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I really do agree with u! It brings out some personality!

snazzydawn:
ashbaby!!!! where have you been eh? Wedded yet?

Hahahahahaha, yeah, I'm wedded and I'm heavy with quadruplets, lol! Just kidding!

two years ago before I relaxed it.


Wwtlty did a makeover that made heads turn?

I think it's alright if a chic asks a guy out, but I can't ask a guy out, not even to save my life.

I'm just 5 foot 2. Now, I would be worried if he were shorter. So for me, it's just taller. Taller. TALLER!

amused

As life goes on I'm starting to learn more and more about responsibility
And I realize that everything I do is affecting the people around me
So I want to take this time out to apologize for things that
I've done things that haven't occurred yet
and things that they don't want to take responsibility for

I'm sorry for the times that I left you home
I was on the road and you were alone
I'm sorry for the times that I had to go
I'm sorry for the fact that I did not know

That you were sitting home just wishing we
Could go back to when it was just you and me
I'm sorry for the times I would neglect
I'm sorry for the times I disrespect

I'm sorry for the wrong things that I've done
I'm sorry I'm not always there for my sons
I'm sorry for the fact that I'm not aware
That you can't sleep at night when I am not there

Because I'm in the streets like everyday
I'm sorry for the things that I did not say
Like how you are the best thing in my world
And how I'm so proud to call you my girl

I understand that there's some problems
And I'm not too blind to know
All the pain you kept inside you
Even though you might not show

If I can't apologize for being wrong
Then it's just a shame on me
I'll be the reason for your pain
And you can put the blame on me

You can put the blame on me
You can put the blame on me
You can put the blame on me
You can put the blame on me

Said you can put the blame on me
Said you can put the blame on me
Said you can put the blame on me
You can put the blame on me

I'm sorry for the things that he put you through
And all the times you didn't know what to do
I'm sorry that you had to go and sell those bags
Just trying to stay busy until you heard from dad

When you would rather be home with all your kids
As one big family with love and bliss
And even though pops treated us like kings
He got a second wife and you didn't agree

He got up and left you there all alone
I'm sorry that you had to do it on your own
I'm sorry that I went and added to your grief
I'm sorry that your son was once a thief
[Sorry, Blame It On Me lyrics on http://www.metrolyrics.com]


I'm sorry that I grew up way to fast
I wish I would of listened and not be so bad
I'm sorry that your life turned out this way
I'm sorry that the feds came and took me away

I understand that there's some problems
And I'm not too blind to know
All the pain you kept inside you
Even though you might not show

If I can't apologize for being wrong
Then it's just a shame on me
I’ll be the reason for your pain
And you can put the blame on me

You can put the blame on me
You can put the blame on me
You can put the blame on me
You can put the blame on me

Said you can put the blame on me
Said you can put the blame on me
Said you can put the blame on me
You can put the blame on me

I'm sorry that it took so long to see
But they were dead wrong trying to put it on me
I'm sorry that it took so long to speak
But I was on tour with Gwen Stefani

I'm sorry for the hand that she was dealt
And for the embarrassment that she felt
She's just a little young girl trying to have fun
But daddy should of never let her out that young

I'm sorry for Club Zen getting shut down
I hope they manage better next time around
How was I to know she was underage
In a 21 and older club they say

Why doesn't anybody want to take blame
Verizon backed out disgracing my name
I'm just a singer trying to entertain
Because I love my fans I'll take that blame

Even though the blame's on you
Even though the blame's on you
Even though the blame's on you
I'll take that blame from you

And you can put that blame on me
And you can put that blame on me
You can put that blame on me
You can put that blame on me

And you can put that blame on me

And you can put that blame on me

I happen to like a guy who from the moment I knew and met him, said he had a child. I actually met him during his kid's first year barbeque party. And everyone knows that he has a kid and he talks about his kid all the time, it's not a taboo or anything. I'm surprised that I ran into this topic because I was questioning on the same.
However, I believe that it depends on the circumstance of the relationship. I would not for a moment begin to even consider marriage with someone who pops something he wants to tell me when we're long gone the friends stage. If anything, that would be the first thing I need to know. After all, what else could they be hiding from me if they won't tell me right off the hook that they are a single parent?
Talking of baggage, many ppl have mentioned that, we all have baggage, probably in different intensities, but I believe baggage, or the lack of it thereof, is how we handle it. For some, the baggage ties them down and everyday is a struggle and a blame game of some sort. And for others, they pick up the pieces and end up producing beauty out of the ashes of baggage and do wonderfully well. I look at that, too. I may have baggage, u may have baggage, but the difference between me and you is our individual attitudes towards our baggage.

This topic hasn't been closed yet?

She will do things that nobody else, even the guy's mother will not often do, eg, send him a card or take him out.
She will make excuses to spend time with him, eg, does he have the science assignment from last class, can he help her with the h/work?

restoration

@topic, we make eye contact for 2 minutes each time we meet,



, then stop.

two days ago,


You?

Holy Molly!

ocean

MP007:
The fear of not making heaven sometimes draws us closer to God,

Nobody is really sure , i mean 100 sure of making heaven, dam right , i said it, because it aint what u have done in the past that matters , [/b][b]its what God meets u doing

I agree with the first statement, fear of not making heaven drawing us closer to God. I disagree with the last part of the last sentence, it's what God meets you doing.
If u didn't believe and God meets you feeding a hungry person, does that qualify you a ticket to heaven?
The Bible clearly says in 1 Corinthians that our works will pass through fire and whatever is good will be as gold, and whatever ain't will burn like straw. It also says that some will miss the crown of good deeds and get one for receiving Christ, while others will get both. In short, the qualification for getting into heaven is one, as Jesus told Nicodemus, I verily verily say unto thee, you must be born again.

children!

Akon or Gwen Stefani?

three months ago.

wwtlt you danced like there was no tomorrow?

I agree, so long as the change is not imposed as a demand, then change is definitely good. Many ppl don't like the thought of change, though. In many ways, we all like to remain in the familiar, whether good or bad. However, if we see that the change presented is for our good rather than pooping the party, then we will definitely embrace it. Would I let my spouse change me? Yeah!

last week.

wwtlty listened to a song by Akon?

Virgin till I walk the aisle, and darn, right, proud about it, irrespective of what has become the norm.

McKren:
The topic should read "A True Man" as anybody with the masculine organ (even a new born baby) can pass for a Male but not a man.

Hehehehehe! Propaganda of the English Language.

@Whiteboy,
lizaliz_kenyan@yahoo.ca.
Happy New Year to you as well.

diddy4:
no disrespect to my african queens on this thread but some of the things i see some of y'all mention is a pigment of your imagination cuzz a guy that has all that can't be human. show me a boy that possess all those qualities and i will show you the next Mr. Perfect.

haba, person must have flaws now.

That's true, but there's got to be a form of goal that one can be guided by. Pigment of imagination, I don't think so, I think the lower we african ladies stoop, the lower our standards will be, and the more you guys are gonna get away with. I'm sure you don't go for any human being in a skirt, you have what you consider as a true lady image in your mind. And if, my dear, you bare it all, there are some of your true lady image characteristics that are a pigment of your imagination.


Whiteboy,
My email address is on my profile.

whiteboy:
Damn Ashbaby!
I think i'm all that, why not try me. Just kidding! Yeah i'm just kidding but give me a try and i'll stop kiddin.
You've given me the best definition of a true male so far. I luh that girl! You're like the realest here. No kiddin', your last line says it all ' I like a guy who will reflect God's love to me because his love (after all, he's human) is bound to run out when reality checks in'


Hit me up girl!
One time for the realest chic here

Holla back!

Try you, eh? Hehehehehe, I probably will.

Africa, mos def!!!

Flavor of Love or Blind Date?

If that works for you, then there is nobody that has the right to tell you that it does not. After all, the topic is subjective.
_{All you psychologists, do you have a degree?}

Nairobi, Kenya

healthy