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Alero3Arubi:
I know someone who had this problem but he went to God in prayer and faith and today he has kids now.

This though!

I don't even want my wife to bear my name. She is so very free to keep her father's name. Who change of name help?

Mackson01:
I can't believe somebody will build a pen of 2000 capacity and not know where to get good breed to stock. Mr Jero 247 , that your story is too fabulous and cannot be true. To build a 2000 capacity piggery, you will invest 20m. You don't know anything about piggery.

I support you. My dad's piggery has 12rooms. He started with like 20 piglets and he spent close to 400k setting it up, both a structure and getting it stocked up and over time it has grown and he is thinking of expanding.

contactmorak:
Thanks for this post i love the business and if i have no other source of income, i would definitely choose pig farming. But for busy individuals like us, can u let someone manage it for u without being cheated? Pls i need answers.

Definitely, but get an expert... Food rationing is the most essential. They have to be fed with the right formula of PKC, Brewery waste, Fish meal, Kuli Kuli and the likes. Then adequate preparation must be made for waste disposal. Pigs are indeed very dirty and messy trust me.

Pig farming is very nice. My dad has been running one for close to 4years and I must say its rigorous, stressful, pigs are destructive also but its been paying the bills pretty well. Its indeed a very nice thing to venture into with just a not too expensive capital.

DzTzl:
Happy birthday sir, so we be same birthday mate

Happy Birthday

Bolustic:
I'm so sure of it.

Donald Trump is America's next President come November.

See the seemingly unceasing terror attacks in Germany and France is a vindication on Trump's stance on some important national issues such as security and immigration.

Americans, unlike Nigerians don't vote sentiments.

Hillary is going nowhere, forget the propaganda of CNN

I totally agree with you. I don't see Clinton winning this election. Donald Trump do has what it takes coupled with all this terrorist attack everywhere again.

All in all. I think she needs mental evaluation. She needs a psychologist to attend to her. She is fast losing her mind thereby making her prone to different assertions calling everyone she meets evil or devilish. Sometimes people mis prioritize all in the name of love. Relationship needs emotional and psychological stability which she lacks. She thinks we all are evil for telling her the truth. May God help her delusional state of mind.

So easy to tag every male evil or devil because you met someone on here who broke your heart. Maybe you don't know so many people met here and are doing just fine. I just think before you can love anyone, you have to love yourself first. Before you can make others happy, make yourself happy first. Life is just too short and there is really nothing to be proud of in that you can't feel or show emotions. I believe everyone deserves the best.
There is much to life than all these unnecessary thread creations. Be yourself and you would be surprised at how much love you would find. Live well, Love truly, forgive easily, forget quickly. Life just doesn't get better than that.

SAINTSAMURAII:
Nice piece, but what i dont agree with you is when you said, man's constant race of how to please the world with material things is how man was created. That is not how man was created.

Not really. I meant men would always desire all the good things of life. They would always want to stay in charge...

Choice is a very complicated issue. It is marred with things like love, lust and desires. Economists tells us man is rational in his thinking, reason why men boost their cars, buy material things and boast how beautiful their wives and girlfriends are just to impress the world. Man is actually selfish and designed to have this insatiable appetite for the good things of life. Men always prefer to satisfy their curiosity first when it come to the issue of choice. It is men nativism, men’s peacock. It is the way men were created; the testosterone is always entirely different from the oestrogen. Men would always want to be in charge.
I am sure the ability to dissect a cadaver is different from the ability to choose a wife. The ability to treat malaria right is different from the ability to treat a man well at home. That she is a fantastic singer in the choir doesn’t mean you would sing the same tune at home. The idea of a sexy skimpy nurse or a doctor hanging a stethoscope on the neck remains in the fantasy world.
That she is a good paediatrician does not mean she would be a good mother. You marry a woman or a man who happens to be a doctor, a nurse or a chorister and not the other way round. She is a man or a woman simply first before she became all of those. We have to face the reality that there are so many things to be considered before making our choices.
The questions of would she be a good mom or dad when I marry her should always arise? Would he or she help in the planning of my finances? Would he or she be willing to accept all of my families and friends without thinking them demanding? When life has dealt you a blow, would he or she be your only compensation in this world? When you are sad or you have problem at work, would he or she be willing to console you and always be there for you? When things actually go bad, would she stand by you?
See all these questions have nothing to do with novocaine, acetaminophen or stethoscope. When life has dealt you a big blow, the novocaine, acetaminophen, and the stethoscope would do absolutely nothing. Making these choices has nothing to do with the kind of profession him or her practices.
Of a truth, the physical attraction is very important in the course of making the choice of a partner. The things or the questions that appeal to men might simply be, does she have well-proportioned boobs? Is the yansh so moderate? Are the legs so cute and straight? Is the stomach so fat or very slim? For a woman, it might be: does he have money? Does he have the gang beard that makes him look attractive? All these questions might arise in the course of making a choice but we have to understand that all these lie in the fantasy world.
The syndrome you are suffering from is what I call the vanity-love conundrum. Love is actually very important in the course of choosing a partner. Beauty is vanity. You don’t brawl at someone you love; you don’t get emotionally abusive when you are with your loved ones. When the pain begin to show, you would arise at one of Solomon’s fast deduction that beauty is vanity.
These are one of those things young Nigerian men and women scoffs at. I know there is a common saying, you can marry anybody you like, but common sense should tell us not to stake our futures on the pedestals. You don’t just go about and marry anyone, you make certain big decisions. Forget all the noise in the society that marriage is compulsory, if your own destiny is to keep sleeping around, get on with it. But the reality is don’t ever claim to love someone just in a quest to get down with him or her, make your through intentions known and leave them to make their choices and decisions. Love should not be selfish, love should give willingly, and it should be sacred.
And we should remember there are certain things love would simply not do. Sometimes material things are also important. I remember a twitter poll I conducted some months back in the course of the publication of one of my article in a magazine. I asked some few girls which they would rather choose between love and money. I have some few answers.
Me: which would you prefer in the course of a relationship, money or love?
Girl 1: I would prefer money to love.
Me: why?
Girl 1: Love is evasive, money is realistic.
Me: so from your own personal experience, which have you always regarded first?
Girl 1: I have always chosen money first and I would always choose money all over again because the truth is love might fade but my account would keep bouncing. Reality I must say, that’s her own choice.
Girl 2: I would always choose love.
Me: why?
Girl 2: love is actually a good feeling when it is real. Money might go away but the love I have for my partner would be what would keep us stronger. That’s another deep reality.
Personally, in my own humble opinion, I would prefer smart, intelligent, rich, cute legs, flat stomached young lady. The love would happen over time please. The most important thing is we should be willing to stand by our decisions and choices.
Many variant for a guy;
Should I marry Okiki, the young Harvard and J.F Kennedy graduate or should I marry Charity?
Should I marry Toyosi, the daughter of the multi billionaire oil magnate or should I marry Charity?
It might also be should I marry the popular Linda Ikeji, the successful blogger or should I marry Charity?

For a girl it might be;
Should I marry Davido, the beautiful singer or should I marry my most loving Gbotemi?
Should I marry Femi, the popular Neuro surgeon or should I marry my most loving Gbotemi?
It might be should I marry Rotimi the cute millionaire pilot or should I marry my most loving Gbotemi?
Choice is actually very complicated. It is indeed a very big thing. Learn to choose wisely.


This is simply the authors view. Thanks

Nice..

hardbody:
Not sure you know Lagos that much. All the areas mentioned are cool and honestly VI is overrated. Check it out when it rains.

As for me, give me gbagada any day. Most central for entry and exit to any part of Lagos or even out of Lag

I so agree with you. I stay at Gbagada and you sure can link any part of Lagos from there easily. It is like centre for exit into the mainland, island and even outside of Lagos.

I'm from Osun State... But have visited the following states
Ondo
Ogun
Oyo
Ekiti
Lagos(residence)
Edo
Delta
Anambra
Enugu
Ebonyi
Imo
Rivers
Bayelsa
Cross River
Abuja
Kwara
Kogi
Benin Republic and Ivory coast for examinations.

tosyne2much:
Nice pix/outfit bro

#no-homo#

Thanks man... I feel loved.

mizzbouqui:
Han han, emi nikan tan see as you bombarded me with questions okay o none of the above

Ok thanks! You just look like someone I use to know at JABU... I even sent a pm already. Ignore it anyways. Thanks

mizzbouqui:
@ op lemme see you pics then I will take what you are saying seriously, I want to be sure you are not guilty of what you post ni oo

Are you a student of JABU? Or did you finish from JABU(Accounting)? Do you reside in Abuja also and are you from Ekiti state? You look so familiar.

curvysola:
all you know is big ass, big ass

like yours. You are curvy indeed and what a nice ass you've got

Up Portugal. Fucking Ronaldo got the trophy... Haters can beef his glory and fade like story.

Who cares. Personally, I prefer she retains her father's name. I don't have any issue with whatever name she decides to bear.

May the souls of the Victims of the July 10, 1999 OAU Massacre find absolute peace.

Well voting for a female candidate isn't even the big deal. If she has the personality and the necessary thing needed for the job, I would personal be her campaign manager and try to raise campaign funds for her.
But all in all, ladies are actually each others enemies, I won't be surprised if chunks of her gender don't vote for her. Ladies have this personality of beefing herself.
I believe voting shouldn't be gender based, that's lopsided, it should be based on good manifesto and how effectively she can deliver, because the truth is ladies in politics and government this days are more corrupt than their male counterpart.

So if in case there is a female candidate, let her come out and she might probably get the necessary back up for her campaign provided she lays down good and tangible points of why she deserves the support and the votes. Its not like the male SUG presidents are any better...

curvysola:
i don't even know what to say to you! SO SORRY

Whao you are perfectly so beautiful... Can I know you please?

Dething:
Can you imagine our African religious mind? Must we always add religion to everything? People please plan, anything can happen. No one is praying for death though.

Don't mind their foolish thinking. Like prayer stops us from dying. Prayer only prolongs our date date. Its good to plan ahead. My mom knows my atm pin in case anything happens to me. Its just precautionary measure... I don't have power over death... No one does!

DY20:
Amen to your prayer sir.. But I don't think my thinking is devilish. In stead, see me as a young man that is thinking of the wellness of his family in case he dies. If such thinking is annoying and devilish, then why do people write wills.

Don't mind him... Its not a devilish thinking. My Dad is my next of kin. Same thing happened when my elder sister died. She had close to 150k in her account and my mum was her next of kin.
We went to bank simply, we were told to produce death certificate and see a lawyer who would put us through the process and a valid identification for my mom which was done. The bank would give a form to fill also and ask other personal details...
The lawyer charged us just #6,000. And all of the stuffs the bank asked for was presented including death certificate and valid identification for my mom with a valid signed note from an high court magistrate.
It was a rigorous process because I handled it myself but I had a friend who works with the bank and he helped facilitate the process.
The lawyer would take you to court where questions would be asked from you and after that, your money would be given to you. The bank would remove a 10percent deduction though.

I hope have helped with my own personal encounter.

olive282:
Cute guys...i want to hav twins ah swear

Oya come, let's make our own identical quadruplets...

Maturity has nothing to do with age... But personally I prefer to date someone way older than me. I connect with them better. Though am still looking for one.