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RomanceRe: The Top 8 Reasons Women Cheat: This May Surprise You! by Ayima(op): 7:35pm On Jul 05, 2015
I don't play with number 3, i make sure i give her well to the point of diminishing marginal utility.
RomanceRe: The Top 8 Reasons Women Cheat: This May Surprise You! by Ayima(op): 7:23pm On Jul 05, 2015
Ikennakenn:
Which one con be "wham-bam-thank-you-mam" sex
Illd love to see it ohh
Lol.
RomanceThe Top 8 Reasons Women Cheat: This May Surprise You! by Ayima(op): 7:15pm On Jul 05, 2015
1. Lack of attention and intimacy:
How long can you go without receiving love and
attention before you look somewhere else? Some
can go for only days or weeks, and others can go
for years. However, in general, women need and
desire intimacy, physical touch, and mental and
emotional attention. If you are not receiving this
from your husband or boyfriend, it will only be a
matter of time and you may seek it from another
i.e. a caring guy friend, the attentive guy who
feeds your emotional needs at your workplace, or
the hot trainer at the gym. Women deprived of
attention, compliments, and compassion; usually
have emotional affairs. That doesn't mean it
won't lead to sex, but initially they crave the
attention and compassion that has been absent
from their relationship.
2. Revenge:
Being cheated on is a very difficult act to
forgive. For those of you who have been cheated
on, you know how awful it feels. You feel
deceived, hurt, angry, sad, numb and even
violated. It also affects your self-esteem. At the
moment you find out your man cheated, your
whole body begins to shake, you begin to sweat,
your stomach drops, and you feel nauseated.
Clearly, it negatively affects your relationship,
your mood, behavior, and your ability to trust the
cheater ever again. When you have been cheated
on, some of you may want to get revenge by
making them feel the way you felt. This can lead
you, to do the cheating next. The biggest truth is
that cheating never solves a relationship
problem. Communication, assertiveness and
increasing passion and romance in your
relationship are a much better solution.
3. Bad sex:
Women need to feel desired and experience
REAL orgasms during sex. If women are getting
bad sex , not enough sex, non-emotional sex, or
"wham-bam-thank-you-mam" sex, you may
eventually lose interest in the relationship and
look elsewhere for GOOD sex! This creates a
temptation to seek sexual or emotional
satisfaction elsewhere. In my opinion, it's best to
communicate your needs to your man with the
hopes that he will step it up a notch. You can do
this on your own or with the help of a sex
therapist.
4. Weight loss/plastic surgery:
Male attention increases quickly after a boob job,
a butt implant or weight loss, and so does your
self-confidence. With all this male attention, your
temptation to cheat rises, and it takes more self-
control to resist some of those male offers.
Once you realize other guys want you, your
desire to act on it may have you feeling
euphoric. However, be careful, act wisely and
make your pros and cons list.
5. Financial independence:
When you feel financially dependent on your
husband or boyfriend, it's more difficult to speak
up in arguments or leave the relationship. The
fear of being alone and financially unstable
keeps you in a one-down position. Now that
women make their own money, enjoy working,
and are good at it, the need to stay in an
unhappy relationship is not necessary. That
feeling of power and independence can be like
seeing the red carpet laid out for you; all the
way to those other fish in the sea.
6. Low self-esteem:
When you feel insecure about yourself, you have
a need to seek validation from others. This can
be in the form of sexual, emotional, or
intellectual attention. When you don't love or
value yourself, you may project that onto the
person you are in a relationship with, and believe
they don't love or value you. Even if your
husband or boyfriend loves you greatly, you still
may cheat because you find it hard to accept
their unconditional love. I suggest reading one of
the many self-help books out there on building
your self-esteem, or get some counseling to help
improve self-confidence.
7. Feeling under-appreciated:
When you are in a relationship, you like to please
your man. Cooking a romantic dinner, buying sexy
lingerie, and listening with your heart, are just a
few ways you may show your love and
appreciation. So what happens when you don't
hear "thank you, please or I love you.” Holidays
and birthdays come and you don't receive
anything meaningful, nothing at all, not even a
verbal acknowledgment. We all have thresholds,
and once yours is reached, you may decide to
act on a "thank you, please, or I love you"
coming from another direction. Let your man
know he may lose you if he continues to take
you for granted.
8. Bored:
He doesn't spray on that good smelling cologne
anymore, his clothing is wrinkled, stained or way
out-of- date. When he comes home from work
(assuming he has a job), it's the same old thing;
"what's for dinner"? When the weekend comes,
he says he's tired and just wants to relax at
home, or go out to the same sports bar you go
every weekend. The routine is the same over and
over again. You are no longer on the same page.
You barely have anything in common. You are
feeling emotionally distant from him. You find
yourself looking at other prospects and fantasize
about being with someone else. You begin to
feel excited (something you haven't felt in
"forever"wink just thinking about it. There are many
ways to spice up an old, tired relationship.
Boredom is something that can be resolved with
a little, or sometimes a moderate amount of
effort. It requires both of you introducing new
ideas and behaviors, and some spontaneity. Be
sure of what you want.
NYSCRe: NYSC 2015 Batch B House by Ayima: 6:42pm On Jul 05, 2015
Evening guys, hope ya all are doing fine?
Car TalkMeet The World’s Safest Car ‘libyan Rocket’, Designed In Libya by Ayima(op): 7:54pm On Jul 03, 2015
This is ‘Libyan Rocket’-
A car designed by Muammar Gadhafi and
manufactured in Libya- within our Africa.
He was killed while the plant was about to be
built for its mass production. It was the
world’s safest car with collapsible bumper and
ability to travel miles with flat tires. It has a
device that can cut fuel supply during
accident to avoid fire.
Rest in peace Muammar Gadhafi.
We hope ignorant Libyans have started
enjoying his absence.
Long live Africa.
Look at photographs of one of Muammar
Gaddafi’s awesome creations named “Saroukh
el-Jamahiriya”, which means “Libyan Rocket”.
The auto was designed by Gaddafi and is
depicted as a progressive model ever, said to
be the most secure auto on the planet.
Saroukh el-Jamahiriya
The auto is intended to take after a rocket
shape from its front and behind, and is fueled
by a 3-liter V6 motor which conveys a
maximum power of 230 horsepower. It is 17
feet long and around six feet wide. The car
was unveiled after an African Union meeting in
2009, held in Tripoli and organized by Gaddafi.
Saroukh el-Jamahiriya1
The Libyan Rocket vehicles includes numerous
airbags, has collapsible bumpers that aides
during an accident, and an electronic
protection framework. The Car can go several
miles on a flat tire, an element that could
prove to be useful while driving in the vast
Libyan desert. Other security elements
incorporate a gadget to remove the fuel
supply to stay away from flame if there should
be an occurrence of accident.
As at the time the Rocket-designed car was
revealed at the 2009 African Union
conference, production was set to start in
Tripoli, Libya’s capital where a car plant was
to be constructed, however after Obama came
into force same year, his administration used
Obama’s image to blind Africa and her people,
including the broadcast death of Muammar
Gaddafi under America’s first African
president’s reign, methodicallly re-colonizing
Africa to keep us monetarily poor and
dependent.
Amid this period (2009), some place asking:
Why is Libya building an auto, and why did Col.
Gaddafi design it? Basic: Safety! As per
reports, the development of the World’s Safest
Car was in light of the high number of
individuals murdered and injured every year on
Libya’s streets, Gaddafi needed to venture in
with a progressive and visionary arrangement,
which came about to him designing this auto.
As indicated by reports, a representative at
the 2009 AU meeting had this to say in
regards to the world’s most secure auto: “The
leader spent so many hours of his valuable
time thinking of an effective solution. It is the
safest car produced anywhere.”
As per a few reports, the Libyan Rocket auto
was a task financed by the Libyan Arab
Domestic Investment Company, which likewise
wanted to set up a production line in Tripoli to
begin generation of the auto. Italian auto
maker Tesco TS, was enlisted to handle the
creation of the model, said to have cost
upwards of $2.85 million.
Gaddafi’s legacy and ideology, should be
taught in each and every academic
establishment in Africa. In the event that just
half, or even a quarter of African leaders, have
the same philosophy and vision as Gaddafi,
Africa’s economy would be one of the most
strongest, if not the most strongest, in world
economy — today

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Xcozee:
Ok! I get bro! Just take life easy bro! Wish u d very best
Thanks bro.
NYSCRe: NYSC 2015 Batch B House by Ayima: 7:16pm On Jul 03, 2015
Xcozee:
why bro?
Can't really explain here bro.
NYSCRe: NYSC 2015 Batch B House by Ayima: 7:12pm On Jul 03, 2015
Xcozee:
greetings to everyone! Happy weekend!!!
And its funny scoring another goal with just a 2nd post 2day!


I dedicate the page to my one and only Zeenas!
Then to my 'manest' men Hilsocial and sydneyboss!
Then to my brother Ayima (may God grant u nd ur babymama joy once again! One Love! #AlwaysBelieve
Thanks bro, but she is not helping matters at all.
RomanceRe: Top 15 Lies Told By Nigerian Girls by Ayima(op): 7:10pm On Jul 03, 2015
Tomfrench:
i must say the OP is severely wounded, emotionally undecided
lol.
RomanceTop 15 Lies Told By Nigerian Girls by Ayima(op): 6:16pm On Jul 03, 2015
Here are the 16 commonest lies among Nigerian
girls
1. I have a boy friend, but he is not in the
country
2. The Lecturer called me but i didn't answer
3. I never enter public transport before in my life
4. Dangote is my godfather
5. I shop online
6. Me, i really don't like flights because of the
frequent delay. so i prefer to take buses
7. I am not bleaching, my natural color is just
coming out
8. I don't like taking Shawama, the alcohol
content is just too high
9. I cant live in "face-me-i-face-you" house. Its
too noisy, so i prefer BQ
10. I went to visit a guy in Abuja, he gave me
50k but he did not touch me o
11. I do not love you because of your money
12. I am in part 3 in one of the Universities
13. I want my salad cold. The last time i ate it
hot, i did not like it
14. I am not ready for a serious relationship now
15. I love you too.
NYSCRe: NYSC 2015 Batch B House by Ayima: 5:59pm On Jul 03, 2015
Evening all my guys.
RomanceRe: How Girls Fool Guys by Ayima(op): 4:46pm On Jul 03, 2015
Johnnoah1st:
ARE U NOT DUMB 2? U DIS VILLAGE GIRL WEY DEY HIDE BEHIND KEYBOARD DEY WRITE RUBISH BECAUSE MTN DASH U FREE MB. ISSORITE, AM WATCHING U IN 3D
Lol.
RomanceHow Girls Fool Guys by Ayima(op): 11:21am On Jul 03, 2015
Ur in love wit a girl who love another guy the folowing takes place
U take one hour to construct a love msg and send it 2her.
She reciev d msg edit it and send it 2d boy friend widout replying u.
After smtim u call her an say hav u seen d msg, she says yes thank u.
U manage to have hundred naira an u buy a card an send it 2her
She reciev the card, cal her boyfren,
After somtime u nw call her, hav u seen d card she says yes thank u.
You nw tel her pleas can i see u, she say no am buxy, but she is beging the other guy to creat time an see her. Do u knw anyother way girls fool guys add urs
NYSCRe: NYSC 2015 Batch B House by Ayima: 6:47am On Jul 03, 2015
Morning to you guys, hope ya night was good?
NYSCRe: NYSC 2015 Batch B House by Ayima: 8:15am On Jul 02, 2015
goldenone:
Morning!!! Wow! Lucky you, When will I be on front pagehuh
Don't mind those people, didn't even know d topic will make front page.
FashionRe: I Took A Picture Of This Man Today In Calabar. by Ayima(op): 8:13am On Jul 02, 2015
jeje123:
Guy u need general service on ur brain box
lol.
FashionRe: I Took A Picture Of This Man Today In Calabar. by Ayima(op): 8:11am On Jul 02, 2015
stteejax:
Na Calabar I dey do my Youth service...hw we go do la?
Ok nice, hope u are really enjoying cali?
FashionRe: I Took A Picture Of This Man Today In Calabar. by Ayima(op): 8:07am On Jul 02, 2015
free2ryhme:
Your Post mentioned funny mad or not


Which is the correct adjective to qualify the man dressed in bum short with a female bag?
It means i am confused.
FashionRe: I Took A Picture Of This Man Today In Calabar. by Ayima(op): 8:02am On Jul 02, 2015
stteejax:
Always c him @ Watt Market....he aint Ok upstairs...d man can walk 4rm Calabar 2 Lagos
Hahahahahahaha, calabar people full this thread well.
FashionRe: I Took A Picture Of This Man Today In Calabar. by Ayima(op): 7:58am On Jul 02, 2015
free2ryhme:
You can't be sure of both until u summon the courage to ask him.

Were you afraid to ask him?
Do you want to kill me? if it's possible i for like go heaven alive o.
NYSCRe: NYSC 2015 Batch B House by Ayima: 7:55am On Jul 02, 2015
Na my topic be first for front page this morning o, this one i make front page e be like timetable want comot be that. A wonderful morning to you all. hilsocial babatawa stancity thespark starlight101 haywire1 haliluck goldenone, if i no mention u no vex i d fear ban but all off una na my main guys.
FashionRe: I Took A Picture Of This Man Today In Calabar. by Ayima(op): 7:47am On Jul 02, 2015
raziboi:
thats real change



tanxz to our dullard daura....
What kind of brain do you have? what is the correlation between this pix and what you said here?
FashionRe: I Took A Picture Of This Man Today In Calabar. by Ayima(op): 7:44am On Jul 02, 2015
saintneo2:
I have a feeling that this picture was photoshoped. From waist down looks like a teenage feature.

If the picture is real then he should go Catlyn Jenner way.





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You don't even know a photoshoped picture, That picture is real dear, i took it with my Android.
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NYSCRe: NYSC 2015 Batch B House by Ayima: 12:47am On Jul 02, 2015
johndanny:
House is so quite, why is everyone asleep.. Ayima u too don sleep
me d sleep 5.50am wake up 6am o.
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Bayois2muchyahoocom Guy evening o, i swear u funny well.
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FashionRe: I Took A Picture Of This Man Today In Calabar. by Ayima(op): 11:25pm On Jul 01, 2015
Omotayor123:
if to say he don catch you opshocked

You would have known he's actually mard#
lol, i mad pass am o.
NYSCRe: NYSC 2015 Batch B House by Ayima: 11:23pm On Jul 01, 2015
Kbs468:
pls put that behind you and focus on her and your being together
Thanks bro.
NYSCRe: NYSC 2015 Batch B House by Ayima: 10:13pm On Jul 01, 2015
Xcozee:
Yea! That's true! I guess oga sodiq once emailed something like that to me, telling me to ensure/verify my admission status to avoid 'had I known' and to start going about it (that's if yours is not confirmed)... Simply go to jamb website, search 4d year u got matriculated and insert ur Jamb no:...

Cc: 2el
Hilsocial
Babatawa
Sydneyboss
Ayima
Physika
Zeenas
Kbs468
Majidyusuf
Deracathy
hadassaheke et el
My own is confirmed, Even devil no fit try me for this one.
NYSCRe: NYSC 2015 Batch B House by Ayima: 10:10pm On Jul 01, 2015
Kbs468:
Ayima where you expecting her to narate every detail to you? Sure she cant but to cry naa
Guy i swear nothing vex me like this incident, anytime i reach that area where d stuff took place i feel like going crazy.
NYSCRe: NYSC 2015 Batch B House by Ayima: 9:59pm On Jul 01, 2015
Xcozee:
*clears throat*... Make that guy (name withheld) nah hear u oo! How far dat ur issue na, hope tins are getting much better?
Still on matter bro, today i was asking her how the guy did and she started crying.

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