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Na wa ooo, May God save marriages of nowadays, however, her statement did not exonorate her

A few days ago when I was in a cab,around DSC round about, I saw this road Helicopter and find it very facinating, then I said to myself, this will surely will hit Nairalannnd, and here it is Now, I like this Road Plane though.

BEENUEL:
Now these set of angels are the REAL RICH KIDS. No flaunting of boobs and b*tts.

yes we know, are they not of age, what is keeping them from getting married,

chukymoney:
Procrastinating
The difference between successful and unsuccessful people is that first work their asses off to succeed, while last only dream of success.
So many reasons can make us procrastinate: you could be afraid of the outcome, or unsure how to complete the task, or you just don’t feel like taking action. But the worst thing about doing nothing is nothing changes. At all. And putting something overwhelming off doesn't make it disappear - it makes it even scarier and harder to do.
If procrastination is a habit of yours - get rid of it ASAP. What you need to do is to work on your discipline. Yes, it is hard. Yes, it is stressful. But isn't doing things at the last moment more stressful? Start with breaking your work on small tasks or periods of time. And don't concentrate on how you will manage to finish it, think about simply making first step. At first you'll need to force yourself to get started, but, according to science it takes only 21 day to form a new habit. Start today and in 3 weeks you will become a much happier person.

Putting The Blame On Others And Making Excuses
At some points in life we all face problems, troubles, failures and just unhappiness causes. For better or worse, going through tough times is an inevitable part of life. But the difference between everyone of us is HOW we do it. Some people seek for positive moments even in when no one else does. And some choose to blame everyone and everything in the Universe for what goes wrong in their life. But such approach doesn't only make the situation even more depressing - it holds you from finding the way out of it.
If you tend to put the blame on everyone except you - it's time to admit that you are actually responsible for the things that happen in your life – or at least how you react to some things – and that blaming others will get you nowhere. You and only you are responsible for your life choices and decisions

Avoiding Changes
However good or bad a situation is now, it will change. That’s the one thing you can count on. Trying to avoid changes is like trying to avoid sunrise - it still will happen, no matter how hard you try. So just stop. This amazingly useless habit only takes away your energy and makes you worry about everything. Embrace change and realize it happens for a reason. It won’t always be obvious at first, but in the end it will be worth it.

Trying to Control the Uncontrollable
One of the worst habits that stand on your way of becoming happy person is trying to take control on things that are simply could not be controlled. Sometimes we all hate being useless and tend to worry about things that we can’t control anyway. But if it tunes into a habit - you are setting yourself up for a lifetime of frustration and misery. Real life happens. Something you never expected, happens in your life. Chaos at work. Complexity of managing a career. Uncertainty in a relationship.
Accept the simple truth: You control your actions. You control your thoughts. These are things you ought to be worried about – not trying to control the way life will revolve around you. So you have to learn to stop trying so hard to control the uncontrollable. Instead, start focusing on the one thing that can be controlled: you.

Devaluing Yourself
Negative self-talk leads to fear, uncertainty, and self-doubt, which leads to – you guessed it – more negative self-talk. The result is a vicious circle We should be our biggest cheerleader. No one out there knows us better than we know ourselves. We have to love ourselves first in order to accept people in our lives worthy of loving us the way we deserve. Stop putting yourself down. The great thing about our voice is that we can choose how we use it. What we say, it is up to us. So relax your standards just a little. If you give yourself the same empathy you'd show a friend, it will be so much easier to become happier.

Devaluing Others
Criticizing others for the smallest things is devastating – both for you and the people you point your fingers at. Criticism is a destructive behavior that can be stopped easily if you only become aware of it and express an inner will to change it. Stopping the cycle of criticism will enable you to enjoy yourself more around other people, you will be able to deepen your connections with others (especially the ones you love), you will be happier in social situations, and your inner satisfaction about yourself will increase

Allowing Fears Hold You Back
Fear is very much real, and don’t look down on yourself for feeling it; but if you want to have a chance at happiness, you should put fear in its place – behind you. Take that step forward, and don’t let your fear(s) hold you back from doing something that you believe is true or right. In the end, there is only one thing that makes a dream completely impossible to achieve: Lack of action based on the fear of failure.

Living In The Past/Future/Another Place
Not only does being distracted take away from being able to enjoy the moment, it usually leads to trying to multitask, which has been shown to increase stress and actually decrease productivity. When you find yourself thinking about the future or past, stop and take a few deep breaths to help you re-center yourself in the moment. Don’t cry over the past, it’s gone. Don’t stress too much about the future, it hasn’t arrived. Do your best to live NOW and make this moment worth living.

Caring Too Much About What Others Might Think
To a certain degree, we all care about what others think. And that’s good. In a way, the opinion of others – especially those whom we love and respect – helps us stay on the right track However, if you’re making decisions and doing things because you think that’s what this person or that person will think is right all the time, STOP. You are not in this world to live up to other people’s expectations. It’s your life. Don’t care too much what other people will say as long as you know in your heart it’s what you want and/or right for you.

Being Ungrateful
No matter how good or bad you have it, wake up each day thankful for your life. Someone somewhere else is desperately fighting for theirs. Instead of thinking about what you’re missing, try thinking about what you have that everyone else is missing.

am rily working on these, its so timely

shamecurls:
I must marry this year IJN!

amen for you

but you listed one reason and not 5, awaiting the other 4

igbobuigbo:
A friend is in the situation described below:

Lived in Lagos until 2006
Got married in 2005 in Owerri.
Moved wife from Owerri (she was working there) to Lagos in 2005.
Moved wife from Lagos to Holland (2006-2008). He was studying for MSc; she could not work
Moved wife from Holland to UK (2008 - 2012). Obtained his PhD while wife did some okay paying, although not so great jobs.
Moved wife from UK to Minnesota, USA (he got a job with a sponsored H1 Visa) in 2012; but wife could not work with her H4 visa
Became a Green Card holder with wife in 2014. Wife started working and settling down in Minnesota.
Then he goes for a bigger job in Pennsylvania; moves wife along to Pittsburgh in 2015. Wife took several months to get a job because she is not as educationally advanced as hubby.
Now he wants to move to Washington, DC, for even a much bigger job. Wife says ''no way. This is becoming crazy. I have a life too''. I'd rather divorce than move this time''.

What do you think he should do?

hahaha please tell him to divorce his wife, Iam applying straight up, traveling here I come.

[quote author=agarawu23 post=43627135]Why are u repeating "barber" abi they aren't human

Oya go marry banker then
Na so na go dey select until una old for house [/quote
haha this guy they vex ooo

NgeneUkwenu:
He Should Have Killed Himself "Instead Of Committing Suicide"

I Hate *Suicides*

lol otondo

I have tried several times baking meatpie, my meatpie never rise even when I use baking powder, please what is the secret in naking the dough rise?

Take it Hot or Cold! We at AIM Global specially invite you to its pre-launching business tea party.Free healthy tea for all. come one, come all. Date: Today, 22/11/2015
Venue: Ogbodu Hall, Canewood Hotel opposite Zenith bank, Jakpa Road, Effurun, Delta State. Time: 3pm prompt. Gate fee: free. Be there! Na God win. - Esiri

dulux07:
no wonder their marriages dont last most guys date bad gals, but marry d good ones

Hahaha, this is quite an irony

It is an event of how a guy tried to brain wash me they do it to girls on a daily basis, 2 days ago @ P.TI, junction, he approched me as I was about to cross the road, and asked for a moment to spk wt me,saying he was shy and we should step out of the road to talk, I rather gave him my no since it was geting late, we arranged to see the next day, he called me that night and told me he has seen me b4, that he works as a sailor and he wants to get married to me, I only agreed to meet with him the next day because as a networker we take advantage of developing relationships, he insisted I come ova to his house @ Refinery but I insisted we meet @ sizlers, by P.T.I school, effurun, when I got there the drama of his helping me wt cash for biz,and how he help other people and how his dad died and how he goes to work ensued, how he graduated from Uniben ensued, while he searched my bag and took my hard earned 1k, and when I insisted he gave me back my cash he refused by saying if I shout theif no body will believe me because he will tell them am his girlfriend and because he is big and looks like a big man no body will believe me, I have my plans to make him pay that money through his nose.

He claim he works offshore as a sailor, I insisted we meet @ an open place since he wanted me to come to his place after we exchanged nos 2 days back, I willingly gave him my no due to the nature of my job, a networker, he succeded in taking 1000 naira from me my bag @ Sizlers yesteday by P.TI. School because wen I told him I would shout thief on him, he skillfully told me, I will be the one beaten up., thank God, I stood my ground for him not to know my place and I refused to go with him to his so called big house. He wears a silver bango that has his name inscribed on it.

It is quite long but please take time to read it.
How do you get to spend money on a guy when you ordinarily do not intend to and are not supposed to? know these Mind Control Technique and save yourself from peril. The benin guys, urhobo, ukwani guys who scholed in uniben, Pastors and other guys around you make use of the technique.When you spot it, run else fall victim, they are all over you, I met one yesterday @ P.T.I juction, effurun, Delta State.
Characteristics of the mind control technique guys.
1, They appear clean, most times handsome.- this makes you like them
2, They apper to be @ one time rich or presently rich.- opens your mind
3, They make sure you fix all attention on them when they talk to you by saying look @ me - This makes you not to think properly
4, They speak with so much conviction. 5, They promise you marriage on first date and tell you that they are not like other guys who are players,so instead of carrying women they invest their money in business - this makes you trust them and see them as responsible.
6, They tell you that understanding is key to a successful relationship, so you dont need to date for long b4 marriage.
7, They tell you they dont have serious relationship - so you believe they are free.
8, They say they trust you by giving their house key for you to go and cook for them and ask you to trust them - This makes you loose your guard
9, They use rush, calling you quickly to hook up with them because they have somewere going after now.
10, They instantly promise you marriage on the first date or try to sleep with you on the first date - so you do not think properly
11, They ask if you agree to the marriage proposal so they would connect you to speak with thier sister while he instantly speak with your mum,because they marry your family and not you.
12, They invite you to their home, When you decline, they promise not to touch you but insist in knowing your place and you knowing their place.
13, They promise to help you with huge amount of money for your business.
14, They tell you stories of how generous they spend on others, by financing peoples education, and buying cars for people - so you can be greedy.
15,They tell you to have faith in them.
16, They employ the use of pity, that their dad died when they were so tender, so they struggled on their own without a helper. - This make you pity them
17, They tell you how they have lived and will stay in big houses or that they currently own a big apartment of their home.
18, They tell you the've been single because the lady they loved so much disappointed them.
19, They quickly want to know if you work and to know if you have savings by asking you how much you need from them and how much you have in savings. - This makes you believ in them, while they think of what to say to make you gv them your savings
20, They tell you they have spent a fortune in taking care of their mum, or that they care less about their mum because their mum never cared about them. - this makes you see them as good or want to make you encourage them tohelp thier mum
21, They say they will borrow you money and @ the same time you will borrow them money. - This confuses you and they say they will dash you.
22, If they notice you are defensive they tell you to relax, so that good things will not pass you by - once you do,
23, They say they will change your phone by removing your sim and giving you a new better one,
24, They they tell you they are already your boy friend, and ask you if you like them - ofcourse you cant say no after all the image they successfully create in your mind
25, They ask to search your bag and make you relax and laugh so they search your bag and when they find money in it, they collect it and tell you they want to use it to anger you because you refuse their offer and they insist that if you shout or call theif they know what to say to make people beat you while, while they plead on your behalf.
If you never recognise this signs and stop communicating with them quiclky, they will make you empty your bank account on them and you would believe they are testing you out, so they can offer you help.

It pains my heart to see marriages breaking up because of childlessness, you can accually have your long expectant beautiful baby you have been desiring to have and rekindle your lost matrimonial love if only you believe and practice the subsequent steps I'll be showing you.These steps has worked in every 9 to 10 persons I show it to, If your faith is the largest amongs all here it will work for you.
Step 1,You have to balance your emotion by reducing your stress level, so take time to rest.
2ndly, You should drink @ least 8 to 10 glasses of water daily.
3rdly, You should control your sugar level.
4thly, You should feed on good nutrition, eat more alkaline food.
5thly, Create a routine of exercise.
Questions you need answers to:
How can you control your sugar level?What type of water should you inculcate in your daily water therapy routine? How can you eat more alkaline food? How can you feed on good nutrition which is in accordance with WHO? How long will it take for you to practice these before I see result?
To get your answers, hook me up @ attainable99@gmail.com, with the subject of your mail as overcoming infertility and put your location in bracket. Example
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