pls nlanders i need ur advise urgently. I love my girlfriend bt am scared of the two years age gap. Wat shud i do

Me too, am three years older than the girl am dating, do you think i should marry her?

BigTom: pls nlanders i need ur advise urgently. I love my girlfriend bt am scared of the two years age gap. Wat shud i do

.....and what's wrong with being two years older than your gf?
Huh?

what kind of Jamb question is this?

If you truly love your woman, then dont even worry about the age difference. Its how you feel about each other that matters.

slimyem: .....and what's wrong with being two years older than your gf?
Huh?

everything

bro u better ditch her shaperly. by the time you are 40 and she is 38 she will look like your elder sis. at 50 and 48 it will be worse - she will look like your mom. at 60 and 58 even worse - she will look like your granny. you should marry a girl you are at least 6 years older than. that is why you should get to 29-31 b4 you marry so she will be 23-25. a whisper is enuff for the wise

Nairalanders, my gf is 5yrs older than me, should i marry her?

bennyraz: Nairalanders, my gf is 5yrs older than me, should i marry her?

your own is even worse. she already looks like your elder sister now. in 5 years time she will look like your granny . a whisper is enuff for the wise

My girlfriend is 15 years older than i, what should i do?

Kevin_II:


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bro u better ditch her shaperly. by the time you are 40 and she is 38 she will look like your elder sis. at 50 and 48 it will be worse - she will look like your mom. at 60 and 58 even worse - she will look like your granny. you should marry a girl you are at least 6 years older than. that is why you should get to 29-31 b4 you marry so she will be 23-25. a whisper is enuff for the wise

....and all this is just YOUR OPINION wich you can't shove down anyone's throat!

emiwanlee: My girlfriend is 15 years older than i, what should i do?

thats ur sugar momy now..

slimyem: ....and all this is just YOUR OPINION wich you can shove down anyone's throat!

yes i can
old girls feeling insecure. you don too tey for market sotey market don close. go home, e go better

i really dont think its a bad idea for u to be in a relationshiop with a girl thats two yrs older than u....if she respects u well and u r hard working to show her tht u r capable then u r good to go...n if u love her, u can still teach her wht to do per tym tht will suite ur need......ciao

My gf is 20yrs older than me. Should I marry her?

BigTom: pls nlanders i need ur advise urgently. I love my girlfriend bt am scared of the two years age gap. Wat shud i do

If age was a NO to u, why date her in the first place BigTom?

Esin waju: My gf is 20yrs older than me. Should I marry her?

emiwanlee: My girlfriend is 15 years older than i, what should i do?

Kevin_II:

yes i can
old girls feeling insecure. you don too tey for market sotey market don close. go home, e go better

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Lots of teenagers and lots of 10yrs old kids on NL. I know a woman that introduce her 10 yrs old child to nairaland; she mandated him to visit the website on a daily basis or he get spanked.

kilimanjaro: Lots of teenagers and lots of 10yrs old kids on NL. I know a woman that introduce her 10 yrs old child to nairaland; she mandated him to visit the website on a daily basis or he get spanked.

Bet you are d ten year old nd your mom is the woman in question...smh

chuksikem:

Bet you are d ten year old nd your mom is the woman in question...smh

DEATH BLOW!

Kevin_II:


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bro u better ditch her shaperly. by the time you are 40 and she is 38 she will look like your elder sis. at 50 and 48 it will be worse - she will look like your mom. at 60 and 58 even worse - she will look like your granny. you should marry a girl you are at least 6 years older than. that is why you should get to 29-31 b4 you marry so she will be 23-25. a whisper is enuff for the wise

lol, so true. Dude you're earning my respect. But then love is not just blind, it deafens too

Flashadrin and Kevin,
you people want to select girls because you are 6yrs older than them not because they have good personalities, later when those girls show you pepper finish you will come to nairaland and be complaining that all Nigerian girls are bad.

I dunno, these things are really sensitive issues... Have you discussed this fear with her? What does she thinks considering you are just two years older? I know a lots of chicks who would not be comfortable themselves, me thinks you should talk to her, and gauge her reaction... The understanding you both have for each other is what matters... My most successful relationships were with older ladies maybe because that was how I started but then it's defined my romantic life since and scary enough I might end up with one... So it's no big deal

kilimanjaro: Lots of teenagers and lots of 10yrs old kids on NL. I know a woman that introduce her 10 yrs old child to nairaland; she mandated him to visit the website on a daily basis or he get spanked.

true talk, e.g OP, CHUKSIBEM, etc.

Should the age difference really be a question, afterall she's not older than you and shouldn't love be the reason why you want to settle down with her. I wonder why you got into a relationship with her in the first place and if something as insignificant as the 2yrs gap between you two is bothering you so much little wonder how you would run a home.

chuksikem:

Bet you are d ten year old nd your mom is the woman in question...smh

No i'm not. What i posted above is real and not a thought up. Kwasia

Tinkybabe: Should the age difference really be a question?afterall she's not older than you. Shouldn't love be the reason why you want to settle down with her. I wonder why you got into a relationship with her in the first place. If something as insignificant as the 2yrs gap between you two is bothering you so much I wonder how you're going to run a home.

This is cosigned by kilimanjaro.

I have the same issue currently,my gf is a year younger than I am. Its always good to follow ur brains than heart. Right now the age gap might might not be visible, but years to come & we all know how fast wome age with wrinkles and sagging bodies. The issues are:
1. She might even be older than me with how rampant fake birth certifictes & age declarations are these days + the fact that girls are legends in keeping such heavy secrets.
2. When I'm 51,she'll be 50yrs,jeez!
3. To much pressure to get married from her cos her biological clock will be ticking,she might even dump my sorry ass for someone ready just to get marrried before she becomes old cargo.
The ideal age gap is always 4-8yrs or about that.

@op you are a pedophile!!!!!!!!!!!!! beckham, rooney, dan brown, prince william all married people older than them. is there any evidence to show that their marriage isnt working? i am a man and i cannot imagine myself strip before a person i am 2 years older than. how old is my younger sis? for me, b/w +2 and -1 is ok. men are so selfish. they only care about how their woman would look later and careless how they themselves would look and perform in the future. or do you think your woman doesnt deserve you young and performing?

Tinkybabe: Should the age difference really be a question, afterall she's not older than you. Shouldn't love be the reason why you want to settle down with her. I wonder why you got into a relationship with her in the first place and if something as insignificant as the 2yrs gap between you two is bothering you so much I wonder how you're going to run a home.

its quite a pity people dont really undastand the true essence of marriage,most people forget how to set their priorities right.
thus making mistakes....we always think of what people would say.

y not consider your happiness and the shape of your home in the long run than the physical stuff thats gonna fade with time.

i dated a lady thats same age with me and i would ve married if she ddnt walk away.

OP,
what do u want in a woman? does your present girl fit in?
do u want a youngie that will give yu High Blood Pressure(HBP) at 40years?


the choice is yours. good luck.

Those of u screaming about looks and wrinkles, I've seen a 19 years old girl lookin 35 and I've seen a 40 years old woman lookin 25. My boyfriend is just a year older than I, but he looks 3 years or more older. In fact, the poster's case is a non issue.

I just dislike it when people still reason with naija mentality of age n numbers! Bleep it and marry that girl you love! My current babe is 2yrs older than I am and it never comes into play only when I'm alone. I mean marry that girl you love and everyother thing can crash n burn! Lol