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AN Ikeja special Offences Court yesterday remanded the proprietor of a ‘Yahoo-Yahoo’ training school in Lagos, Chinedu Frank, in prison custody.
Frank is standing trial before Justice Oluwatoyin Taiwo over an alleged $20,000 fraud
He is facing a seven-count charge of obtaining money by false pretence and possession of fraudulent documents brought against him by the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission, (EFCC).
He pleaded not guilty.
EFCC prosecuting counsel, Samuel Daji thereafter asked the court for a trial date.
Justice Taiwo granted his request and adjourned the matter till September 17.
She also ordered the defendant to be remanded in Ikoyi Prisons custody.
Earlier, Daji, had told the court that the defendant committed the offences sometime in 2018 and on May 24, in Lagos.
The EFCC alleged that Frank fraudulently obtained the sum of $20, 000 property of Han-Yong Ja on the representation that he is a United States Army officer stationed in Iraq.
Frank was also alleged to have in his possession several fraudulent documents titled: “3rd Billing Flight; Certificate of Retirement” and ‘Replacement Format”.
The defendant was also alleged to have falsely represented himself as a Major-General Davis Lucas of the American Army.
It would be recalled that the Nigeria Security and Civil Defence corps (NSCDC) had on May 22, arrested Frank alongside eight students of the unnamed training centre located at 14, Animashaun Street, Progressive Estate, Ojodu Berger, Lagos, while receiving lectures in internet fraud activities.
Items recovered from them include nine laptops, 16 mobile phones, an Airtel modem, Orange Wifi and one Toyota Camry marked EPE406FN.
The NSCDC handed him to the EFCC alongside eight students identified as Ahmed Musa, 24; Desmond Eze, 29; Preye Kingsley, 23; Benjamin Irabor, 21; Benjamin Opah, 19; Akapo Prosper, 22; Innocent Paul, 20 and Olamide Edun, 20
https://arewagists..com/2019/07/founder-of-yahoo-yahoo-training-school.html

Bola Tinubu, Yemi Osinbajo and other APC opportunists can no longer speak for the Yorubas in Nigeria.
President Buhari cares for his people. But although he is president of Nigeria, his people are not the people of Nigeria. His people are the Fulanis in particular, and Northern Nigerians in general. That is the token of a “good politician.” A good politician promotes the interests of his people.
But what happens to members of the president’s party who are neither Fulani nor Northern Nigerians? Can they also care for their people as the president does for his, and at the same time be in alliance with Mr. President?
The evidence suggests they cannot and do not. They have watched in silence, without complaining, as the president filled major posts with his own people and ignored theirs. They have “siddon looked” as the entire security architecture of Nigeria was placed virtually exclusively in the hands of Northerners.
They said nothing when the president illegally appointed his sister’s in-law, Amina Zakari, as acting chairman of INEC, flouting statutory regulations and without the required approval of the National Council of State. Cat caught their tongue when the president illegally appointed Ahmed Lawan Kuru as the managing director of Asset Management Company of Nigeria (AMCON) and named its executive directors without requisite Senate confirmation.
They were missing in action when he illegally removed Nigeria’s Southern chief justice of the Supreme Court and replaced him with a Northerner.
Deafening Silence
Men like Bola Tinubu who were loud in calling for the restructuring the Nigerian polity, which is one of the cardinal demands of South, dropped their demand like a hot potato once they entered into an alliance with Buhari. In APC, they are now required to implement programs and policies whose primary objective is to benefit the agenda of the president’s people.
Rotimi Amaechi pitched the idea of building a University of Transportation in Nigeria. He believes, in his own words, that “charity begins at home.” Nevertheless, he claims in this case that his charity “must begin abroad.” The reason is that he is a member of the APC. Therefore, the proposed university has to be based in Daura, President Buhari’s hometown in Katsina State.
This is what happens when you join Buhari’s APC. You deny your interests and rationalize that of Mr. President. Buhari is https://arewagists..com/2019/07/who-speaks-for-yoruba-in-killing-fields.html

Spokesperson of the Senate, Dayo Adeyeye, has defended the millions of naira members of the Senate earn, saying that they deserve running costs apart from regular salaries and allowances which are also in millions making them to earn more than the President of United states.
According to Adeyeye, members do not enjoy any “Jumbo pay” contrary to popular belief and Nigerians need more enlightenment about the controversial matter.
Speaking to journalists in Ado, the Ekiti State capital he noted that public officers of lower status get adequate running costs for their duties hence, Senators deserve more for the responsibilities on their shoulders.
“Ordinary clerks have running cost in any organization, why should people believe senators are not entitled to running costs and they attribute that as their salaries, calling it Jumbo pay.
“Senators are entitled to running costs as well, apart from the salary. It is this running cost that people call jumbo pay which is not.
“There are over three thousand staff working for the National Assembly, are they not going to be paid? There’s a National Assembly Service Commission fully populated… (But) You just look at a senator and you say they are the ones sharing Nigeria’s money, No,” he said.
“People don’t appreciate the role of the legislator… that is why no matter how much you pay the legislature, they think it is unjustified.
“They think they don’t earn it which is not the case. But I know that with time, when we begin to engage the Nigerian public and bring them to full Knowledge of the roles of the legislature they will begin to see why the legislators should be given the enablement to perform their roles”.

Jeremiah has probing questions for God: “Why are the wicked so prosperous? Why are evil people so happy?” (Jeremiah 12:1). Habakkuk also interrogates God: “Why do you fold your hands and do nothing while the wicked oppress the righteous?” Indeed, why are some people blessed while others are troubled?
The common assumption is that we get what we deserve, and our sins are responsible for our pains and sufferings. But often, people suffer because of the sins of others and not because of their own sins. Jesus was not wounded for his own transgressions. He was not bruised for his own iniquities. He suffered because of our sins.
Sin often hurts the guiltless. Many suffer, not because of their sins, but because of those of others. David committed adultery, but it was his innocent child that died. He transgressed by numbering Israel, but it was the Israelites and not David that were killed.
Call To Repentance
The people of Jerusalem came to Jesus and asked him about the Galileans that Pilate massacred. “Did these people die because of their sins?” Jesus sidestepped their question by bringing it nearer home.
“What about the eighteen people here in Jerusalem who died when the tower of Siloam fell on them? Did that calamity happen to them because they were worse sinners than other people in Jerusalem?” The answer is emphatically: “No!” Nevertheless, Jesus insists the same thing would happen to his interrogators if they don’t repent of sin.
But if the tower did not fall on the dead because they were worse sinners than others, why then will others perish if they remain in sin?
more here https://arewagists..com/2019/07/why-god-blesses-sinners-by-femi.html

The chairman of the Nasarawa State chapter of Miyetti Allah Cattle Breeders Association of Nigeria (MACBAN, Alhaji Mohammad Huseni speaks with GODWIN ENA on the Ruga scheme and its import for the nation.

WHAT is your take on the Federal Government’s plan to establish Ruga settlements in some states of the federation?
We are 100 per cent in support of Ruga settlement, because of the advantages and benefits attached to the scheme are many. Many people don’t know these and that’s why they are crying wolf about the whole issue.


But people have been reading different meanings to the scheme, saying it is an agenda to Fulanise Nigeria…
The Ruga settlement is only meant for the livestock owners and the Federal Government has planned the pilot scheme to see how they can settle the nomadic Fulani in one place to reduce their movement from one place to another. You know that their movements from one place to another usually cause one problem after the other. So, the advantages of Ruga settlement are that it will improve security of lives and properties in the states, because we don’t know the kind of people that enter the country, especially from the neighbouring countries. But when settled in one place there would be security in place and we will be able to ascertain the situation of things on the state of insecurity in the country.more at https://arewagists..com/2019/07/we-support-ruga-scheme-100-percent.html

Childhood sexual abuse is a very widespread problem that is unfortunately associated with stigma, shame and a tendency to secretly push it under the carpet. Thus, in most instances, it often goes unreported as the family may wish to avoid the societal stigma and public humiliation if it were to become common knowledge.
All of these factors act independently and in tandem to ensure that we hardly ever hear about these cases, though they may be happening right under our noses.
But this culture of silence and secrecy is unhelpful. On the one hand, it results in a situation where perpetrators often go scot-free; they escape sanctions as well as public ridicule and humiliation for their actions.

Whereas, the burden of shame and the emotional turmoil and scars are borne by the young, and innocent survivors (and their families) for the rest of their lives. What are the emotional consequences for such people who have had these experiences? How can we help?

Low self-esteem and confidence
Individuals who have had such experiences often feel they are somehow ‘damaged’ and not like others. Thus, they may suffer from low self-esteem and be lacking in self-confidence. Or they may constantly feel weak and vulnerable.
Such perceptions are wrong and should be countered. The reality is that they are ‘survivors’ who have every reason to hold more at https://arewagists..com/2019/07/consequences-of-child-sexual-abuse-on.html

Egyptian coach Javier Aguirre, has become the first casualty of the ongoing Africa Cup of Nations (AFCON).
He was sacked just hours after the hosts were bundled out of the tournament by South Africa in the round of 16 on Saturday in Cairo.
Hosts Egypt lost 0-1 after an 85th minute goal from Thembinkosi Lorch.
It was for Egypt a lacklustre display in which their talisman Mohamed Salah looked out of sorts and they produced few goalscoring chances.
Egypt Football Association president Hany Abo Rida announced the firing of the Mexican coach.
Abo Rida also announced his own resignation, less than three hours after the game as a stunned host nation digested the defeat.
He also called on his board members to step down, calling his resignation a “moral obligation, although the football association had given the national team full material and moral support”.
Aguirre had told reporters after Saturday’s defeat that he took sole responsibility but was proud of all of his players.
“The game was open and saw https://arewagists..com/2019/07/afcon-2019-egypt-sacks-coach.html

Aare Ona Kakanfo of Yorubaland, Chief Gani Adams, speaks on issues of national interest, especially the controversial establishment of Ruga settlements across the country, in this interview with BOLA BADMUS. Excerpts:

THIS issue of suspended Ruga settlement threatened the country and polarised the polity. What is your own view of the programme as initially planned by the Federal Government?
The plan to establish Ruga settlement was a result of trying to revisit the jidadist agenda that was started in 1804. We didn’t see the policy as a way to settle the crisis of herdsmen. We saw it as a dangerous trend that was coming to our abode in the South-West.
And we saw it as a way of imposing on us those who had been threatening our lives and properties. We called on the whole world that we didn’t want Ruga settlements policy at all.
If they were settling the herdsmen who deal in cows, what about the people who deal in piggery? What about the farmers who deal in livestock like chicken and farmers who deal in various other animals? Why is the Federal Government laying emphasis only on those who deal in cows?
As a matter of fact, the issue of ranches is private. The Federal Government does not have business involving itself in it or even using our resources to build communities for them.
Before the issue of these criminal Fulani herdsmen who are maiming, killing, raping, kidnapping our people, destroying their farms, burning them and collecting money from them, we had had some Fulani living in Yorubaland and they were living in peace and harmony. Nobody documented the lands given to them; they were being given lands by our royal fathers or landowners in the community, based on relationships, not by allowing a state government to give them 31 hectares of land on the basis of issuing documents to them and processing certificates of occupancy (CofO).
Now, should they succeed in doing that, as contemplated by the Federal Government, they would now install an emir on that land. Our memory is still refreshed about what happened between 1818 and 1824 when some Fulani came to Ilorin as Islamic scholars. In the process of settling down, Afonja was killed in 1884. That was how we lost the leadership of Ilorin. The same thing happened elsewhere.
Though people were not killed in Lokoja, systematically, the Yoruba, the Oworo who founded Lokojo, now called Lokoja, are not on their original land; the land has been taken over and the prominent traditional ruler of Lokoja now is an emir. The Oworo are now living in the hills of Lokoja. We don’t want to repeat the past mistake and we have communicated to our royal fathers; we have communicated to our governors who are the chief security officers of every state in the South-West; that in Yorubaland, history is very important. You should not cause a repeat of the problem we had in some of our towns in Yorubaland. The problem should not reccur.
Yoruba people had never wanted Ruga. It is unwarranted, needless and a dangerous policy. It is a policy that can break this nation, just as it has overheated the polity.
Four main zones in Nigeria, Middle-Belt, South-West, South-East and the South-South kicked against it. We said we didn’t want Ruga as a policy for settlement.

People said in a situation like this, consultations ought to have been the first approach. Why would you think the Federal Government never consulted before this kind of decision was taken?
Even if there was dialogue, nobody more at https://arewagists..com/2019/07/before-you-cede-swest-land-remember.html

Fans shared divergent views on social media platforms especially twitter following the epic and blunt diary session of Omasola, one of the housemates of the ongoing reality show BBNaija (S) 4.
News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) reports that the 38-year-old model previously caught viewers attention for sharing an emotional life story and breaking down on Wednesday.
He however, switched into humour during his diary session, holding a blunt interaction with ‘Biggie’.
Omasola noted that most of the housemates spoke with foreign accents and were not as lively as he expected.
The Delta-born housemate, who spoke majorly in pidgin English, said he believes he will be a fan favourite because he is different, special and has a story to tell.
True to his words, the diary session seemed to increase his fan base as he was attending at number five on Nigerian twitter.
Some fans praised his sincerity while others felt he was trying to borrow the ‘Warri’ strategy from https://arewagists..com/2019/07/bbnaija-omasolas-blunt-diary-session.html

A Lagos Division of the Federal High Court has ordered the interim forfeiture of jewelries valued at about $40 million to the Nigerian government.
The jewelries were recovered by the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission, EFCC, in homes traced to the former minister of petroleum, Diezani Allison-Madueke.
Nicholas Oweibo, the judge, made the order Friday after granting an ex parte motion application brought before him by the EFCC prosecutor, Rotimi Oyedepo.
In the application, the EFCC said the expensive items, comprising wristwatches, necklaces, bracelets, bangles, earrings and more, were reasonably suspected to have been acquired with proceeds of unlawful activities of the former minister
https://arewagists..com/2019/07/court-orders-interim-forfeiture-of.html

The Zamfara Police Command has facilitated the release of 25 fulani herders illegally held by local vigilantes in Dansadau Emirate, Maru Local Government area of the state.
The release of the victims is part of the ongoing push for dialogue with kidnappers and bandits to restore lasting peace in the state.
The victims, comprising men, women and children, were apprehended by the vigilantes, locally known as Yansakai, on April 9, 2019.
This is contained in a statement issued to newsmen in Gusau on Friday by the Public Relations Officer of the command, SP Muhammad Shehu.
News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) reports that Gov. Bello Matawalle had initiated dialogue with bandits as part of efforts to address the security challenges facing the state.
The state chapter of Miyetti Allah Cattle Breeders Association had in an earlier meeting with the governor, accused local vigilantes of arbitrary arrests, torture and branding of all Fulani herders as thieves and bandits.
“The release of the victims is in line with the ongoing peace and dialogue mission initiated by the state government,” the police said.
The Emir of Dansadau, Alhaji Hussaini Umar, who handed over the victims to the Commissioner of Police, Usman Nagogo, thanked the Police for prompt action to ensure the return of peace in the state.
Umar also commended the state government for initiating the peace dialogue with bandits in order to protect citezens and bring about lasting peace.
The emir promised to give maximum support and cooperation for the success of the programme.
Receiving the victims, Nagogo commended the effort of the Yansakai group for keeping to their words and urged them to maintain the tempo.
He also called on bandits operating in the state to show same maturity in order to restore peace in Zamfara.
Already, the police commissioner has handed over the released 25 victims to Gov. Matawalle at the Government House Gusau, who appreciated the police for working assiduously to ensure peace and safety in Zamfara
https://arewagists..com/2019/07/police-facilitates-release-of-25-fulani.html

Nine Nigerians were among those killed during an airstrike on a migration detention centre in Tripoli, Libya, it was learnt.
Forty-four people were killed in the unfortunate incident that occurred in the early hours of Wednesday.
President Muhammadu Buhari on Wednesday condemned the airstrike and described it as “inhuman, wicked and callous attack on helpless and defenceless people”.
The Chairman/Chief Executive Officer (CEO), Nigerians in Diaspora Commission (NIDCOM), Mrs. Abike Dabiri-Erewa, condoled with the families of the nine Nigerians involved.
In a statement, she said it was disheartening that nine Nigerians have been identified as victims in the unfortunate incident.
According to Abdurahman Balogun, the commission’s media aide, Mrs. Dabiri-Erewa said https://arewagists..com/2019/07/nine-nigerians-killed-in-libya-migrant.html

The Supreme Court has announced Oyetola winner of the Osun governorship election.
The court dismissed the appeal by candidate of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) in the election, Senator Ademola Adeleke.
The Supreme Court, in a majority decision of five-to-two, read by Justice Olabode Rodes-Vivour, held that the failure of a member of the election tribunal, Justice Peter Obiora to sit on February 6, 2019 rendered the entire proceedings and the judgment given by the tribunal a nullity.
The court upheld the majority judgment of the Court of Appeal, which upheld the victory Adegboyega Oyetola of the All Progressives Congress (APC) as the Governor of Osun State
https://arewagists..com/2019/07/supreme-court-confirms-oyetola-winner.html

As the battle rage over the proposed RUGA settlements, it is interesting to note that the father of faith, Abraham owned herds, and back then there were clashes over grazing rights. According to the book of Genesis 13:7, “there was strife between the herdsmen of Abram’s livestock and the herdsmen of Lot’s livestock.” Why? Verse six says: “Now the land was not able to support them, that they might dwell together, for their possession was so great that they could not dwell together.”
At the bottom of the herdsmen-farmers’ clashes that have led to inter-ethnic crisis in the country is access to land. To solve the problem between him and Lot, Abram proposed in verse eight: “Please let there be no strife between you and me, and between my herdsmen and your herdsmen, for we are brethren.” He went on: “Please separate from me. If you take the left, then I will go to the right; or if you go to the right, then I will go to the left.”
While our farmers and herdsmen may not have the luxury of going their separate ways as Abram and Lot did more at https://arewagists..com/2019/07/the-good-herdsmen-by-gabriel-amalu.html

President Muhammadu Buhari on Tuesday said that his administration requires a formidable team in order to deliver his Next Level mandates to Nigerians.
The President, who will soon name his cabinet members, made the remark while receiving the Buhari Media Organisation (BMO) led by its chairman, Omoniyi Akinsiju, at the Presidential Villa, Abuja.
The President also insisted that his administration will do everything to end insecurity in the country.
Stressing that he will make Nigeria a peaceful and prosperous nation, he promised to leave Nigeria better than he met it.
He said “Our government continues to grow in strength and will place a firm foundation for future generations.
“While there will be those who are determined to drag us back to the bad old days, your visit is timely. It is exactly a month ago that I was sworn in for a second term in office. The task ahead for the four years will require a formidable team.”
He described the BMO as a key communication in the information management asset to his administration.
He said “Your efforts have been commendable. more at https://arewagists..com/2019/07/i-need-formidable-team-for-my-next.html

No fewer than 200 parents of students on Madonna University have threatened to withdraw their wards over the continued detention of six students and one lecturer.
On Tuesday, the absence of Justice Babtunde Quadri of the Federal High Court 2 in Awka, Anambra state stalled the much-awaited release of six Madonna University students and their lecturer.
Six students of Madonna University, Okija, Anambra state and a lecturer were arrested and detained since February 2019 over an alleged opinion they posted on Facebook.
The post was about poor management in the institution.
The Court was filled to the brim on the adjourned date with human rights defenders, parents of the detained students and sympathisers in attendance.
But the Judge, it was gathered, would seat on Wednesday for continuation of the trial.
However, no fewer than 30 parents of the detained students had started meeting to discuss on how to withdraw their wards
One of the parents, Christopher Onyejekwe, told reporters in Awka, that the Institution was likely to lose over 200 students next semester.
Onyejekwe, said when the problem started, he went to the founder of the institution eleven times to beg him but all to no avail.
According to him: “It has become a fight to the finish. These children have suffered since more at https://arewagists..com/2019/07/200-parents-to-withdraw-children-from.html

President Muhammadu Buhari has approved the appointment of Dr. Gambo Gumel Aliyu as the Director-General, National Agency for the Control of Aids (NACA), for an initial term of four (4) years.
A statement by the Permanent Secretary General Services Office (OSGF), Olusegun Adekunle, said the appointment was in line with the provision of Section 8, Sub-Section (4) of National Agency for the Control of Aids (Establishment) Act, 2007.
The appointment, he said, is with effect from 26th June 2019.
Dr. Aliyu is a Public Health Physician with a background in HIV Epidemiology and Disease Prevention.
Until the appointment, he was the Country Director, University of Maryland Programmes in Nigeria.
https://arewagists..com/2019/07/buhari-appoints-gambo-aliyu-as-naca-dg.html

The immediate past representative of Ohaozara, Onicha and Ivo federal constituency , at the House of Representatives, Linus Okorie, has called on political, natural, religious and opinion leaders to join hands and advise President Mohammadu Buhari to abandon the Ruga policy that would propel a national crisis and instability.
Okorie, who maintained that the leaders owe the nation urgent duty to speak up on this matter noted that forceful implementation of Ruga would certainly explode crisis in the country.
He disclosed this to newsmen in Abakaliki while declaring support for the comprehensive reform of the nomadic culture and economics, including any stimulus to accelerate their trade.
He, however, advocate that the federal government should implement ranching which according to him remains the only solution instead with incentives to address inherent fears and capacity gaps of the herders and would-be investors.
Meanwhile, Okorie, warned South East and South South Governor’s never to yield their land for Ruga, stating that anyone who fails to protect their land and gives land for Ruga will never recover from its negative effects even after office and this is no rocket science.
His words: “The FG should package an appropriate ranching stimulus and economics to drive that dormant goldmine. But it’s a no no to Ruga. And this has nothing to do with politics and President Muhammadu Buhari. It’s about economics, it’s about national stability and security. It about not creating more problems trying to solve one.”
“Cattle ranching remains more at https://arewagists..com/2019/07/ruga-implementation-will-destroy-nigeria.html

The People’s Democratic Party (PDP) In Kaduna State on Sunday alleged that, the Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC) was under pressure to tamper with election materials in the March 9th, 2019 governorship elections in the state.
The allegation was contained in a statement by the party’s Publicity Secretary in Kaduna State, Abraham Alberah Catoh.
According to the opposition party, ”We have received credible information that the Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC) is under intense pressure to tamper with election materials used for the conduct of governorship elections on 9th March, 2019 in the State.
“We are drawing the attention of the world, Nigerians and the people of Kaduna State in particular, to note the attempt by the ruling All Progressive Congress (APC) and the government Of Kaduna State Tyo coerce INEC into tampering with electoral materials.
“In as much as we do not want to question the integrity of INEC, we wish to state that the eyes and ears of our teeming party faithfuls/sympathisers are wide open in all INEC offices spread throughout the 23 local government areas of Kaduna State and the State INEC Headquarters.
“We advise INEC not to do anything that could tamper with the fragile peace reigning in the State, as any attempt to do the bidding of undemocratic external forces will be resisted by the public whose mandate was earlier stolen.
“Please note that while we would not want to say anything on the petition before the Tribunal, we wonder why the people, who claimed to have won the governorship elections, would be putting pressure on INEC to tamper with the voting materials in their favour.
“The eagle eyes are watching and keeping more at https://arewagists..com/2019/06/inec-being-pressured-to-alter-kaduna.html

Wife of the Senior Pastor of the Commonwealth of Zion Assembly, Pastor Omodele Fatoyinbo has denied claims of her husband, Biodun Fatoyinbo, raping Busola Dakolo.
According to her, it is impossible for her husband to be a rapist.
Mrs. Fatoyinbo speaking during the church service on Sunday said “My husband is not a rapist. Even if he was an unbeliever, he would not be a rapist.”
Her husband, however, took the microphone from her before she could finish her speech, and said: “the elders are handling the matter.”
No sermon was delivered during the service that more at https://arewagists..com/2019/06/my-husband-can-never-rape-says-omodele.html

An adage state: “Relationships last longer when nobody knows nothing about it”.
Relationship is sometimes a reserved place where two people could find solace, trust and support, driven by a commitment to honour, love, and respect.
Marriages require a few essential elements to maintain. At the top of the list is privacy.
Getting married is one thing, sustaining the marriage is another. In times past, people were very quick to allow others meddle into issues affecting their families, especially when it involves one of the spouses.
While this, in some cases, has its benefits, one of which includes seeing things from another party’s perspective. However, there are a lot of times when extra people were brought into family affairs, and things don’t go in the best direction.
Given that not everyone actually is happy that you are happy and they are looking for opportunity to spoil the happiness.
Therefore, these are seven reasons you should keep your marriage private.
1. You Open Yourself To Negative Opinions:
Most times when we vent and go about expressing our anger and displeasure about our spouse, we often talk mostly about the partner’s faults and not ours. Also, most times we usually relay these complaints to people close to us, probably our friends or a family member we are close to.
It is likely for that family member of yours to take you side and God help you the person you reported your spouse to dislikes your spouse. This will be the perfect opportunity to “badmouth” your spouse. Hence, you are usually more open to negative opinions when you go outside of your marriage to resolve issues.
2. You can filter pictures, not your relationship:
The evolution of social media has only increased our lust for recognition and makes it easier to get. However, becoming intoxicated by the attention of others is dangerous for your relationship. The issue arises when a couple is more in love with the glamour of having a social media relationship than an actual bond.
Keeping your relationship private keeps your motivations pure. You want to make sure that every day you decide to move forward in your relationship you are doing so because you couldn’t imagine a life without your partner, not because you are addicted to the false approval of social media viewers. That’s the relationship goals.
3. It gives the chance for your ex to be in your business:
The only worse than a third party being in your marriage is allowing your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend it could jeopardize the marriage, if the marriage doesn’t have a strong bond. Hell bent and determined to poke holes in your new love affair. Disclosing too much to your ex can leave the relationship vulnerable. “Be wise”.
4. Everyone won’t be happy for you:
There are some people so distraught with their own lives and will go out of their way to ruin other people’s happiness. The bitter truth is, not everyone wants to see you move forward, and certainly not happy. Sad, yes but true.
This is why you should be careful about expressing your complaints to third parties. The less people know about your personal life, the less they have to speak on.
5. It can displease your spouse:
Most of our spouse’s doesn’t like the idea of allowing third party in the marriage so any time you share problems with others, it can displease the spouse and even become embarrassing.
It can damage their image in front of others and while you and your spouse have moved more at https://arewagists..com/2019/06/reasons-why-you-must-keep-your-marriage.html

‘’Some of you might think I am mental, but I am very normal. Bom I love my husband beating me, I enjoy seeing him angry. Don’t call me crazy it is just my person .

“He used to beat the living daylight out of me and sometimes I bleed but I still survive it . We have lived like that for 2 years and he has killed 3 of my unborn kids out

“of that but I don’t mind, God will give us more. But now he has repented and found Christ according to him and he has become too calm. He does not shout or raise

“his hand on me again and the marriage is now full. So I met this tanker driver that use to beat me and give me money, I love the guy so much because he is too strong. Bom I am pregnant and I don’t know if should keep it because my husband has not touched me since he found Jesus https://arewagists..com/2019/06/i-love-my-husband-beating-me.html

A constitutional crisis is looming over insistence of the Federal Government to create Fulani settlements across the 36 states of the federation despite objections by many state governments.
In the first phase of the project, the Federal Ministry of Agriculture and Rural Development has awarded contract for the construction of Ruga infrastructure complete with sanitary facilities in 12 states meant to serve as pilot for the project.
Some of the 12 states included Taraba, Benue, Adamawa, Plateau, Zamfara, Kano, Kaduna and others.
Sunday Tribune got a copy of the contract award letter for the building of Ruga settlements in eight locations in Taraba State.
It has reference number FMA/PROC/RD/SIP/5499/1 dated 21st May, 2019 addressed to The Managing Director, MAS Prudent Limited, Suit D16, Danziyal Plaza, Central Business District, Abuja.
It was titled “Award of contract for the construction of Ruga Infrastructure with Sanitary Facilities (Red Bricks Structure) In Taraba State (Eight Locations.”
The letter reads in part “I am directed to inform you that the Federal Executive Council (FEC) at its meeting held on 8th May 2019 approved the award of contract for the construction of eigh numbers Ruga infrastructure with sanitary facilities (red brick structures) each in Taraba State as detailed in the Attached to your company at the total sum of one hundred and susty six million three hundred and thirty six thousand, three hundred and eighty naira only inclusive of VAT with a completion period of four weeks with effect from the date of this letter.
“You are therefore, to indicate in writing within one week your acceptance of this offer to the Office of the Director of Procurement, Federal Ministry of Agriculture and Rural Development (FMARD), Abuja or https://arewagists..com/2019/06/fg-finally-awards-contract-for-fulani.html