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FamilyRe: When They Only Call You When They Need Money by arapoa(op): 2:10pm On Jul 26, 2025
Hmm, i appreciate all the advises.
FamilyRe: When They Only Call You When They Need Money by arapoa(op): 5:27pm On Jul 23, 2025
2special:
when next they ask, tell them you don't have and you will see their reactions.
I've done this before, they said nothing. They called back after a couple of weeks with same demand.
FamilyRe: When They Only Call You When They Need Money by arapoa(op): 5:21pm On Jul 23, 2025
Starboytwo:
Believe me, they love you...

I mean, it's selfish, but you sir are the PLUG.

You can let them know one day and para for them... See what they gotta say...
Why this is confusing is because, inspite of their attitude of not giving a damn about me, whenever we see physically, they hug and flock theirselves around me.
FamilyRe: When They Only Call You When They Need Money by arapoa(op): 10:46am On Jul 23, 2025
Therock5555:
My relationship with my siblings works different and I don't mind one bit.

My elder sister- we could go 9 months without talking but day we talk, we fit do 4 hours for normal voice call.

My only bro- always calling to catch up, I mostly ignore his call cause dude like gisf pass woman.

My second sis - once I see her call, I know say na billing. She doesn't call for anything else and I'm fine.

My favorite kid sis- whether she wan go see her boyfriend, she go call to inform me. I wish we were closer in age, we would have been crazy siblings...



Notice one perculiarity? I don't call nobody, na even my parents dey call to greet me.


Na when them see alert nai them know say me sef dey hail them....
Hmm, your message was well received. In my own case, no one calls or chats, except i do the calling.
FamilyRe: When They Only Call You When They Need Money by arapoa(op): 10:43am On Jul 23, 2025
2special:
There's is tendency that if you don't give or have, they will ignore you, stop calling you and they won't pick your call...
That defines an ingrate and parasite
Honestly, I've been having this feeling. That means if they know that i don't have money, they will never bother to check up!
FamilyRe: When They Only Call You When They Need Money by arapoa(op): 10:40am On Jul 23, 2025
hatozeck:
I don't quite see any problem with this but maybe I'm talking from personal experience and I'll add context to buttress. I'm the last born in a family of 4 boys and 1 girl. My siblings hardly call to check up, it has been a norm even while I was in school and it's not a bother to me because I know there's always something that might pop up or an errand they'll need me to run so they'll reach out. I mostly do the calling especially when I'm low on finances. Also, there's a usual family meeting we have once in awhile so you get to meet everyone.

I'll say as long as it doesn't affect the relationship you all share especially with your parents, then it's not a problem. I might not talk with my brother for 2 months but all of sudden call him for help and he'll pull through for me and the same goes for me if reverse was the case
I get your point. But in my own case, I'm the first child.
FamilyWhen They Only Call You When They Need Money by arapoa(op): 6:56am On Jul 23, 2025
Hello house, i need your candid opinion on this pls. My siblings only call or chat me when they need money. I'm always the one that call and check up on them. Though anytime i do, they respond fine. But they have never called to say hello or asked how I'm doing, or open a conversation with me, even if we dont talk for years. But when they need money, they call.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Drop Ur Bb Pin Here And May Have A Date by arapoa(m): 2:20am On Mar 04, 2013
I need guys and girls to ping me pls. 294CD5F0
FamilyRe: When Your Wife Lied To You About Her Salary by arapoa(m): 4:37pm On Dec 08, 2012
poster, send her away. i hate it when wives lied to their husband. they could do anything.
BusinessRe: Agege Bread Takes London By Surprise by arapoa(m): 1:29pm On Dec 06, 2012
lmao at comment
RomanceRe: People We Sometime Get Married To Are People We Vowed Not To Be Caught Dating by arapoa(m): 9:38am On Nov 20, 2012
na frustration jor
Music/RadioRe: Fela Kuti: 15 Year Anniversary: Your Favourite Fela Lyrics And Quotes Here by arapoa(m): 9:44am On Aug 02, 2012
I miss baba70 die.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Nairalanders' Real Professions: Guess What They Are? by arapoa(m): 1:49pm On Jul 27, 2012
MsDarkSkin: lmao! grin grin

My list:
Royal - cook (top of the line roaster grin)
Ms Dark - Nunya Rep @ Mind yours Inc.
Mrs Chima - Manbitch Exterminator
Fulaman - Lecturer
MagnumPI - Leader of the Anti-Wasteman Justice League
Arapoa - Comedian
Tellwisdom - Gateboy kiss
190 and Lefulefu - Jobless
Mr.Cork - Area boy cheesy
Jaybee - Shrink
Post Editing Moderator - Paid Instigator.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Nairalanders' Real Professions: Guess What They Are? by arapoa(m): 12:44pm On Jul 27, 2012
MsDarkSkin: i can definitely believe that. smiley
hes a bodyguard for one alhaji in lagos.
Msdarskin - model
inspired-m - car robber
ODB - smuggler
Nairaland GeneralRe: Nairalanders' Real Professions: Guess What They Are? by arapoa(m): 12:37pm On Jul 27, 2012
Freecocoa - ashawo
realbitch - ashawo
ijebabe - house girl
sisi killz - house girl
billionaire - arm robber
mukina2 - kunu seller
lefulefu - area boy
flashaldrin - carpenter apprentice
gbawe - professor
pro01 - teacher
190- clown
mr corrk - giggolo
violent - tout
Nairaland GeneralRe: Nairalanders' Real Professions: Guess What They Are? by arapoa(m): 12:12pm On Jul 27, 2012
Seun - yahoo yahoo boy
Siena - car dealer
Chaircover - full house wife
Mrs Chima - nanny
mynd44 - street hawker
Sexkillam - cafe attendant
Idowuogbo - paraga seller
Kilimanjaro - runs boy
2buff- bodyguard
Tellwisdom - vendor
Bittyend - vulganizer
PoliticsRe: Award For Taxi-driver Who Returned N18M by arapoa(m): 7:39pm On Jul 26, 2012
Stallion77: Do we have other taxi drivers reading thishuh?
taxi drivers dont visit nl
PropertiesRe: Check Them Out In Abuja by arapoa(m): 7:35pm On Jul 26, 2012
olax44: I've replied you. Thank you.
thanks
CrimeRe: SSS Nabs Two With A 7 Year Old Boy's Head by arapoa(m): 12:57pm On Jul 26, 2012
Bcs of 250k? He shud be buried alive.
PoliticsRe: Award For Taxi-driver Who Returned N18M by arapoa(m): 12:48pm On Jul 26, 2012
ayoola2002: With N18M, U don't need any ministeria apointment anymore, with time, u will be counting billions if manage properly.
18m is still a coins
PoliticsRe: Award For Taxi-driver Who Returned N18M by arapoa(m): 12:40pm On Jul 26, 2012
Na wa o.
PropertiesRe: Check Them Out In Abuja by arapoa(m): 6:37pm On Jul 25, 2012
Lol. Op, have sent u email.
RomanceRe: If A Girl Has Not Cry Before Because Of You . . . by arapoa(m): 1:41pm On Jul 20, 2012
190: Th e girl kept refreshing my memory of tins we shared (saying my sex wuz d best tin eva happened 2her)
Bruvva next thing na Hailstorm of tears on fone
Over 1hr phone call
1am in th e nite, I slept off her on her
RomanceRe: The Longest Married Couple In The World Gives Relationship Advice by arapoa(m): 1:37pm On Jul 20, 2012
Mugun don tey 4 dis world. So if he wsnt a gud provida she wudnt av luv him.
RomanceRe: Pls Explain Her To Me. I Want To Hear From Ladies Especially. by arapoa(m): 3:13pm On Jun 20, 2012
She tinks u r a short man
RomanceRe: Guys, How Long Have U Woo A "Hard To Get" Babe? Lets Talk It Out Pls. by arapoa(m): 3:07pm On Jun 20, 2012
Idowuogbo: We operate d same o!

Areaaaaa!!!
u dis ugly razz illiterate thing. na ur type guys dey use cutlass flog dem mouth. Animal.
RomanceRe: Who's That Nlander You've Secretly Had A Crush For And I Promise I Won't Tell by arapoa(m): 2:59pm On Jun 20, 2012
Harduni
pendo
chaircover
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by arapoa(m): 1:18pm On Jun 18, 2012
Idowuogbo: Stop sweating my friend!

Wetin? Dem r@pe ur dog ni? Abeg locate animal section Jare!
pepper seller, keep ranting.
Without being told, i know you are the type lagos bus-conductors and agberos yansh under table. Local girl.

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