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KristaPretty:
As a woman, let me tell you few things that happens most of the time looking at this situation.

- you will never see her cheat on you again because she will be smarter about this
- she will not change, those beggings are just to guilt trip you into forgiving her.
- Women prefer being the ones to break up, not the other way round so get ready to have it the other way
- she is begging to come back because she might be gaining materially from you while someone else is washing her plate on your behalf (you said you're not in the country)

Tenkyu

Frustrated feminists and mascunists or whatever them call una, don't mention me abeg make the god of amotekùn no strike you

Thanks for pointing this out. I have no intention of taking her back

JohnnyPalmer:
Most of these girls want to eat their cake and have it
They lack contentment and you being distant is not gonna help, she has desires you can't all but fulfil for her age,
She needs to explore, try stuffz out... And sorry for you to hear this... No matter how much you send her it won't be enough
She's at her hoeing stage

Don't ever make the mistake of taking her back, she'll plead, swear, beg, ask friends to beg you, keep denying until you have concrete proof
I've been there

There will be this temptation to take her back, it's not worth it... Better cut her off from contacting you, that's the fastest way to move on
Don't ever forgive a cheating gal except you just want to chop and comot... If she cheats once... She will again and get smarter.. It will be harder for you to catch her the second time

I know it's not easy especially if you love her, but it's best to move on

Thanks for this. She has even done worse things in the past but I forgave her. I just can't allow her into my life again. I wish her well

ehmmy11:
Reading your previous thread.. All i can say is it's obvious you were the "god fearing husband to be" option girls like this one are very deadly cos they master the act of manipulation don't be surprised by her pleading it's only because she didn't meet a guy that equals or surpass Wat she feels can secure her future.. All these didn't start today you saw the signs and choose to ignore it.


Personally, the so called "relationship" am in now is really just an experience. Hell will freeze over ...before i can even dream of marrying her as I have already established that she has other guys and is willing and open to meet more.. Let's not get into her character that's another story for another day...

You will be fine time will heal you

Thank you ehmmy11, All I need now is to spend time alone and focus more on my life goals and family

fabuloz1:
I will advise still meet her and get more from her. I believe after much pressure from you, she will open up, then you can take your decision from there. I believe she can never open up on WhatsApp.

I am not in the country at the moment and no time for reviewing the decision. I can't take her back

lightangel65i:
Don't ever go back to her, from her reply she is guilty if she was innocent she won't be begging you.
Don't ever go back

Never again. Thanks for this

AfroKnight:
I just checked your old thread and I want to tell you I am proud that you finally did the right thing.

It’s not always easy to let go of a relationship with a manipulator. You’d always consider how much of your time and resources you’d committed to make things work. You’d remember all the plans you made for the future. But it is good cut ties with a lying cheat.

Congratulations.

Thanks bro. I have made my decision and nothing changes that

fabuloz1:
Victor, you could have confronted her with tangible evidence, you didn't do holistic investigation before concluding. Maybe her sister was jealous of her and she had to lie to you and you believe that hook and sinker. Accept that girl back bro, she's dying slowly. Ask her sister the guy's name and all what they do and confront her about him. Observe her body language

Her sister sent me the guy's picture and his name. All she could say it the guy is her elder sis ex..

Babyforever:
Please give her another chance Victor it's not easy out here especially now that the whole world is crumbling where you want her to run to ? If not your place please consider your decisions and give her a second chance i don't think she's strong enough to handle the trauma this will put her to please victor

Are you sure you are not related to her ? Would you wish your brother accept such lady ?

She keeps pleading but I'm sure blocking her will be the best option now

zed7:
No need to get worked up if your partner leaves you or doesn't want you anymore. As we grow older, our tastes change and we meet people we feel we connect more with.
Dust yourself off and move on.
Relationships go and come but what is most important is to ensure you give getting better as a person, keep growing and keep progressing, not for others but for yourself.

Thanks for this piece of advice, I have moved on. Better to channel all my energy to building my life goals. No more relationship scam again

Freelane33:
Trust is mugun . Trust no one even you, yourself . You betrayed yourself because I knew a part of your heart would have been telling you to leave that toxic relationship but the other part that is enjoying the passage of the hairy snail will never want you to leave . That’s life bro but not all Nigerian girls are like that sha . Your girl was just an unstable hole that loves to taste every joystick that comes through

You need to see how she acts like a saint whenever we are together. You would hardly suspect this girl cheats

I never wanted to believe my now ex girlfriend was a cheat even after receiving numerous advice from nairalanders here sometime ago in my other thread. I allowed the relationship to continued until yesterday due to the love I had for her.
Yesterday, her younger sister broke the news to me that her sister is cheating on me with a guy from her state. Before this happened, I have been seeing the red flags. Few days ago on my birthday, she posted my picture on whatsapp with the caption "friends become bestie". I was startled because I never knew I was my girlfriend's bestie. Damn, some girls are evil hearted. Secondly, she deleted the birthday post before 5pm, another red flag.
I have nothing to do with her anymore, I have officially broke up with her. I'm a free man now. Relationship is overrated, no Naija girl deserves to be trusted

Yemike:
Still yet to receive alert tho'

Can you please unquote my account details?

Thanks.

Just wait for few minutes. I'm sure it's your bank network

Yemike:
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Adeniyineyo:
No alert yet, but thks bro

God blessing always

GT bank must mumu

Yemike:
I'm the second person to quote you bro.
Anything for me?.

you no quickly talk na. Oya drop aza

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Stupidity

ValCon888:
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Commendable! You know much about these air force matter

Pheals:
guy most nairaland we take u for a joke ..why don't u try and search online for solutions

So Nairaland has turned offline abi

[quote author=Levels1 post=88048132][/quote]I sent you a message WhatsApp. Hope all well?

This is gonna be interesting and many are gonna learn from this. Op, keep it coming

Before this dreaded global pandemic, there are people without shelter or even enough cloths and food. Everyone is clamoring for sit at home but have you thought of those without homes? Those who sleep on the streets, under bridges and other public places.
What are the Government doing about this ? They deserve to sit at home too with a roof over their heads

I think some Politicians/public figures have begin to use this corona virus to gain empathy. If truly they test positive, it would be made confidential for some time before making it public. Obviously the Governors and some other people tested positive are actually negative.