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You are very unserious human being[/quote]Hahahhaha..this bros too soft jor

Where is ur location?

akeensbussy:
ki ni omode ti e mo, his mother warned him..that too childish...his mother did not warn him when he was going there to woo her or seeking for her hand in marriage.

initially, his mother don't have to know that his wife had left home, not untill he has done everything in his capacity to bring her back. if all means fails, that is when he should now involve his parent. A real man should know how to take decision by himself. u must know what u want and what u don't

except he his not interested in the union again.

Omode temi moo biwo she ma drink bobo alone....bros egbemu die..lol.
All this ur comment good for father not person wey only sabi how to pregnant woman and pretend to be father or husband

jclassiq:
too cold or too cool? How do u mean cold?

Cool is understatement...Cold is the right statement

akeensbussy:
My brother, u are a man and u have to stand by every decision u have taken in life..your wife is one of those decision. u met her, u wooed her and you convinced her to marry u, all by yourself.

in every decision u are taking in life, ur family should be number one. my advice for u is to go and look for ur wife and children anywhere they might be. That is the only thing u have got as a man.

if your wife is with her mother, go there and ask for ur wife authoritatively "Iyawo Mida, Iyawo mi ati awon omo mi ni mo wa ko" tell her parent like that. if u paid for a dowery and did a proper wedding, they will allow I to see ur wife.

Call ur wife, sit her down, tell her how much u missed her and the kids. re-woo her again. Do everything in your capacity to take your wife and kids home.

Be a man and stop been emotional. They are the only family u got. Your mother will leave u one day..even her mother too.

People around u will only pity and mock u.

Good luck

Did you heat what he said nii?he said my mother warn me no to go to her parent house to ask for my baby.
He shoult seat which wife down?you want her to give him another slap?abeg free this bross jor
Its see this bro do take cold water more than hot water and ogogoro

taiiremide:
You're absolutely right about the depression, she's always bitter. I hate seeing her in depress mood, I'll advice her to be calm. I open cake shop for her in Osogbo, gave her 50k to buy somethings first that with time I'll give her enough money to stock the shop because we've spent a lot of money moving to oshogbo but she always complaining that people use to mock her because her shop is empty. With all the bills on my neck, I'll still have to think how am going to stock my wife shop, what do I do? I don't even have anyone to raise me 5k, I bear my burden alone, no support from anybody. She lack patient bro.

Please I will advice you to register with some Nairaland guys that do take all sort of drink like alomo,ogidi ganga and Agbara in other to act like a father not like a mechanics robot..this will help you in take critical step in ur life.ogogoro naa sure when man need action...i assumed you never married before but you stay with someone that ready to get a baby for you to balance ur promise bro move on..start looking for wife now abeg..

taiiremide:
What faith are you talking about bro Do you want me to force myself on her? She doesn't want the marriage again, and am better off than been with her. This woman never supportd me in anyway, I pay all the bills, house rent, diapers, food, clothes, hospital bills, etc fine it's my responsibility and I don't complain, but little appreciation wouldn't hurt. Yet she still complain, my salary including other freelance jobs is more than 150k per month, still no savings, I don't even have half plot of land. When I travel my wife will not call to know if I arrive safely, she doesn't care about me. I'm not saying this to crucify her, I'm saying the truth, and God is my witness, I'm human I need pampers too. She made her choice, good for her.

She can't support you since she is not working.
You make more than 150k before you have ur baby with her and you cant get a plot of land or car?bro its seem you too don't cut ur shirt according to ur size which she was used to before she married you and she was dissapoint when you lose ur job.she cant call you when you travel becaused she dint love you at the beginning of relationship but you dint notice due to ur been too cold..
This ur wife cant pamper you because she dint love you at the beginning but love ur cash...with 150k montly you should be able to have a saving..someppl make less than 100k with 4ppl in the family yet they still have saving,bro adjust on ur spending...she travel to osogbo for month ago and she call that she love you environment which make you agree to relocate to oshogbo,risky ur life to Lagos every week,bro you are too cold to be move by the ur wife.dint you have plan nii?please relax and keep mounting pressure on her on how you can see ur baby for some month before you proceed to court...

Location

okeymadu:
I'm a banker and have appraised and also recommended similar shopping-complex projects for financing to my bank. Can we do offline?

I will like to make some suggestions on how you can make it more commercial and increase the ROI.

Please contact me if you don't mind.

Thanks

If you try to finance project like this in chimawa,I sorry for you ooooooo

protocol:
Ur location is remote. U will end up building this mall for fulani catle men and their catle

Lol

protocol:
Well i will say ur location is too remote for such venture. Hmm check well b4 u sink ur money in an unproductive venture
Wish u gud luck man

You are right....from chimawa down to shagama is good for little resident,industrial and farm project in the last 7yrs

Olumude4chist you said it all as a professional
Will all know that commercial building get quick return than residecial building .
@olu please N please don't compare Adetokubo Ademola to shimawa where the land located,did you believe that there are some area where shopping complex won't pay faster than residecial?
@olu did you think chimawa area has develop to invest big shopping complex like this and make ur return fast?
A friend of my build a mighty shopping complex in ifo two yrs ago,believed me 90% space in the complex still vacant till date.remember ifo is more populated and open for commercial than chimawa.
Yes many fast food are open I Lagos not in ogun state where chimawa is.
Someone that own a plot of land in adetokubo Ademola will make 70% more profit in short time than someone that own 5acre in chimawa?
@adindrin7 do ur market survey carefully since you are building this to make quick return
Good day to you all

[b]Who says the commercial project wouldn't fetch you quick money In fact, it is easier to make money from commercial projects than residential projects, unlike what someone said above.
Commercial tenants pay rent faster and easier than one-man residential tenants.
Shopping malls are opening up everywhere in Lagos here, I don't know where your site is located.
Offices are still a hot cake here in Lagos WHEREAS there is currently a glut of residential houses that are vacant simply because they are overpriced and/or the purchasing power of individuals has been reduced due to the economic downturn in the country.
What about eateries ---- many fast food retail chains are opening up outlets in different locations to keep abreast with the competition.
What about event centers ---- you could also consider including that depending on the size of your land and location. I did a kind of feasibility study for a silent Nairalander here earlier this year....the income to be obtained from hiring out event centers for just 2 times in a month (to be minimalistic) within 1 year is great and the return on investment is quick, far more than a residential building.
In some locations in Lagos, an event center could be hired for btw N300,000 -N800,000 for just a day depending on the seating capacity, car parking space, location, etc. That amount is what you would get from 1 tenant renting a 2-bedroom or 3-bedroom flat in 1 year or even 2 years, depending on the location. Funny enough, with the advent of marquee tents now commonly used for event centers, you would spend less on initial capital expenditure than you would on building a block of flats for residential flats.
Advantages of commercial properties over residential properties -
1. Commercial tenants pay rent faster and easier than one-man residential tenants
2. Commercial tenants maintain the property better than residential tenants
3. Commercial properties have higher return on investment and faster payback period than residential properties
4. It is faster to get tenants for commercial properties than residential. The picture attached below is a commercial development beside Grand Square (a popular shopping mall -the building with red roof in the background) on the highbrow Adetokunbo Ademola street in Victoria Island, Lagos in which I was the Quantity Surveyor. The project ended February 2016 and 2-3 months later, the property has been leased by a corporate entity; of course the rental rates in that axis is one of the highest in Lagos, but it was leased very fast despite the harsh economy.
Please go ahead with your plan; you are on the right track!!![/b]
SHALOM![/quote]

VikingsOO7:
You know its over, You've made up Your mind. Why seek for public opinion?

What hos his asking for is how he can take or see his baby nah...digest the post carefully please

Pidggin:
It doesn't mean you are divorced. What do you want? If you still want the marriage why not involve people she respects. She can't just decide the marriage is over, tell her parents and relatives what she is doing

They have already dirvoice in practical but not dirvoice in paper yet...i will advice the bro to wait for some month before file dirvoice,but he should keep pressing how she can take or see his baby

You need to have the idea of the shop size.if the shop is stardard it will determine the amount for the rent...did you think building shopping complex in the area now will give you good return yearly?how much did you think you will make from,the shopping complex in 10yrs now, compare to when you build house for rent in that area?why asking this question is because of bad experimce a friend had with building a shopping complex in area where rented appartment will double more.in my own view you cant build up to 45shop on your land with more space for car park and other basic stuff....i will I advice you to make it a story building.the ground floor is for shop while the first floor is for offices to lease out since upstairs shop don't move here in Nigeria.if its rented apartment you care to build on the land you can build up to 2bedrom 16flat or 6 duplex with more space up to two and half plot..or you invest more on landed property.its pay more that complex and rented apartment here in Nigeria...Goodluck bro

eyinjuege:
Go through the court process to get your kids, or at least have a shared custody arrangement

The courts will decide how to do that. Either they live with you while she pays you child support (good luck with that as she's jobless), and they go spend the holidays with their mother, or they live with their mother and you pay child support (for their living expenses, and always pay their school fees personally yourself and keep your receipts) while they spend the holidays with you.

And always call to speak to your children at least every other day.

Dint you think court process too early now?

In you statement here you said she went to osogbo to visit ur sister and she fell in love with oshogbo.she mount pressure on you to relocate oshogbo and you agree"after some month or weeks she complain about oshogbo again.she is confused type.i expect you to notice all this during ur marriage...i have this question for you...have you let her know that you want to see ur kids?did you know where she stay at present?I will advice you to take I kids since you complain that she do treat ur kids arrogantl when she still with you..am very sure ur kids will be wrought handle more since she away with you

taiiremide:
Believe me, am not cold. I'll never take her back. I just want my kids

TrapQueen77:




Girl keep the ring... U can sell that in the future

Let him go, I know it won't be easy for u.. 5yrs is no joke to spend it with someone u tot u gonna end up with..

This may take ages depending how u gone cope up but surely u will if u keep urself busy and focused into sumtin else...


Goodluck

Well said

Bro you are too cold....expect more from this ur wife

taiiremide:
My wife absconded with our kids (2 boys). We’ve been married for 4years plus. I did everything a good husband would do to please his wife, but she never satisfied. Before we got married, I’ve a good job and she knew my worth, after marriage things isn’t as rosy and it used to be, I lost my job and I was able to get one after 2 months but the salary is 120k excluding other freelance jobs I do online.
We’re unable to save. We spent most of the money on food stuffs, I hate seeing her hungry. She called me one faithful night and reminds me of the premises I made before we got married about the car and supermarket I promised her (I can’t remembered making such promises), but I still encourage her to be patient with me, that things gonna be fine. She never supported me as she’s not working. I remember I gave her 450k to start a business; she was pregnant at the time so she rejected the money because of her condition. I added some money and I bought a car, I needed the car to hustle for contracts, I cant be jumping from okada to marwa, nobody gonna take you serious. A month later, I got a printing contract from one of the best companies in Lagos, the condition is to use your money for the contract so I sold the car to print the job, I bought a machine unfortunately the machine packedup, i lost the gain and money for the car but I was able to delivered the job more that expectation but I lost huge amount of money. She always complaining ever since, when I tried to encourage her that things will be fine she will ask me ‘when’.
She treats my kids as if she wasn’t the one that brought them to this world, she always using negative words for those kids, I later realized she doesn’t love me, if she love me, she’ll equally love my kids.
4 months ago, she went to visit my younger sister in osogbo, she saw the way my sister’s business was moving fine, she fall inlove with osogbo, she sent a message thus ‘dear, guess I am in love with Oshogbo is peaceful and cool’. When she came back to Lagos, she said she wanted us to move to osogbo, after much persuasion and consideration I succumbed. We moved to osogbo, I spent more than 300k. 2 weeks later, she started complaining that osogbo is boring. I was so mad. I had to risk my life travelling from osogbo to Lagos almost every week.
On the 16th of September (a day after I celebrated our last born birthday) she left for Lagos for her sister’s wedding, I gave her 12k for tfair and other expenses. I called her a week later to remind her that our first son gonna resume school the following Monday, that’s when she said she’s no longer interested in the marriage, that I should move on, I called her mother, she said I should come see her but my family stopped me, since we never had a fight and I was not the one that sent her packing that she should be the one to come.
I’m missing my kids, they’re my life, I don’t know what to do.

What is the size of each shop?why building eatery?did you want to set up eatry here or lease it out?which state you have the land?how open the area this land is?

Does this offer with accommodation for ppl stay far away?

Hehehe

Location?

Okay

ucsparks:
Please write a novel already and stop wasting your talent

Better

Location before man apply nah

What qualification do you need for this position?

Location please

My brother Nigeria my country...its faith that still give ne alive here.