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martinskelly:
How do you expect them to come out publicly and say they regret ever getting pregnant for this people u just mentioned, mind you this people are celebrities.
Just leave the lady alone please,(she is reasoning like a lady ok) coz u wouldn't want her to support the OP

AntiBrutus:
Which kpekus wide pass that one wey uma dey to lick under pressure?

Last last, you people will being the money back home for homebased wife with wide kpekus. Whose future do you think is actually better?

AuroraB:
And your intent of trying to poison the mind of OP just came to fore. Devil is indeed a liar.
@Sirdouglas, you write up shows she loves you. Don't judge her by her inability to keep a secret. She acts her age. We all can't be same. Get her educated, you won't regret it.

AntiBrutus:
At least we do it both foreign and local league.

Ours has never been hidden.

Una wey dey form say men are wired to go for youthfulness. Poverty come reset the wiring.

Jgoldie:
I don't mind dating a foreign guy....Nigerian men are opportunist....always blaming women for their misfortune....I am in my house..come and beat me

AntiBrutus:
Which slavery pass to give 60+ old woman head. How una dey take lick that kind toto sef? Naija men get mind o.

franchasng:
lol, + bridal shower + baby shower + everyday shower too

Funmmyastic:
Why censoring the girl's face,this guy look childish.He has moved on like a freelancer.

Zhirinovsky:
Bro, the did has been done and dust have settled.
You mentioned that she is the one girl you have met who truly loves you. My brother that is a rare thing to find because only few Anambra girls really love their husbands. I will advice you to start making arrangements for her upgrading. Upgrade her to your taste. Send her money after delivery to write jamb and start studying for University if she is not educated. Arrange her admission runs for am ( yea you can pilot it from overseas, you just need contacts and money). After graduation you can process her papers with that of your kids to join you.

Education will Behind her up and and make her your taste. Not marrying her will most likely ruin her because her chances of getting married after having twins for you is very small. Even if you later still no want am for marriage atleast you will have controlled the damage to her life to some degree by training her in school.

God bless you.

QueenSekxy:
Let me warn You, like seriously warn you.

Do not in this your stay on nl ever mention me again. Learn to stay on your lane.

QueenSekxy:
Then, inform your potential partner to know if she/He is ready to also waste their time on a fruitless journey.

ImaIma1:
But she is a virgin

nnamdiosu:
Before I even say anything, its amazing to see someone in this times and age, (a guy for that matter), with a strong conscience, sincerity and noble intentions. You really are the real MVP .

Now straight to the matter

1. Forget abt marriage. If you tow that line,it will transform you to a monster. You know why? the reaction of a sincere conscience would haunt you and make you take it out on her. You would loath her, you, and even the baby because you aren't sure its yours.

2. Don't try number 1, again I warn you.

Solution ?
1. When the baby is out , do a DNA test. That's the first thing first. Because in as much as you don't believe its yours, IT COULD STILL BE YOURS. ITS A 50-50. No one knows for sure yet.

2. If its yours, Set her up in a business if you can. Rent an accomdation too her them. Pregnancy doesn't mandate marriage ok?. Mandate her to save constantly because you won't always be available to dish out money that will set her on her toes. From time to time, check them out, get gifts ,ensure you stay in important times in the children's life. Bdays, first days at school etc.get photos and videos as evidences and proof (that's another story I don't want to get to). Pay kids bills or needs. Not necessary hers. You can pay directly into their school account etc. But ensure the mom pays some aspect. Don't foot all, I repeat don't foot all.

3. Set up an account where you pay in something no matter how small for them.
At an age you deem them matured, roll it over to them. In essence keep the kids in your life.


Now, if the kids aren't yours after testing,
1. Laugh out loud
2. Come and inform me here, quote this message and I promise to laugh on your behalf too.it's a promise

3. Give her some funds to set up a biz (optional, you're not mandatated too, but for Gods sake, and mercy for the kids. Cos in that house, they will kill her)

4. Rent a small apartment, even if its one room (optional as before)

5. Be careful.
6. Be careful.
7. Be careful again.

God help and bless you. Amen

grossintel:
Bro, I won't insult you. But what you're doing to that girl is very wicked and inhuman. Before you enter any relationship, I repeat, look very well and observe the lady first! Take her out, spend sometime talking to her, while she's talking observe how she speaks, her sense of reasoning, ask her intelligent questions, I didn't say you should conduct an interview but be reasonable. You're doing this to cause you need to know if this person is good enough for you.

You turned that kid to a sex mate, because she's inexperienced, young and vulnerable! Now you get her pregnant and forming you don't want to marry out of pitty, who are you leaving her for! You dey Yankee now, so the naija hustling guys can marry the girl you wrecked her pvssy while you chop thight oyibo there?

Guy you're very insensitive and selfish and very proud! Go and claim your property, if you want her to speak well invest in her education. She sounds like a homely girl that can do anything to please you, she can learn to be the best of herself but only if you give her a chance.

Phenomenal16:
..I kind of pity this gal....cos in few years time to come ...she will regret ever meeting u
By then she must av discovered what u av done to her trmw
U think na only u get future abi.....
I bet as time goes she won't even see any reason to be with u
I pray she doesn't poison the hearts of ur kids
Op u know wat twins Are genetic..... Possibility that they Are u kids are high

Phenomenal16:
How did u expect a 19 yr old to behave ....when I was 19 I behave so childish.... I talk a lot ...but now am now getting matured as the Day passes by
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U see that girl lacks exposure,,,, just like me the moment I entered sch... My eyes just tear open like their....u won't believe it
No woman is perfect... U can marry an educated woman today and she won't give u Peace of mind...my brother marriage is not a joke.....coach her! Educate her! ..send her back to school shey u get money ...u will be amazed....talking out of experience....
But wait how do u expect a teenager to behave ...like how?
U get mind shaa....for crying out loud she's not yet an adult.....I doubt if she has entered higher institution...

U want a Behind lady? ....get lady for Behind problems