Family › Re: When They Only Call You When They Need Money by arapoa(op): 2:10pm On Jul 26, 2025 |
Hmm, i appreciate all the advises. |
Family › Re: When They Only Call You When They Need Money by arapoa(op): 5:27pm On Jul 23, 2025 |
2special: when next they ask, tell them you don't have and you will see their reactions. I've done this before, they said nothing. They called back after a couple of weeks with same demand. |
Family › Re: When They Only Call You When They Need Money by arapoa(op): 5:21pm On Jul 23, 2025 |
Starboytwo: Believe me, they love you...
I mean, it's selfish, but you sir are the PLUG.
You can let them know one day and para for them... See what they gotta say... Why this is confusing is because, inspite of their attitude of not giving a damn about me, whenever we see physically, they hug and flock theirselves around me. |
Family › Re: When They Only Call You When They Need Money by arapoa(op): 10:46am On Jul 23, 2025 |
Therock5555: My relationship with my siblings works different and I don't mind one bit.
My elder sister- we could go 9 months without talking but day we talk, we fit do 4 hours for normal voice call.
My only bro- always calling to catch up, I mostly ignore his call cause dude like gisf pass woman.
My second sis - once I see her call, I know say na billing. She doesn't call for anything else and I'm fine.
My favorite kid sis- whether she wan go see her boyfriend, she go call to inform me. I wish we were closer in age, we would have been crazy siblings...
Notice one perculiarity? I don't call nobody, na even my parents dey call to greet me.
Na when them see alert nai them know say me sef dey hail them.... Hmm, your message was well received. In my own case, no one calls or chats, except i do the calling. |
Family › Re: When They Only Call You When They Need Money by arapoa(op): 10:43am On Jul 23, 2025 |
2special: There's is tendency that if you don't give or have, they will ignore you, stop calling you and they won't pick your call... That defines an ingrate and parasite Honestly, I've been having this feeling. That means if they know that i don't have money, they will never bother to check up! |
Family › Re: When They Only Call You When They Need Money by arapoa(op): 10:40am On Jul 23, 2025 |
hatozeck: I don't quite see any problem with this but maybe I'm talking from personal experience and I'll add context to buttress. I'm the last born in a family of 4 boys and 1 girl. My siblings hardly call to check up, it has been a norm even while I was in school and it's not a bother to me because I know there's always something that might pop up or an errand they'll need me to run so they'll reach out. I mostly do the calling especially when I'm low on finances. Also, there's a usual family meeting we have once in awhile so you get to meet everyone.
I'll say as long as it doesn't affect the relationship you all share especially with your parents, then it's not a problem. I might not talk with my brother for 2 months but all of sudden call him for help and he'll pull through for me and the same goes for me if reverse was the case I get your point. But in my own case, I'm the first child. |
Family › When They Only Call You When They Need Money by arapoa(op): 6:56am On Jul 23, 2025 |
Hello house, i need your candid opinion on this pls. My siblings only call or chat me when they need money. I'm always the one that call and check up on them. Though anytime i do, they respond fine. But they have never called to say hello or asked how I'm doing, or open a conversation with me, even if we dont talk for years. But when they need money, they call. |
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Politics › Re: Award For Taxi-driver Who Returned N18M by arapoa(m): 12:40pm On Jul 26, 2012 |
Na wa o. |
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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by arapoa(m): 1:18pm On Jun 18, 2012 |
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