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I'm not spiritually strong for now, so I can't marry a pastor.

Then wake up and build yourself spiritually.

Please I live in Ikeja where I work but I need a part time job like on weekends or public holidays to keep myself busy.
like waiter in an event or anyone related.

6 REASONS WHY WOMEN CHEAT
To all those honest men out there that only want an honest relationship from their jewel; this piece is for you. There are a thousand and one reasons women cheat but I bring you just 6 reasons women cheat.
1. SHE IS NOT FEELING WANTED
You really have to make a lady feel wanted always; the moment she feels anything less than that, doubts creep in. Such doubts can lead to misery and misery they say needs company. A shoulder to lean on can lead to so many things (coughs). Always make your woman feel wanted, brothers.
Men stop turning your back on that woman, for there are experiences that are not better better experienced in any relationship.
2. THE RELATIONSHIP GETS TOO BORING
Boredom can lead to so many things including an idle mind; and an idle man they say is the devil’s workshop and we all know what goes down in a devil’s workshop. Like I previously said in make that love last, change routines always, be spontaneous, always keep your lady guessing, keep her excited at all times. Be adventurous. When the relationship lacks that spark and passion, it could push your lady to cheating. Because the the moment she gets another man that gives her that attentions and listening ear my man you have lost her own affections.
3. SHE FEELS THE RELATIONSHIP IS ENDING
One good turn deserves another and likewise one bad turn. Never keep her unsure about the relationship, always tell her your plans, make her feel she is a huge part of your future. Most women in relationships always think about the future. The moment she feels the relationship has no future, then your Eve might leave you Adam for probably Steve (smiles, just rhyming). But the message is, always make her feel she’s part of your future and not a bit-part player.
4. THE NEXT MAN SHOWS HER LOVE
A lot of women are too fragile, easy to deceive and very emotional. This is not really applicable to all women because many women are strong-willed but the fragile ones easily fall for this; once they see a little care from another man, their fragile nature becomes exploited.
5. SHE’S A FREAK
Not going to waste much lines here, if she is a freak, she’s a freak. May God help you both in that relationship.
6. YOU ALWAYS COMPLAIN ABOUT HER
If you always complain about her, it means you don’t value her and if you don’t value her, someone else will. Easy does it. Women need to be shown care, not you acting like you don’t care. Less shouts, more attention, more pampering would do a lot of magic yea, thank me later.
There is a very distinct difference between why women cheat and why men cheat. Men cheat strictly for sexual reasons but most women cheat for so many emotional reasons.
Your sacrifice is your gold dig her, keep her, protect her and nurture her for yourself Eph 5: 25-28
Have a blessed day people and a sweet relationship as well. Sincerely yours

30 THINGS YOU MUST KNOW BEFORE YOU MARRY A PASTOR
By Kemi Samuel
Every lady has a dream of getting married someday to her prince charming who will fit into her expectations and who she will live happily ever after with but before you go ahead into that marriage if your prince charming is a pastor you really need to get yourself to the under listed points.
Happy reading.
(1 ) GET TO KNOW HIS AREA OF CALLING :
You need to ask questions from him which aspect of the ministry he is called into, is it deliverance, faith, healing etc Where is he suppose to function in the body of Christ.
You need to understand his calling very well and get prepared for the task ahead.
(2 ) GOD IS HIS EMPLOYER NOT THE CHURCH:
Do not expect that because he is in charge of a large congregation then you will not have financial challenges, many have the notion that Pastors have free access to Church money and always get disappointed after marrying him.
Note that the Pastor is not the sole signatory to Church account, the church is not an ATM.
You had better prepared to spend your personal money on God’s work. If your reason for wanting to marry that Pastor is money induced, please, cancel your wedding.
(3 ) PREPARE FOR A CHANGE
When you get married to a pastor, it will obstruct your plans, change your directions and divert your focus.
Dear, there are values that you will have to uphold, actions you will not be able to take, sacrifices you will have to make, your life directions will be significantly affected.
How flexible are you?
(4 ) PARTNER IN SERVICE
1 peter 4: 10, John 13: 13-17, Please, know that you are his partner in service to bless and meet people’s needs in the Name of Jesus, you are to serve alongside him, do not go with the mindset that people are to serve you.You must embrace his ministry, learn under him and give him the total support.
(5 ) LADIES PASTOR
He will not only be the pastor of men but of ladies too and some of them will be extremely attractive. So, if you are a jealous type, you had better marry someone else and quit your relationship with the Pastor.
(6 ) BIG HEART
It is not only a big hat that makes a pastor’s wife but a big heart growing in the Lord and towards the Lord Jesus. You must have a large heart to accommodate and manage different classes of people with varying characters.
(7 ) NO DEPENDENCY ON PEOPLE FOR AFFIRMATION
Before you marry a pastor you must erase your dependency on people for affirmation and increase your dependency on God for approval.
(8 ) RIGHT SPIRIT
A positive and caring spirit to serve others will be helpful, you must do away with self-centeredness and solo life because a pastor is a man of the people.
(9 ) SLEEPING ALONE
The demand of the ministry might require him to travel for ministerial assignments, meetings, and retreats which may take him away from you at night.
(10 ) OPPOSE EXTRAVAGANT LIFESTYLE
If you must marry a Pastor, you must do away with extravagance lifestyle and be humane. You must not be materialistic lest the church members detest you
(11 ) ACT OF HOSPITALITY
Before you marry a pastor, how hospitable are you? A lot of People will come for counseling in your house and most of them may not be financially strong but you must be hospitable towards them even if they don’t appreciate what you are doing.
(12 ) PREPARE TO BE A GLOBETROTTER
The work of a pastor involves a lot of transfer from city to city and nation to nation. At times, he may not spend up to three months in a location before he gets another letter of transfer. If you don’t like moving from one place to another, quit your relationship with the pastor now
(13 ) HE HAS A BOSS
He has a Boss –GOD. Do not expect him to put you ahead of his Boss. Help him to serve and obey God in all things.Please, don’t push him against God.
(14 ) MAN OF GOD
Before you marry a pastor, please always remember that he is a man. So, do not assume that been a man of God he does not have sexual urge and temptations like other men, he does.
Maintaining your good looks and shape is very important for you to be able to keep him from falling into temptations.
(15 ) GOD’S REPRESENTATIVE
Before you marry that pastor, know that he is not just a man but God’s mouthpiece and His representative and you must respect and treat him as such, will you be able to?
(16) NO EVERYDAY ROMANCE
Marrying a pastor come with its own challenges and one of it is that pastor will pray at night.
So, sorry no everyday romance in a Pastor’s diary.
(17) IT IS A 24/7 JOB :
A pastor’s job is a 24 hours of the seven days in the week, it fit the slogan FULL TIME. There may not be time to go out to your favourite restaurant in a long time because of the round the clock attention demand from his church members. Can you cope with this?
(18) NOT AN OIL WORKER :
Before you marry that pastor, please wake up to the fact that he is not an oil and gas staff. So, conflict: money may not flow like you think. Although, God’s staff are the best paid in the world over but will you be able to wait faithfully for Him to pay? His timing is totally different.
(19) CHURCH CONFLICT :
Mama in the waiting, there will be conflict. Yes, even in the church, people disagree and sometimes flesh might be displayed in a dirty manner. They may form a caucus and gang up against the pastor. Are you mature enough to handle it?
(20) THE PERFECT WIFE:
You will be expected to behave perfectly, other women have the right to get angry and show it but not YOU, even your Prince charming expectation will be higher as he expect you not to demonstrate your displeasure no matter the circumstances. Are you prepared for this?
(21) MUMMY MISSION :
Before you marry that pastor, hope you do not have anything against living in the mission house especially if he is a pastor in a denomination where their Pastor must live in the mission house.
Please,be inform that the mission house is everybody’s house as the Church members can walk in at any time, deny you your privacy, eat your food, exhaust your water, messed up your toilet and you must not complain because the house is built with their money for them to have unhindered access to their Pastor.
(22) PRAY FOR ALL :
The elders, deacons, workers that hate your husband will be known to you and you still have to pray for them and with them, can you do this?
(23) FORGIVES AND FORGET :
Before you marry that pastor, please be informed that you will be expected to forgive and forget offenses fast so as not to hinder the Church and the Pastor’s prayer.
You must have forgiveness in wholesale because, members, ministers, deacons, good women, men, girl the youths and elders will offend you and you must forgive the if you want your husband to excel in his calling.
(24) PERFECT PARENTING :
Your children are not expected to make mistake, display tantrums, be too playful, they are expected to be mini Angels. God help you, girl if they are not.
(25) ALL PROGRAMS :
Before you marry a pastor please note that you will be forced to attend all Church programs, no excuse of any kind. If not , the Church will be having negative impression about you.
(26) FASTING:
As the pastor mrs, you will fast and this is not a suggestion but a compulsory thing as it comes with your wedding package.
Fasting to stay effective spiritual and also to stay empowered to confront situations and command mountains.
(27) PRAYER MACHINE :
Before you marry the pastor, be inform that you will pray when you feel like praying and when you don’t feel like prayer.Prayer must become your hubby. As you become pastor mrs, you must know how to PUSH. That is praying until something happens and in the Ministry, we will never stop praying until Jesus come.
(28) LEAD WOMEN :
Your good women leader might be as old as your mum, some will try to make you realize that they are older and want to intimidate you, will you be able to handle them with wisdom?
(29) MEETING, SEMINARS etc :
Before you decide to marry that pastor, girl note that he will be required to attend many meetings, seminars, and plan, organise revivals, crusades, meetings , seminars, etc You might be required to organise seminars for women, youths and pregnant mothers which may be quite big, do you have that capacity? he will attend some alone will you be fine?
(30) DEMONIC ATTACK:
Attacks are directed at the shepherd so expect it, are you equipped enough for this? Are you a spiritually vibrant sister or a weakling?
Do you have that strong relationship with heaven? Matt 26:31
You have to put on the whole armor of God, Faith and have a tangible work with God, and you have to be strong in the lord, just like your husband is, a stable and consistent walk with God and fellowship with the Word of God and prayer, becomes a major necessity for you.
Grace is made available for you in this labour in Jesus name!

MAKING YOUR MARRIAGE WORK.
TO ALL SINGLES

The rate at which marriages collapse now is assuming a social status symbol in our society.

In no-time, people will be throwing divorce parties and invite friends n well-wishers to celebrate their divorce anniversaries; they will choose aso-ebi, hire a hall and popular musicians & what have you.

Even a question like "So when are u getting divorced?" will become common.
If u know u can't handle the weight & pressures of marriage, pls remain single.

If u don't know what marriage is all about, pls remain single until u do.

If u are getting married because of the things u desire or hope to gain from the other person pls remain single.

If u know u can't be faithful, remain single.

If u can't endure insults from one another, pls remain single.

If u can't forgive one another's wrongs, pls remain single.

If u can't place ur spouse above every other human being, pls remain single!

Don't get married out of desperation.

"All my friends are getting married" is d most foolish reason to get married!

If u desire a successful home, but ur choice of friends are forces not to reckon with, think again.

Be very mindful of where you go for advice, Many would give, but not many mean well!

Guys, if u know u can't put ur wife ahead of ur ego, pls remain single till u're mature.

Ur wife is your priority and EVERYTHING else including u, comes last.

You are d teacher, d guide, d bodyguard, d role model - u are not a deity or God.

So do not expect to b worshiped.

You need respect, earn it by being responsible!

If u can't stand being corrected, stay single!

Ladies, if u know u can't be submissive pls don't go into marriage so u're not turned to a punch bag!

If u know u can't stand being corrected, pls remain single. Mr/Mrs I know it all!!!

Ladies check ur domestic scorecard - if ur score is 0, pls stay in ur parents' house!

People, pls make ur marriages work.

Your duty as a woman is to help a man become who he was met to be and not to become a burden to him that is why they say "behind every successful man there is a woman" but how many ladies knows this pls note this: It is not the container that a man marries but the content.
According to Prov 18:22 the bible say " Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing and obtaineth favour of the Lord"
If you have been married to a man for years and yet no change in his life, it is a sign that favour is lacking in your life. Your husband shouldn't be struggling after getting married to you except he is a lazy man.
It is time for our women to start thinking beyond money, sex, materialism look for what you can add to that man's life and he will love and respect you. Ask yourself; since I have known this man what change have I contributed to his life?
Let me say this clearly if you have nothing to offer but sex then you are a yoke in his neck.
Think about it.

greatnaija01:
If you are a true Christian, Is prayer too hard for you? Hearing God is the easiest thing if you truly have a sincere open heart, HE IS ALWAYS THERE TO LEAD YOU. Besides the BIBLE SAYS... By their Fruits you shall know them.... not by their education or age.

If you already have a Lady then go for her... VIRGINITY and SELF RIGHTEOUSNESS or PERFECTIONALISM is your MAJOR PROBLEM... You want a VIRGIN... VIRGINITY is not character... it is merely lack of opportunity... Consider this, IT TOOK A LOT FOR THE LADY TO TELL YOU ABOUT HER PAST, that should make you respect and trust her even if she was once a LESBIIAN or a RAPIST.....

GOD NEVER JUDGES OR BLESSES ANYONE BASED ON THEIR PAST FLAWS OR IMPERFECTIONS AND MISTAKES.

Marriage is for a Life time, virginity does not last.... so look beyond it and FIND the virtues that you will be pleased to live with for the rest of your LIFE. simple.

Bro I respect u in fact you have said it all, the guy need to be prayerful before taking any step.

Leonbonapart:
this has nothing to do with religion. A clear message from God that came to pass in it's time and season... where did he say come and worship in my church.

Stup!d never do well ignoramus must have something negative to say. No wonder you guys never do well

Bros. abeg chop knocku don't mind people with their low and negative mentality

Let me ask u first, why should u allow her to come to ur house and spend the nite with u? they say prevention is better than cure.
Bros that girl wan destroy ur future so run for ur life.
secondly, don't start what u can't finish why do I say so? think twice, think deep.
I finished secondary school since 2013 till now I have not had any sexual relationship with any girl. I thank God for his grace.
so my dear keep yourself!!!!!!!!

1. Dating two ladies at a time is a sign of foolishness and lack of focus. Real men knows what they want, they stick to it until they achieve it.
2. Never spend your money on a lady with the intention of marrying her. (Pls note: Women change a lot).
3. Let her know your intention(s) before you invest your money on her.
4. Note this: You can only invest on the woman you want to marry not girlfriends (or you end in frustration and regrets).
5. Look for compassion and passion, character and dignity, respect and humility, a mother kind of character in a woman not beauty and curves (they will vanish one day).
6. You must be under a pastoral cover (a genuine one). This is very important especially for successful young men and men of great visions. (Watch out there are many serpent out there looking for who to destroy).
7. Women knows men who love God and they love and respect them for that.
8. Never make a promise in a hurry and never make a promise you can't fulfil. (Don't say it if you don't mean it). Words are powerful.
9. Women are weaker vessels and are easily moved by words but very dangerous. (Never take advantage of their weakness)
10. Don't be over possessive of a Lady you have not married (even if she is your wife) give her an atmosphere of freedom don’t be a bodyguard that is if you want to prolong your days on earth.
11. Never forget your origin remember your family especially your parents. A good woman who wants your prosperity will not stop or discourage you from taking care of your parents.
12. You can have as many girlfriends as you like but remember this: In every girl there is a woman, in every woman there is a wife, in every wife there is a mother and in every mother there is a future. Not every girl is to be used and dump be careful and sensitive.
13. I have never seen my father raised his hand on my mother or call her names, not even by mistake. Yes, women can be very annoying a times. But real men have control over their emotions.