crackhaus:

No sah, you still not getting the gist. It isn't quite about rules or principles.

Let me summarize, the story goes thus:
Man and woman are married, somehow their sex life has deteriorated to the point where man feels starved of it due to his wife's indifference for 'whatever reason not stated'.

Man feels perhaps seeing a stranger who sits in a fancy chair listening to other peoples problems (more like a professional amebo on steroids) will bring about a solution.
Unfortunately it doesn't. Guess why?
Because that even makes the woman feel like she's got all the power seeing as this sexless marriage has affected the man so much that he suddenly wants to involve a third party.

What does the man do?
He suddenly stops giving a fvck and focuses his mind and energy on other things that are distracting as well as productive....afterall, man shall not live by sex alone.

What does the woman do?
She suddenly realizes that this man she thought was so affected by the lack of sex has somehow blanked her completely and is going about his bizniz without even so much as looking in her direction anymore.

Now the point:
Women want to feel attractive and sexually appealing to their spouses to the point where some want to use that as a tool for power-play.
A man that doesn't care or give a fvck about such manipulative power-plays will automatically make the woman feel insecure with thoughts about if she isn't attractive anymore or if he's getting it somewhere else.

Basically...more or less the summary.
Shorter than the OP.

I get the whole gist, I just would have love it if the OP said something about it not been the only way to get get the sex vibe back, what if at the end she isn't still sexually attracted. But anyway I learnt from it.

crackhaus:

Gaddemiit, it means be a man...don't be a sissy, don't be mangina, don't be a fvck boy.

Never let your woman be too comfortable in the assumption that she has a lot of power over you.

There isn't a rule or principle towards how you treat your lady, because one took advantage of your sweet gesture and care doesn't mean another will, figure out what works for her and stick with it

BuddhaPalm:


The moral of the gist is: fvck "communication".

Become masculine (again), and your partner will desire you.

So it's about the Sex?

OP, are you trying to say sometimes if not most times, it's about us as individual and not the other person, and that we are constantly at war with ourselves?

Guys please contribute like for the OP, I have made it 4

I wonder guys look at when they see other guys

I am from ijebu Igbo, and I didn't know this, I think I am from ojowo. Either case, am keeping this in my library. Thanks OP

Guy, like seriously, which year were you born, how is this new? This has been in existence since like forever, for you to even call sef, you are an otondo.

Out of all the billionaires in this world, Bill is the most sociable of all, from the days of planking, to ice bucket challenge, this is the second pics I have seen of him "dabbing". I like his kind of person. I see Mr Mark (facebook) walking in his shoes.

dumie:
GRA axis

Can I send you a private message?

dumie:
I concur "friend zoned guys" never leave that zone unfortunately.. Where in ph are u?

I agree, it's quiet unfortunate. I live at rumuogba, thats artillery axis, and you?

tok2008:


Mr right are everywhere but what you ladies look for is the problem.

If you set your priorities right and you clamp down on your expectations,you will see how many mr rights live even on your street.

Guy you are absolutely right, I have come across several ladies that are not happy In there relationships, but they ll prefer to stay there, you will now see one fine, perfect guy at the corner giving them relationship advice, he is the chairman of the friend zone. Let me sef sell my market, please if you are single and serious, kindly send me a message, I live and work in ph. I ll prefer someone in ph though

Elxandre:

You wey I know say you go sell am add money

Lol never be too sure bro.

I passed the said junction about 1hr ago, some cars have stop half way , I bet the mechanics and toll vehicles will make money this season. Moreover it has cause gridlock at market junction, rumoumasi round about affecting those coming from shell. Going towards elekhaia. Men in had to turn back home

Isn't it set to be officially announced April 19. Anyone mehn, Am so getting this machine anyone wants to be my m9?

That's easy, the brain.

I am a fan of customise tees, I haven't been able to make them since I left lagos. Can I know your location and let say I want to do close to 15 pieces for personal consumption different designs of course, how much will it go for?

Better still leave your number and I ll call you.

The product has been around for as long as I can remember, it is genuine, however, be careful some group people may want to take advantage of it and scam people. Be careful it's the authentic crew. Best of luck

Hello, please how much can I get Honda accord 2008 or 9 coupe , preferably manual. With custom duty.

You don't still get it. Some men still have the mentality of boys and vise versa. Some boys will contribute more than a man to a lady or girl as the case may be. It's left for the lady to identify and choose. The most heartbreaking thing is that they fall for the wrong person over and over again, even after seeing the obvious. A lady friend once told me that girls are confused and they don't know what they want, even including me. (the girl).so if you got a good girl guys, please keep her, or else another will make her dream come true.

See all this people ranting about OP, going to bank, I would have done the same thing the OP did, why go to bank, when there is an alternative, you don't have to query him not going to bank na. Only those who have work will understand the logic going to bank when you have work waiting for you at the office. Dear OP since all channels have been exhausted, I think it's right about time you visit your nearest branch. Best of Luck

Muafrika2:

Seriously Stop hating on the most naturally occuring African hairdo. If it was evil God would have created an Afro comb on day 8.


Judges 16:13 | View whole chapter | See verse in context
And Delilah said unto Samson, Hitherto thou hast mocked me, and told me lies: tell me wherewith thou mightest be bound. And he said unto her, If thou weavest the [size=14pt]seven locks[/size] of my head with the web.

Bro tell him oo

asalimpo:

The bible doesnt mention many things. But he gave us brains to conjecture with. Anomalies, like dreads have satanic roots.
Like i said,can you imagine God ,Jesus, or the holy angels in colored hair e.g brown red white black? Yes, you can. Can you imagine them in dreads? No.

That's a flag there.

Okay

asalimpo:

i understand why could be living in denial. You've accepted something as normal for so long you don't want to be convinced otherwise. Let me just repeat, if you made it to heaven,would you see God,Jesus or any angelic being spotting dreads?

The God, the Jesus and angels I know, even in his book, never mention anywhere where your hair is said to be demonic or attached, bro, follow your angels and your own god, I ll stick to mine and believe. Safe

asalimpo:
@ayogabriel and co.
Just ask yourselves:
if i could see into the spirit realm, how many angels are my likely to see with dreadlocks?
On the other hand, How many foul spirits/demons am i likely to see with it?

You know the answer: no dada in heaven. It's an anomaly, as such it has satan behind it.

You have no idea what you are talking about.

asalimpo:

I know. It's the evil spirits that twirl the hair. That's y it's a perversion. It's unnatural.
If you have God can deliver you.
Peace.

LMAO!!! think I have to tweat this.

asalimpo:

You need to go for deliverance. There's an evil spirit in your hair/head.

OH!!! Really, I didn't know you are so spiritually gifted to tell when someone has an evil spirit. Haice!!! Bro swerve.

I have always wanted to do this. But this will attract lots of critic.

I was born "Dada" although it was cut while growing up. When you give birth to a child, you don't just cut the hair immediately right, you wait for couple of months I guess, it's in this process you see the trait of the Dada hair, and if you have an elderly person around, he/she will not support cutting it. And it matures into the Dada hair. In this part of the world, it is associated to mean something and cutting it is, could have effect. Just like the case of samson in the bible, it was fore told not to be cut. Although this quiet often in the white garment church, I was born into one, and I have always wonder why it is so.

You can check out this thread https://www.nairaland.com/1119778/what-meaning-dada-dreadlocks-nigeria

tonio2wo:
Arrange ur grammar first.

LMAO, you mean bro.

I spend an average of #50 everyday to work, with or without scarcity. I work in ph though