₦airaland Forum

Suigeneris93:
Women like you are the reason why I feel ashamed of being a woman sometimes. My sister I'm ashamed on your behalf because you're a monumental disgrace to womanhood.

Hoeloshi, enjoy your future marriage to a man who was never yours in the first place. Ashewo kobo kobo

Hey sis. No need for the insult. I know I am doing something bad but I can't help it. I want to put an end but I just can't. I need help. My family know him but I couldn't tell anyone he is married

quivah:
You knew he was married, and because he said he was leaving his wife ..you decided to play and have fun with him..
My bet, you've always wanted him...his marriage might have been a lil barrier but then he told you just what you wanted to hear; he's leaving his wife..
An opportunity to hang on... Not to forget he's a good spender.

Tfu! You know he's divorcing his wife for you and you are just so happy about it..your wish has finally come true

Yes I have always wanted him. He is tall and handsome. He is a ladies man. I tell him i wish he wasnt married

quivah:
Gold digging mistresses dont to that, they wanna stop being the contractor and have the gold mine all to themselves.

I am not one. I just happen to fall in love. Even when i sometimes avoid his calls, I find myself wanting to call him back. Even when I purposefully pick fights with him, I see myself waiting for his call. I can't help it but deep down I feel for his wife and I know I need help so that i break away from him

Nursy:
Some women sef. U r begging him to go back to his wife but u love him. Oya clap for urself!

He said he doesn't love his wife from the begining of their marriage. and even if he won't be with me, he will still divorce her. His mind is made up on divorcing her because he told me even his mother who single handly raised him can't force him to remain in his marriage. I just want to hang around incase he eventually divorces her but I don't want the divorce to be because of me

I know majority of nairaland will castigate me for it. I had to open a new account to hide my person. I feel guilty but I can't help it because I love him. I met this guy between October/november last year. He told me he was married but i told him I can't date a married man. He then told me he wasn't happy in his marriage and that the marriage is yet to produce a child. Although his wife has had some miscarriages. He said he was thinking of leaving his wife.

I initially though he was joking and decided to have a bit of fun with him. I must confess he is a good spender. I started falling in love with him but part of me wasn't happy.
The issue now is that he has chased is wife out because of me and no more living together. I feel for this woman because the marriage is not up to 2years. He told me he was leaving the wife because he never loved her from the begining but he knows his wife loves him and he said she is diabolic. But i dont believe him. He is only trying to find a reason to leave. I did a background check on her. I found out she went to one of the private universities and she is cool and responsible. And sincerely she doesnt look like someone who will venture into that. If she was actually diabolic, she would have long tamed him from his excesses

I have been pleading on her behalf to go back to his wife which usually results to argument. This man confessed to me he was dating other women while married to her. And he wants to stop cheating that's why he needs a divorce to marry someone that he loves. It got me thinking, wouldn't he do the same to me because any man thats cheating, it usually takes the grace of God to stop cheating. But i can't help it. I love this guy or could it be because he has a good job and money. I don't mind him leaving his wife but my conscience is pricking me especially after I did a background check on her. I have tried to stop but i can't. I just dont want God to punish me for breaking up what he joined together. Am I alright?