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I don't play with number 3, i make sure i give her well to the point of diminishing marginal utility. |
Ikennakenn:Lol. |
1. Lack of attention and intimacy: How long can you go without receiving love and attention before you look somewhere else? Some can go for only days or weeks, and others can go for years. However, in general, women need and desire intimacy, physical touch, and mental and emotional attention. If you are not receiving this from your husband or boyfriend, it will only be a matter of time and you may seek it from another i.e. a caring guy friend, the attentive guy who feeds your emotional needs at your workplace, or the hot trainer at the gym. Women deprived of attention, compliments, and compassion; usually have emotional affairs. That doesn't mean it won't lead to sex, but initially they crave the attention and compassion that has been absent from their relationship. 2. Revenge: Being cheated on is a very difficult act to forgive. For those of you who have been cheated on, you know how awful it feels. You feel deceived, hurt, angry, sad, numb and even violated. It also affects your self-esteem. At the moment you find out your man cheated, your whole body begins to shake, you begin to sweat, your stomach drops, and you feel nauseated. Clearly, it negatively affects your relationship, your mood, behavior, and your ability to trust the cheater ever again. When you have been cheated on, some of you may want to get revenge by making them feel the way you felt. This can lead you, to do the cheating next. The biggest truth is that cheating never solves a relationship problem. Communication, assertiveness and increasing passion and romance in your relationship are a much better solution. 3. Bad sex: Women need to feel desired and experience REAL orgasms during sex. If women are getting bad sex , not enough sex, non-emotional sex, or "wham-bam-thank-you-mam" sex, you may eventually lose interest in the relationship and look elsewhere for GOOD sex! This creates a temptation to seek sexual or emotional satisfaction elsewhere. In my opinion, it's best to communicate your needs to your man with the hopes that he will step it up a notch. You can do this on your own or with the help of a sex therapist. 4. Weight loss/plastic surgery: Male attention increases quickly after a boob job, a butt implant or weight loss, and so does your self-confidence. With all this male attention, your temptation to cheat rises, and it takes more self- control to resist some of those male offers. Once you realize other guys want you, your desire to act on it may have you feeling euphoric. However, be careful, act wisely and make your pros and cons list. 5. Financial independence: When you feel financially dependent on your husband or boyfriend, it's more difficult to speak up in arguments or leave the relationship. The fear of being alone and financially unstable keeps you in a one-down position. Now that women make their own money, enjoy working, and are good at it, the need to stay in an unhappy relationship is not necessary. That feeling of power and independence can be like seeing the red carpet laid out for you; all the way to those other fish in the sea. 6. Low self-esteem: When you feel insecure about yourself, you have a need to seek validation from others. This can be in the form of sexual, emotional, or intellectual attention. When you don't love or value yourself, you may project that onto the person you are in a relationship with, and believe they don't love or value you. Even if your husband or boyfriend loves you greatly, you still may cheat because you find it hard to accept their unconditional love. I suggest reading one of the many self-help books out there on building your self-esteem, or get some counseling to help improve self-confidence. 7. Feeling under-appreciated: When you are in a relationship, you like to please your man. Cooking a romantic dinner, buying sexy lingerie, and listening with your heart, are just a few ways you may show your love and appreciation. So what happens when you don't hear "thank you, please or I love you.” Holidays and birthdays come and you don't receive anything meaningful, nothing at all, not even a verbal acknowledgment. We all have thresholds, and once yours is reached, you may decide to act on a "thank you, please, or I love you" coming from another direction. Let your man know he may lose you if he continues to take you for granted. 8. Bored: He doesn't spray on that good smelling cologne anymore, his clothing is wrinkled, stained or way out-of- date. When he comes home from work (assuming he has a job), it's the same old thing; "what's for dinner"? When the weekend comes, he says he's tired and just wants to relax at home, or go out to the same sports bar you go every weekend. The routine is the same over and over again. You are no longer on the same page. You barely have anything in common. You are feeling emotionally distant from him. You find yourself looking at other prospects and fantasize about being with someone else. You begin to feel excited (something you haven't felt in "forever" just thinking about it. There are manyways to spice up an old, tired relationship. Boredom is something that can be resolved with a little, or sometimes a moderate amount of effort. It requires both of you introducing new ideas and behaviors, and some spontaneity. Be sure of what you want. |
Evening guys, hope ya all are doing fine? |
This is ‘Libyan Rocket’- A car designed by Muammar Gadhafi and manufactured in Libya- within our Africa. He was killed while the plant was about to be built for its mass production. It was the world’s safest car with collapsible bumper and ability to travel miles with flat tires. It has a device that can cut fuel supply during accident to avoid fire. Rest in peace Muammar Gadhafi. We hope ignorant Libyans have started enjoying his absence. Long live Africa. Look at photographs of one of Muammar Gaddafi’s awesome creations named “Saroukh el-Jamahiriya”, which means “Libyan Rocket”. The auto was designed by Gaddafi and is depicted as a progressive model ever, said to be the most secure auto on the planet. Saroukh el-Jamahiriya The auto is intended to take after a rocket shape from its front and behind, and is fueled by a 3-liter V6 motor which conveys a maximum power of 230 horsepower. It is 17 feet long and around six feet wide. The car was unveiled after an African Union meeting in 2009, held in Tripoli and organized by Gaddafi. Saroukh el-Jamahiriya1 The Libyan Rocket vehicles includes numerous airbags, has collapsible bumpers that aides during an accident, and an electronic protection framework. The Car can go several miles on a flat tire, an element that could prove to be useful while driving in the vast Libyan desert. Other security elements incorporate a gadget to remove the fuel supply to stay away from flame if there should be an occurrence of accident. As at the time the Rocket-designed car was revealed at the 2009 African Union conference, production was set to start in Tripoli, Libya’s capital where a car plant was to be constructed, however after Obama came into force same year, his administration used Obama’s image to blind Africa and her people, including the broadcast death of Muammar Gaddafi under America’s first African president’s reign, methodicallly re-colonizing Africa to keep us monetarily poor and dependent. Amid this period (2009), some place asking: Why is Libya building an auto, and why did Col. Gaddafi design it? Basic: Safety! As per reports, the development of the World’s Safest Car was in light of the high number of individuals murdered and injured every year on Libya’s streets, Gaddafi needed to venture in with a progressive and visionary arrangement, which came about to him designing this auto. As indicated by reports, a representative at the 2009 AU meeting had this to say in regards to the world’s most secure auto: “The leader spent so many hours of his valuable time thinking of an effective solution. It is the safest car produced anywhere.” As per a few reports, the Libyan Rocket auto was a task financed by the Libyan Arab Domestic Investment Company, which likewise wanted to set up a production line in Tripoli to begin generation of the auto. Italian auto maker Tesco TS, was enlisted to handle the creation of the model, said to have cost upwards of $2.85 million. Gaddafi’s legacy and ideology, should be taught in each and every academic establishment in Africa. In the event that just half, or even a quarter of African leaders, have the same philosophy and vision as Gaddafi, Africa’s economy would be one of the most strongest, if not the most strongest, in world economy — today
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Xcozee:Thanks bro. |
Xcozee:Can't really explain here bro. |
Xcozee:Thanks bro, but she is not helping matters at all. |
Tomfrench:lol. |
Here are the 16 commonest lies among Nigerian girls 1. I have a boy friend, but he is not in the country 2. The Lecturer called me but i didn't answer 3. I never enter public transport before in my life 4. Dangote is my godfather 5. I shop online 6. Me, i really don't like flights because of the frequent delay. so i prefer to take buses 7. I am not bleaching, my natural color is just coming out 8. I don't like taking Shawama, the alcohol content is just too high 9. I cant live in "face-me-i-face-you" house. Its too noisy, so i prefer BQ 10. I went to visit a guy in Abuja, he gave me 50k but he did not touch me o 11. I do not love you because of your money 12. I am in part 3 in one of the Universities 13. I want my salad cold. The last time i ate it hot, i did not like it 14. I am not ready for a serious relationship now 15. I love you too. |
Evening all my guys. |
Johnnoah1st:Lol. |
Ur in love wit a girl who love another guy the folowing takes place U take one hour to construct a love msg and send it 2her. She reciev d msg edit it and send it 2d boy friend widout replying u. After smtim u call her an say hav u seen d msg, she says yes thank u. U manage to have hundred naira an u buy a card an send it 2her She reciev the card, cal her boyfren, After somtime u nw call her, hav u seen d card she says yes thank u. You nw tel her pleas can i see u, she say no am buxy, but she is beging the other guy to creat time an see her. Do u knw anyother way girls fool guys add urs |
Morning to you guys, hope ya night was good? |
goldenone:Don't mind those people, didn't even know d topic will make front page. |
jeje123:lol. |
stteejax:Ok nice, hope u are really enjoying cali? |
free2ryhme:It means i am confused. |
stteejax:Hahahahahahaha, calabar people full this thread well. |
free2ryhme:Do you want to kill me? if it's possible i for like go heaven alive o. |
Na my topic be first for front page this morning o, this one i make front page e be like timetable want comot be that. A wonderful morning to you all. hilsocial babatawa stancity thespark starlight101 haywire1 haliluck goldenone, if i no mention u no vex i d fear ban but all off una na my main guys. |
raziboi:What kind of brain do you have? what is the correlation between this pix and what you said here? |
saintneo2:You don't even know a photoshoped picture, That picture is real dear, i took it with my Android. |
I chop now with mineral |
johndanny:me d sleep 5.50am wake up 6am o. |
Bayois2muchyahoocom Guy evening o, i swear u funny well. |
Why is nysc updating help lines for registration in their website when timetable is not out. |
Omotayor123:lol, i mad pass am o. |
Kbs468:Thanks bro. |
Xcozee:My own is confirmed, Even devil no fit try me for this one. |
Kbs468:Guy i swear nothing vex me like this incident, anytime i reach that area where d stuff took place i feel like going crazy. |
Xcozee:Still on matter bro, today i was asking her how the guy did and she started crying. |
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just thinking about it. There are many
