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Vl3ly:
why you no help Ukraine open black sea first?

Na on top small country u dey form world power, world power my foot

allandutch:
Guys, I need your help. I am terrible with women.


Okay, maybe not entirely. I have no problem talking to them and easily make them laugh but escalating with the ones I find attractive is where the problem lies. I don't know how to get sexual/romantic with women. I don't know how to change from normal conversations to romantic ones. It's becoming more troubling the older I get, cos younger me simply do not care.


The strange thing is, women in general actually like me.


Over the past 5 months, I've had 3 good looking girls give strong "greenlight". We'll talk, we'll joke around but on getting sexual, I couldn't go beyond collecting their numbers. With one of the 3 girls the "greenlight" was so intense that at some point I fear she was going to jump me. Still did nothing beyond getting her number and the whole thing fizzled out.


I do score sometimes though but it's usually more chance than delibrate effort. I want this to change. I'll like to know how to transition from having a normal convo to sexual and romantic side of things.


Like currently, I have one sweet 23/24 years old girl showing interest. We live in the same neighbourhood and I collected her number since last week and I've been staring at it. Do I call her? Do I text her on whatsapp? What do I tell her if I call her, what do I say to her on whatsapp beyond the normal chitchat?



Sorry for the long message. Your inputs will be much appreciated.

WriterNiiig:
😂

Ibime:
The Gulf countries are too rich and too few in population to allow hot headedness or militarism dictate their foreign policy

Only 6m of Saudi 30m population are Saudis, the rest are immigrants

Only 300k of Qatar 3m population are Qatari, the rest are immigrants

Only 1m of UAE 10m population are Emirati, the rest are immigrants

Only 1.4m of Kuwait 4.5m population are Kuwaiti, the rest are immigrants

Only half of Bahrain 1.5m population are Bahraini, the rest are immigrants

50% of Oman are immigrants

Of the native populations of these countries, half are millionaires and the other half are very comfortable and all will run at the sound of gunshot. The Indians and other immigrants will be the first to run

So what business do these Gulf countries have in doing hothead like Iran that have the population and the HUNGER to fight. Their demographics are not war demographics simple.

Their Kings know what is best for them and are towing the correct route of diplomacy, trade and soft life because none of them are built for war. That's why they have security pacts with USA and will call USA the minute Kuwait for example is invaded by Saddam.

TrumpBiden:
Why didn't he do that outside fox ? I mean it fox that fired him not CNN, what is he afraid. It's Don Lemon that should be doing what he did.

The current wave of independent media is temporary cos I'm not sure the federal government will sit back and do nothing.. sooner or later, they'll be regulated. The federal government knows what's at stake here.

TrumpBiden:
This is just childish.

WriterNigg:
⚡Robin Brooks, an economist from the Institute of International Finance, wrote about how Greek maritime oligarchs are serving Putin's fleets.

1. Greek shipping oligarchs are constantly selling oil tankers to Putin's shadow fleet. That's why the share of Greek-owned vessels out of Russia's Baltic ports keeps falling (blue), even as Russian shipborne oil exports are running at record highs.

The EU looks the other way.

FoolishBoy419:
You have raised good points but I think there are some things you are missing. Firstly, I think when he said the West made their money through theft I think it was in reference to the Atlantic slave trade and colonialism of Africans which made far, far, far more money for them than the Ottomans/Soviets ever made from their empires.

Secondly, the Ottoman empire did improve the welfare of their citizens even though some sections were excluded. The Soviets failed to enjoy economic prosperity as a result of Western sabotage (the West was literally controlling Africa and most of Asia) and the evident flaws of communism. It's not lack of freedom that kept them poor and I can use the same argument to tell you that many, if not most of the democratic states outside Western Europe are impoverished.

And if freedom is truly the main factor that leads to innovation, the USSR wouldn't have been able to achieve a the technological feats they made throughout the cold war. We are talking about the first people to create and launch a satellite into space here. Military wise, they matched the US weapon for weapon and even surpassed them in some areas.

Masterviolence:
Stop making a Sally of folly out of yourself.
You commented and you received a response but all you could say was slowpoke and you want to be seen as a reasonable person.
Smh.

WrriterNig:
Lot it happened in the US a month ago. In fact it was the 2nd biggest refinery in the US.

Not a big deal.

WrriterNig:
⚡An oil refinery is on fire in the east of Iran.

Procashtips:
Lol you think I'm going to enter a non-ending argument with you?

I select who I spend my time on.

Even the original poster has even changed his mouth on the subject matter.

Procashtips:
As usual, you've moved away from the subject matter once you're given a respond you can't counter.

Una intelligence level for the other side low meeen

Procashtips:
Like their wealth came from freedom and not through exploitation/slavery/theft? 'exploitation/slavery/theft?'

Allthelight:
Read up the UDHR then when you are done i will recommend something else. Better dont reply me again ooh you claim to know alot but a basic topic taught in all schools you dont know.

Everything you enjoy to is because you are free and not a slave ( but i believe most folks are still not free)

Even our freedom is now threaten and you all want us to go back to dictatorship because of some propaganda channel.

Allthelight:
freedom does not totally means riches... U should read more.

Freedom is a broad term.. It also has to do with security, housing, infrastructure, education e.t.c.

When u want to learn i will teach you what the term freedom means.

And yes the more freedom the more rich people


I stop reading when u failed to realize that there are by far more rich people in the u.s and west than china, saudi and the others

ulaeto:
Some of you on this thread reason like entrohomerdivial mammals.. I find it very confusing how you guys found your way to threads like this.. So there are no rich competitive population in Saudi arabia, dubai, Russia, China etc using your weak brain cells to scale freedom and prosperity... i regret coming here this evening to read this poo. Freedom equates riches yet we have a quatum poor people in western countries together with its weak economy that goes into recess from time to time.!!

MayowaTallguy:
Unai emery
Nice one man,nice one
After been called a fluke u just have to take the villa job and prove them gunners wrong..
Now this is not a fluke,man City behind Aston villa with almost 6 point
Battering both City and arsenal back to back
Now other will take note not to look down on villa henceforth
Give unai is flowers already! He's a good coach.!!

Crumbian:
When Arsenal wins they are the best team in the world but when they lose, there's an agenda against them. As if they've never benefitted from EPL's renowned bad officiating and terrible VAR decisions

AAA593:
Dat ball touched cash hand first. see var

Allthelight:
if not for democracy were would you see money to buy data and type this some of you will just talk rubbish..


Or you think you will have the money to type this oh wait your propaganda channels told you about russia and china..

Both countries allows some form of freedom

Olatunji1929:
Mr I too know stop talking nonsense as if you know everything we no be mugu,how is US backing Venezuela?

Kingsnairaland:
Propaganda.

dvkot:
America backed this with the aim of going against brazil... And getting the oil of that region through Venezuela... U see America Fear them, They are like soldiers without honor, only loyal to money and oil

sajmark:
Maintain your business, not your girlfriend. Dating an unemployed lady who is also high maintenance is the most foolish thing you can do. As a young man starting out in life, high maintenance women will put the greatest distance between you and success. It is like paying to carry a burden. Listen, women are not rare. 50% of the population are women. Stop dating a liability, no matter her sensuality! Never think that relationships with women are hard to come by. Not true. Success is hard to come by. A job is hard to come by. Millionaire status is hard to come by. Prioritise. Focus on things that are harder to get. Once your tree has fruit, many low-maintenance, high-quality women will gather under it! Travel and avoid the fate that befell the original Adam, the royal Prince Harry and a certain loyal hype man. Many countries on Earth have the type of low maintenance, high beauty and morals women that you find all over Northern Nigeria.

©Reno Omokri

Ghostagain:
Brazil is letting the USA to use Brazilian army. That is unfortunate.

ezechi24:
Stop simping, stop calling her, stop any contact with Hershey would want to know why and curious girls gets bleeped and immediately u dig her, do am with no emotions.....IL teach my son to be a beast, a very loving and caring beast not all these simps we having all around .

Ethology is basically the psychology of animals.

Writing about animals gives me peace. This is because the madness that goes on almost every week within the Nigerian public narrative space, most especially the cybersphere can be draining for people with very low energy for drama. That is why I wait until the embers are down before getting to know what actually happened.

So when I read that allegation, my antenna twitched...and I shouted, welcome to the animal world. But I knew writing about it then may defeat the teachable purpose as many would read it from the lens of the treading issue and learn nada from it. That's why I waited...

I have watched countless documentaries where Kleptogamy played out without me knowing there was a term for that. The term "sneaky fvckers" was coined by evolutionary biologist John Maynard Smith to describe subordinate males who take advantage of the opportunity to mate with females while dominant males are otherwise occupied, leading to their reproductive success.

Animals like Cheetah have naturally evolved to accommodate Sneaky Fvckers such that more than two males can fertilize their eggs. And like most cats, the female can choose which sperm to fertilize her eggs, and which one to flush out.

Unlike Lions, where the dominant male rules the pride and has exclusive mating rights to conserve his genes to the next generation, a right that also comes with lots of responsibilities such as protection, and to some extent provision (when a big prey is encountered), and mentorship because he literally raises the cubs and watches after them when the lionesses go hunting.

But inspite of this, Lionesses can, and do engage in sneaky copulations, either to divert aggressive roaming males from attacking the pride and killing of their cubs, or to ignite a pride takeover if they do not like the alpha male they have.

Mostly displayed among animals that keep harems, the sneaky guys always tiptoe into the harems whenever the alpha male is distracted either fighting, or attending to other of his females. This sly guy gets him, hobnobs with the females, sow his oats, and sneaks out. But he could pay the ultimate price if caught.

Nature is deep.

Primates are also well known in this game. The beta males organise kidnapping gangs that swoop on females and kidnap their babies as ransome to lure the mothers.

Others like deers sneak in to sow their oats of mixed multitude and find their way before the alpha male takes notice.

But Zebras are smart. They know about this, that's why they conduct DNA tests at birth.

Reading up Peter Linberg some time ago, he wrote that within the pick-up artist literature, there are alpha males and beta males, and this delineates those who are successful in the sexual marketplace and those who are not. Those who are not, according to him often engages in concealed mating strategies, such as: being a nice guy, getting friend zoned, and being a “white knight,” which is the manosphere term for when a man jumps to a woman’s rescue for disingenuous reasons.

He quotes copiously from Alan Roger Currie’s book, “Mode One: Let the Women Know What You're Really Thinking,” where the author describes the sneaky fvcker strategy. The author graphically depicts the mindset of those who adopt this strategy: when you hide, deny, and/or ‘camouflage’ your true, honest needs, desires, interests, and intentions from women. Your behavior is usually phony, hypocritical, wimpy, deceitful, and ‘wishy-washy.’

We learn so much from animals, including human animals. The Sneaky-Fvcker mating strategy is a natural trait that occurs in animals, as well as humans.

©Kelechi Decca /FB

OliverTwistJr:
Guys, please I need help, I don't know what to do right now

I'm a 300 level student in A federal university in Nigeria, I've never dated anyone before because I've been this guy that like book a lot

But during last semester, there is the babe near my house that has been showing interest in me, she do visit me a lot and spend the whole day with me, though I also have a crush on her but because she has a lot of guys with her, I did not bother with asking her out though she do use my things but I don't feel it at all because I have a business I'm running.

But early this week, she told me boldly that she has showed me every signs that she loves me for more than 5 months but I did not do anything. Then I told her that I noticed it but I can't do anything because she has a lot of guys already and I don't like girls like that. So the following day I asked her out but told her there is this particular guy that she is very close to, that I want her to choose among us. So she told me that he is just a friend.

For the past 3 days now, she has been lying to me and I know everything because my guys in her hostel do update me, even till this morning, the guy came to her house and slept overnight but she denied it. So I shocked her this morning and visit her and met the guy in her room only on briefs but she was accusing me and defending the guy in my presence.

After 30 minutes, she came to my place and started lying to me again that there is nothing, but I told her it is okay. But within me, I'm not feeling okay because this is the first time of loving a girl. She knew I am naive about anything relationship.

I will really appreciate advise because I've been simping too much. Within this months alone, I've given her more than 10k but she has never let me taste her food before.

Please I don't know what to do and how to handle her