Exercise in futility.


If a counter petition is filed, 100,000 will sign in a day.

That's how much we love Asiwaju BAT. [/quote]



I wonder why there's no "dislike" icon on this darn app.

[quote author=manos post=92696738]Note: it's a bit long... I could have summarized but I want those contributing to get a crystal clear picture of the situation, so that they can give better and specific advice.

The major problem here is that she mixes up things to be done in the kitchen with things done only in the toilet.

I have been married to my wife for over a year now (no kids yet) and there are certain unhygienic habits she has been displaying, since we started living together. I have been seeking ways to help her improve on it, but a calm correction from me always leads to a bitter argument between us. (She claims I complain too much whenever I point it out)

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Hi there, honestly, I feel sympathy for your situation.

It must not be easy going through such a challenging situation.

1. Your second paragraph really cracked me up, forgive me.

2. Did you guys not court (I don't necessarily mean "communal living", that's one way of knowing to a degree what to expect in a marriage, of course there's only so much you can know.

3. You need to ask yourself if she's full-on dirty or just actually sloppy with a few things, a faux pas, if you will.

4. You need to have a calm sit-down with your wife, assure her of your love for her (that's why you married her in the first place) and tell her you want to enjoy the rest of the marriage with her.

But there are few challenges you've noticed that's come up, remember, it's not to prove who's right.

That's why she may have said you complain too much.

Do it with love.

5. If after repeated trials and it doesn't work, you might need to talk to someone she would listen to, and who's mature.

6. Know that every endeavor has it accompanying challenges, and marriage is no different.


I wish you the best!!