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When GOD releases a Blessing, the devil sometimes brings in a counterfeit or a look alike, or something to distract you.My dear if you are not careful you will loose both men.Something tells me, the second guy is not interested in marrying you, he probably just wants to get in your pants and flee.His claim about not being happy in his rship and wanting a break up may just be tales to get you interested. I believe you are a christain, so my advice is just for you to pray and allow GOD speak to you.Whom ever you find peace with after prayers should be the one you setttle with.I wish you all the best without regrets in your decision making.

PresVA:
Nothing funny about her posts, it rather sounded angry and bitter. . Except my sense of humour is on vacation?

Make una enjoy una marriages please and if you want to talk about it, feel free..

Im happy you too read bw the lines.Thank u.

nasha1:
sweetheart i know u are angry but you need to read my post slowly.I was trying 2 let u know that u should not mind people dat will come in ur thread and mock u.I am learning from your thread and i like the fact dat u open such thread talking about the changes in ur life after marriage.
cheers and have a blissful home.

I think the poster is reffering to aunty gwengwe and not u?

nasha1:
my dear when aunty gwengwe never marry na 2 beef the younger ones.
i am learning, your thread is very on point.

I didnt want to comment but i think i should.It amazes me when people see a thread with the topic clearly stated and just decide to make unnecessary comments that wont benefit any one.It clearly shows too much unproductive time they ve got. If u dnt ve anything to contribute you can read and proceed to the next thread but they choose to leave nasty comments and feel good afterwards. Low lives.Very pathetic indeed.Such people cant speak out in public always hiding behind their computers and phones to make nasty comments.The year is too new to continue with such derogatory way of behaving.I pray to GOD to visit such heart with love.There is so much bitterness in the heart.Pls always remember no matter what JESUS still loves you.
@nasha1 pls keep learning.Knowledge is power.

Been married since Nobember, its been fun, taking it a day at a time.It is really good to marry ur friend, GOD will always send a friend to you when you seek him and wait patiently....we decided to go about our courtship GOD's way by keeping the bed undefiled.And it feels so great cos we can always remind GOD of our obedience whenever we need to bring some petitions to HIM.I hear the first year is the most difficult, im yet to experience that.We never lived together before we tied the knots, we are both learning and taking it a day at a time but certainly not without the help and guidance of GOD, HE has been our help and shield.Enough said, i need to sit back and read from others.Aside Prayers, i will say Patience, Humility, Respect, Submission & communication plays a huge role in the marriage institution.

Pidggin:
Everyday TY Bello go post pictures of her children, if dem eat, piss, baff, drink water, wetin sef, okay we av seen dem.

Are u jealous?

Pidggin:
Everyday TY Bello go post pictures of her children, if dem eat, piss, baff, drink water, wetin sef, okay we av seen dem.

Are u jealous?

Akshow:
I started disliking dis Chioma of a gal after the gulder ultimate search all stars. Very nasty attitude she's got and I won't be surprised she actually post this.

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Same here, she behaved childishly, was always on Muma Gee's case.Kai! I was embarrassed. She later came out and said they where acting.Big fat lie.

My dear, there is no need to be confused. Make up your mind and pray about it GOD will see you through till the end. The man that is yours will wait till you are married.Your husband should share same view as you. Be patient, GOD will send that man that wont ask you for sex till marriage Remain Blessed.

Very on point.GOD bLESS YOU.

delishpot:
Saying no may make a guy spend more time getting to know you but it doesnt mean saying no will get you a deserving man.
As for guys who get dumped by babes cos they saidNO, its a normal thing in our society these days. Girls are told that a guy that says no is impotent and cant perform thus the ladies want to confirm the guy is fuckablewhenable and not an okobo. Now, I am not justifying their prematiral sex lifestyle o. But you guys should stop making it sound like only guys have problems when they say no to sex. Women suffer heart breaks too. Many men if not 90% will not stay with a babe that says NO to sex too.

My advice for women, date when you are mature enough and ready to marry
Date guys who you know are mature enough and ready to marry
Make sure both of you have the same moral principle(That a man says ok to NO sex doesnt mean he is a moral man, he may be neck deep in hoes and flings behind your back)
Saying NO isnt what majes a woman special, it may even be what makes a guy think you are too proud and he may be pissed at you for your stance but pretend to like you just to try see if he can get into your pants.
So saying NO may make the guy more dedicated to getting you. But it doesnt mean that he appreciates you any more than the other girls he has banged.
I will say, a lot of factors come into play where a commited relationship is concerned.
The NO 1 rule is, date when you are mature and ready to settle down that is when your NO to sex will be appreciated by your partner.
Of what importance is a NO sex relationship when you are 16 and not thinking if marriage till you are lets say 24(ladies) and 28(for guys) ? Why get in a relationship when you are not ready for a future soon with that person? Why not just be friends and when the time comes to be commited and settle down then start a relatio

datguru:
Nollywood ? I don't watch nollywood movies but I've never seen this guy

How do u expect to know him when you claim you dont watch nigerian movies?

jimohibrahim:
Lol..you got me...
I think my academic is on high grade..
I just wish I can just read my books once and understand it perfectly the way I did with this amazing story..actually this is the first story I read on here and I'm hoping to read more..I'm not really into stories like this before(I face my academics fully) but now i feel like reading good stories like this everyday..I hope you enjoyed it too.

Sure I did.

Hmmm, some people really digested this story!Amazing!I hope you read and digest your academic or professional books like this.

jimohibrahim:
Dude I know you've taken the story too personal but your evidence proves nothing..
Firstly if Ehis was dicefrost..how did he explain Ella's part whenever she's at home with her parent perfectly?
Secondly if Ehis was dicefrost..how did he know that hannah slept with one of the staff in the school when the backpack containing new clothes and phone was seized?
Thirdly if Ehis was dicefrost... How did he knew everything that happened at the psychiatric hospital?
The list goes on and on..all you just need to do is read the perfect story and enjoy.

Dnt mind them, when the story was going on smoothly with the suspense, they where screaming too much suspense and delay as if they asked you to start the story now they are saying it didn't end well.I thought they said it getting too long...

dicefrost:
I would av loved to push d story much further, but it seems everyone is tired of suspense

DExplorer1:
Babe, how're you doing?

Im great and u?

labaski:
nice story Dicefrost..i had d same kinda upbringing aldou not including d religious aspect o..and my mum was d strict one..even till now wey i don old oooo..na wen i enter skul i free myself small..and dose virtues i stl keep in skul..dont club..keep few friends..it helps too..

It sure helps, i had same kind of upbringing...,tot i was hated back den bt now i am so grateful cos it keeps u in check and prevents u from getting into trouble. so much trouble like unwanted pregnancy, STDs, being pomiscuos. Bt some kids will still want to go extra mile and be adventurous.

Why must she leave d effizy?If she is looking tacky ui'll be the 1st to comment.Now she is looking trendy ur saying she shld leave till she delivers.Thank GOD for technology, everybody just blabs without thinking

If I should add, it is very dangerous cos dat steel (pot) coducts electricity and couldcause shock if u are using a faulty switch which obviously u wouldn't be aware of.

Pancakes and potato chips can be addede to your list.

All I see here is you wondering hw possible it is for ur fiancee to settle in u.s, u didn't mention what u do.:hope u ar not one of Dem ladies dat just want to sit at home while d man does all the work.What will be ur own contribution?What ar u doing now?what do u intend to do for a living if u relocate?

Amos 3:3 says "Can two walk together, except they be agreed"? Its obvious you two do not agree when it comes to GOD's word,which is very important.The word of GOD is powerful and should not be ignored,so if she doesnt think its important to stay with the word,pray with the word etc, you should let her GO.Ps 119:105 states:" Thy word is a lamp unto my feet and a light unto my path".You can try to bring her close to GOD but i dnt think you should nurture any r/ship yet till she grows spiritually,cos i see you as sme1 that needs to ve a partner that you both can share the word,pray together etc.Wish you all the best!
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Feldene capsule is very ok.Once a day.She may just need to take just 1 capsule and she will not feel any pain throughout.Some Dr's advice you start taking the tablet few days before the period starts.But she can just take it after it starts and after having a good meal and she will be just fine.Felvene can also be a substitute.

Its 21 days fast and it started on the 7th of January.It should end on the 27th of January.

U mean u ve still not found d xtian girl u ve been looking for?

we ar u located?