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cowgurl: Well, good thing she's gat a sweet motherinlaw cos I don't see any ill intentions towards her from your post. She's just a loving mother taking care of her son, who knows how long it took for her to conceive him. Research has it that 'only child' has the tendencies to be spoilt by their folks and as such it makes it pretty hard for them to hussle. Now, about the introduction/ wedding, it's goin to be difficult for her to stop her motherinlaw cos she's already living with her fiance in the house she paid for. 'l suggest she talks to her fiance and make him see reasons why he should take care of his responsibilities cos he's no longer a kid, this should be done lovingly.

Mynd_44: ^^
Bro you need a cold bottle of beer to cool off and not blow a gasket. I suggest you hang out in Chimezie's bar a little

2buff: Na prikk the guy dey use type all those ones so

kilimanjaro: could he be menatally unbalance?
RealBitch, you are strikingly beautiful! A damsel like you should be treated with passion, compassion and affection.

Dyt: dats jst 4 my pocket, he still recharges my fone



SERIOUSLY WATS WRONG WITH U MEN?
SPEND WEN U V
WE BOTH GIVE EACHOTHER
HE'S BROKE, I GIVE
SO WATS D BIG DEAL

kilimanjaro: People are so use to using their leg to draw map of Nigeria that they don't see car as an essential instrument! Hmmmm, i cry for Nigeria.

freakyamanda: actually i want to interact with everybody here first and study people's attitudes. Then i can have friends i will give my contacts. For now, let me just enjoy d forum. Am not in a hurry.

kilimanjaro: Lots of teenagers and lots of 10yrs old kids on NL. I know a woman that introduce her 10 yrs old child to nairaland; she mandated him to visit the website on a daily basis or he get spanked.

andromida: Problem solved then since u love the baby enjoy ur daddyhood. The gal may change and she may not looks like you want to take the risk so good luck who knows she may turn out to be a great wife.

chaircover: Let me ask you what you will do if you are NOT the real father

chaircover: First things first, you need to establish if you are the father of this baby. The result of that will determine a lot of other things.

ifyalways: @OP,where is the child now?Have u been supporting her?

You lived with her when u were down,noticed she were not honest,she left her house for you,she bore a child for you and now this ? She DID not change,so whats new?

If you were able to live with her then why not now?she helped u then what stops you from helping her now become a better person?

Have u sat her down to tell her about her flaws,find out why she feels she needs to lie(whats she hiding,whats her fears,insecurities,fears),encourage her to be open,honest to you and don't judge her past.

Btw,you need to get that DNA test done.

ileobatojo: Is she wife material? No.

Should you do a DNA test? Yes.