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mamaTB:
Thank you all mamas for the advice,

I honestly don't like this decision but trust me DH will either get serious or agree to a divorce. Told u all it took 4 yrs for him to do sfa. I have preached and preached supplements he doesn't give a damn. Go see a dr, na wahala; even after the test he hasn't gone himself to hear from the dr though I went myself to show my dr his result. To pray is the same problem; he doesn't send.

In truth no physical abuse, yes mental and emotional abuse but I believe he's so distracted by side chicks he once bragged about it to his mum in my presence. He has asked me to leave twice during some heated arguments abt kpekus & ttc. Before he passworded his phone & computer when he caught me reading tru his phone, I saw back & forth flirtatious msgs with chicks even at odd times. So for sure he's having a gud time & he is covering up his tracks, he sees my tears & mocks me. Honestly mamas if I continue keeping my cool there won't b progress. I virtually rape him, smtimes he just agrees to it out of pity and smtimes he rejects me outrightly & I feel so low in my spirit. It is clear there's no love in his heart anymore; I can't continue to patch and pretend abt a failed marriage.
What spiritual exercise haven't I done? How many deliverances? I have been to prayer city, christ chosen tabernacle. I have met several pastors can't even count, they assist in prayers and sm r blunt with the truth abt DH. Imagine DH saying my prayers won't work because he's not involved in the prayers even when I persuade him to join me. I have endured for too long my sisters. Divorce is nt right bfore God bt in this case it is. Whatever happens I will accept the consequences but believe you all me staying longer with a man like him who doesn't even realise his shortcomings is killing me slowly. I almost was involved in an accident yesterday cos of thinking. I suffer from serious headaches now, I really need a break. I want all parties (family&church) involved so that if eventually I leave he will have absolutely nothing against me.

Sorry for the long epistle.

Oh Dear!

I pray for divine strength in this very trying moments. May God guide you whatever you decide on becos at this moment that is all you need. God be with you. You need a healthy family unit to be able to raise a healthy child so I really understand you wanting to take a break. Maybe you need a separation from your DH and not necessarily a divorce just to help both of you see reason.

My dear May GOD guide you becos it is a hard place that you are at the moment.

Good morning beautiful mamas. May God grant a beautiful and a fruitful day to us all...

@mamaTB please this is for you. Please listen to this.

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mamaTB:
Good afternoon fruitful mamas,
Have been an emotional wreck for weeks now so I am off TTC for now. I have prayed and so I took a decision concerning my marriage as I have to resolve this teething problem of constantly begging for kpekus from DH. For now I Dnt care about the outcome as I have informed family,church and my lawyer(if necessary I want to start proceedings for divorce) ; I can't continue my life like this.

As I am broke, pls any mama interested in letrozole should send a pm, bought it last month for almost 34000#(it contains 3 sachets) from healthplus. I took 1 satchet and I have 2 sachets left, pls I want to sell the remaining two for 15k instead of 22k. Any interested mama within lekki/ajah environs should please send me a pm.

Hello dear,

In response to wht you just wrote I want to encourage you my sister, all is not lost and the Lord is in control.

I don't really know what the issues are but if its not endangering your life then please don't give the devil what he wants! This is what the enemy wants, he wants you out of your marriage but it is well IJN.

Please keep praying for strength to go through this very trying moment. Yes you can take a brake from TTC but don't allow the devil to use this challenge to brake your home. God is in control and as long as you hold on to him you are a winner. This is the month of perfection so ask God to perfect your marriage.
I know we are not in the marriage with you and we may not really know what you are going through but my sister I want you to know that I will be praying for and by the special grace of God you will come out victorious. This too shall pass my sister.

I pray that the good Lord will strengthen you in this very difficult moment. May he release his angels to take charge of this battle IJN Amen!

Goddaytosin:
Amen

God bless you for the prayers, may God bless you amd meet you with answered prayers IJN Amen!

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