remember, that once a man and woman are married, they leave their parents are stick together - for better or worse. Right?
She has not got any case of infidelity or him not caring for his primary home (wife and kids). Yeah? Trust me, if your gal friend don't move in back with him ASAP, she should be ready to accept the bigger shocker.
I have seen this sh**t alot of times happen.
Like it or not, she owes him a 100% obligation to submissivenss. His is to love and so far, save the current issue with his mother in law you haven't furnished us with info otherwise.
So, Roki! If really care about your friend, take we all are saying. Ask her to return to her matrimonial home without delay.

I can't but agree more with you. My dear if she knows what is good for her, she better return home quickly before the thoughts of having a boys comes into his mind. Making peace with people is a decision and can only be encouraged but not forced.

A and F

So what? If such economies work why not. The same islamic bank Okonjo under Gej was sell by all means to Nigeria. And for the records, many Nigerians especially those complaining about islamic economy will not mind a vacation in Dubai. What kind of economy do they practice, christianity economy? there religious bigots

If they like they can destroy the only thing that stands as a future for them. And for the records, it will be an utmost shocker that the so called ground nut, farming and other peasant business will not just meet people's need but will even sustain a nation.
Even if for nothing, I will not vote GEJ just for the mere fact that these thugs have threatened a whole nation.

For all we know these militant have no economic value not to Nigeria or even their own people. NONSENSE

No APC
No Labour Party
No APGA

The most prominent parties are not present, I smell a rat. Besides, I thought the debates were scheduled for 27th, 28th January for Vice president and 5th February for the presidential debate. Am not sure there was a prior notice to this town hall debate.

juniormusa:
Let's support GEJ
Vote wisely
Buhari has nothing to offer.

And can you point to any financial policy or decision made by GEJ that has assisted Nigeria or a pointer that it will help in the long run.
You can't expect a different result if you keep doing the same things.

aguizm:
Who are the Chadians trying to deceive?

Are they not the ones arming and sponsoring the boko haram sect with both money and personnel?
Abeg make dem comot their boat make I continue my dancing with masquerade abeg.

Shoki ahhhhh shoki,Shoki ahhhhh shoki

Unfortunately, that is just the best we know, blame! blame!! and Blame!!! every other person for your woes. For God's sake why can't we just accept responsibility and fight back. A Nigerian proverb says 'a foretold battle is not supposed to kill'. STOP BLAMING OTHER COUNTRIES FOR NIGERIAN WOES.

So in your own infinite wisdom we should vote Jonathan out of fear.

berem:
Is it not better to be dismissed that to be sentenced to death? Imagine going to die for nothing without better equipments. How can they fight boko haram ill-equiped abeg?
They should be thanking their stars.

What are you saying my dear, these people have been in service for like what 15 years, 30 years etc. What exactly are you suggesting to go back to? Don't you think the possibilities of join the enemy might be an option. Remember they have families.