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ikorodureporta:
A guy in his 50's may still end up marrying a succulent teenager, but when a lady gets to the 40-range & still single, it becomes an issue. Its a fact that they are unhappy people, & some are 'hopelessly' single I'v understood various issues leading to this & i wanna motivate you all in your 20's & 30's not to fall into this sh*t!


1. THOSE CARING FOR THEIR AGED PARENTS


Some ladies, being the younger siblings are the ones left at home to manage the affairs of their parents. Other older siblings live their lives how the feel like, get married, have kids, while those ones left @ home cannot do other things due to the responsibility of looking after their aged parents- jobs, outings etc becomes limited, thus, they are left behind by the society...


As a senior sibling, dnt always wait for them to ask for support. It is by those little support they get from you they can put other things in place, 'cos they'll neva ask you since u've failed to see life from their angle....



2. THOSE LIVING WITH THEIR SIBLINGS & CARING FOR THEIR KIDS


Some ladies have been living with their siblings & caring for their kids since their early teenage days. They have become their househelp & do not have time for themselves. Their busy parents too dnt care. They leave in the morning & get home late @ night, but these caretakers remain indoor- can't pursue their career, not job, they just rely on them for everything they need. Some of those kids even graduate & get married while they are still single.


If you have anyone under your roof, make sure they'r empowered, 'cos in future, they may start hating you for being the cause of their loneliness...


3. ENVIRONMENT


Someone relocating from a much lively neighbourhood to a very 'dull' place may have issues with their social life. Comparing my former area to my current area, i know how it feels like as a guy. If a lady in her 30's is in this condition, i wonder how she wld get out of it. That means you must double-up your efforts to keep up with your social class, but laziness wl not allow them to make changes. They prefer attending mushroom churches behind their house instead of worshipping @ bigger parishes; they remain indoors - dnt visit old friends anymore because of the distance, & thats how they become lonely & isolated....


4. CAREER


These ones focus so much on their career & loosing out on their relationship. Even when they realize that things aren't right with their lifestyle, they still set bars (class) on the type of guy they need. When are you gonna find that 'Mr. Perfect'?? Serena Williams has taken a break from tennis to raise a family; Funke Akindele too has taken control of her destiny


5. CHASTITY:


These set of ladies were able to keep themselves clean in their teens, 20's, & 30's.....and somehow have lost interest in sex. They have become 'frigid' & even scared of having babies at their age. They even prefer being singles for life....

How on earth will she hv kids if she is still a Virgin
Oga d pic no mak sense she has 2 brk d stuff 2 hv kids 2 b an example to.

Konji na bastard.

NwaAmaikpe:


What is his account number, I want to subscribe.


I've been dying to see that Guy's ass

I believe d main difference here is education,now i understand d quote dat "who leads mankind are dos who know how to read and write". May we neva hv an illiterate as a president again...

I wonder y 2baba com eff up...

shukuokukobambi:
You're not a true mavrodian. Where is your optimism?

Reality don dey set in for most actually otherwise, dem for don begin swear for you on top your thread

I visited chuddy's Facebook page yesterday and saw a participant call him a p@$#y!! Another one threatened to arrest him. I was like "is mmm no longer changing the world together again?"

Guy go rest,changing which world. They hung my money for 2 months now with no.concrete reason or concrete plan. If dats how you change the.world then u ve been fooled. Serious minded people enact change not dream of change

whoisuche:
The problem with u people is the ability to read and understand simple grammar. He talked about couples who are using passoword and hidden it from their spouse. You are not married. Stop comparing your girlfriend/boyfriend attitude. How will u feel if you are married and ur partner start
hiding things from you.

Mr or Mrs ITK, d topic said dont marry any1 hu locks his her fon nd blah blah. So its an advice 4 potential couples not couples themselves. So man ur d 1 wit.d prblm

ajoo17:
I think she is having a problem somewhere. God is not an author of confusion. God created sex and there is a reason for it. She may not like it but that doesn't mean that she can absolve herself from it because one day her body will request for it. Sex is a food which even if you fast you will come down to it some day.

Brother i concur,one day she nd odas lik her must break the fast

winkmart:
A Ghanaian counselor has warned intending couples to avoiding marrying anyone who puts passwords on their phones.

Counselor Adofoli wrote:
If you are single and thinking of marriage then please don't marry anyone who puts passwords or locks on their phone as a form of security to prevent you from accessing their conversations.




They can surely do this for other security measures, but you must not be the reason for this action. I am very much aware that passwords or lock are for security purposes but one thing I don't approve of is when a spouse becomes the reason for that security measure.

There is nothing like secrecy or privacy in marriage, let no one deceive you there is, and let no one tell you he or she is doing that to save you from getting hurt. Marriage is a holy institution, there is nothing like hiding. Marriage is made for life and one of the very things that can destroy it is acts of hiding things.

The bible says in Genesis 2:25 (TLB)
"Now although the man and his wife were both naked, neither of them was embarrassed or ashamed". What are you embarrassed or ashamed of your spouse seeing? If you can't be truthful, honest and transparent with them, then there is no need getting married to them. It doesn't matter how you feel about them.

Mark 10:8 (NLV) says
“The two will become one. So they are no longer two, but one”. I therefore suggest to you, if he or she is hiding things from you, it simply means they don’t want to become one with you. Such a marriage won’t last.

Many people don't know trust is more important than love in any relationship especially marriage. Love without trust is empty. Trust enhances love, it makes it beautiful and fortified. Trust is very essential. Not even thieves can work together if they can't trust each other. An employer and employee cannot have a good relationship if trust doesn't exist. It takes trust for citizens to elect one of their own as their leader or president. It takes trust for God to perform miracles in our lives as humans.



Your relationship is bound to fail if you agree to marry someone you don't trust. The simple question is, if I can trust you with the most important organ in my life which is the heart, that which holds my life in the name of love, then why can't I trust you with a phone conversation or chat? If the chat is more important than me, then you don't need me in your life. I'm supposed to be the most important person in your life and can't stand the competition with passwords.


Once I agree to marry you, it means I trust you, and there is no need to suspect you, or secretly read your chats etc. in your absence. In Ephesians 5:21 (TLB) bible instructs spouses to "Honor Christ by submitting to each other".

In other words, respect each other and for that matter If I need to have access to your phone or social media account, I need to seek your approval or ask for your permission.

Our goal in marriage is to be good couples. A good wife will be the husband's peace and a good husband will be the wife's protection. If you are married but find yourself guilty by this message, please change. You might not understand the damage you are causing your marriage and spouse until the same thing is done to you.

In conclusion "If you do the right thing, honesty will be your guide. But if you are crooked, you will be trapped by your own dishonesty" - Proverbs 11:3 (CEV).

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http://www.blackberrybabes.com/2017/01/dont-marry-anyone-who-puts-password-on.html

lalasticlala

Nonsense , i put password on every gadget i have,many of my lady friends know the pswrd and dat maks dem tnk d re special 2 me

voicelez:
Please let it end in height competition, no bed competition oh. Because I no trust corpers

Even if na 1min,abeg

Necessity is really the mother of invention. So una de since una neva tink am b4, na nw fuel don finish .... Jst don squander d allocated money amongst urselfs

Rhaspody:
those are not simple. They are gold plated vertu phones for Christ sake

D luk lik yellow colored nokia touch to me

Endure

GossipHeart:


May God strike me dead any day i show love to any girl or woman who isn't my mum, sister or wife

I used to be that lovely boyfriend who buys flowers for my girlfriend, takes her on vacations and dates just to make her happy but i learned the hard way, i treated my ex girlfriends like Queens but i was foolish enough not to realize that you can't make women happy by being a nice guy

These hoes did me dirty

And when i became that hard boyfriend who doesn't give a flying fucck, these hoes are now loyal

True talk my broda

Go on...

ajebuter:
This Daura old man just keep falling the hands of his zombies every minute

They are now tired of defending him and posts supporting him are becoming fewer daily while have openly switched allegiance

This old dude should just retire to play with his grandkids and cows abeg..

Hehehe, play with his cows...

kay29000:
Majority of comments on Naifraland are now too negative and depressing. Anytime I come here, i leave very sad.

Dats becos d country is in deep shit nd u hvnt noticed it yet.

I hv no problem wit our presido, but if he cant keep to any of his promises he shud jst shut d Bleep up nd let his tenure pass peacefully,dan making a joke of himself nd d country.

No mind our presido, him na nollywood himself. D craze wey go strike am as him de smoke weed d promise heaven still de do pressup.

Massaging my class gals laps under the locker during classes,dem de hustle 4 sits next 2 me.Chei !!! those bad old days.

no p

Mustack: hay how did you do that?

jst chngd the font

Mustack: which app did you use to beautify the text of your phone.

'my font' app

Zillight: hello Broda, am still interested in how u changed d fonts on ur Android fone plss. wanna love-vendor my device too.....happy '14.

u mean dis? dowlod "my font" app 4rm playstore.woks only 4 Nokia & Samsung fons wit flip font,else u must root ur fon.But try it 1st shaa.

Stanley08: If you are rooted, go into data/app/ and delete all the .odex files you can find there. Cheers!

tnks ,though fon nt rooted.i cleared dump store with *#9900# , got 1.03gig space freed.

on wat grounds do u mak such comments?