Health › Re: Oyo To Begin 2,000 Tests Per Day, 10,000 In A Few Days To Determine Lockdown by ayoolakj(m): 7:51am On Apr 15, 2020 |
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Family › Re: Married But I'm Not Connected With My Husband, Hence I'm Depressed by ayoolakj(m): 10:51pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
You need to pray for deliverance from the spirit of hatred. quote author=Girlwhocares post=86853372]Please help me, I'm loosing my sanity everyday! I'm scared to open up to friends and families because of what they will think or how disappointed or bad I will make them feel, also I'm afraid people will be judgemental about my actions.
I'm not physically and emotional connected with my husband which is affecting our marriage and my well-being, we live as co-tenant, we hardly have any conversation, we do things differently, we share different rooms, no sex for the past 3 years! Even during courtship and the fist two years of marriage I can account for days we were intimate.
Things are fallen out of place everyday, we have a child together who will be 4yrs and the thought of having another child has not crossed my mind.
I get irritated at everything, I hardly show appreciation towards him even if it means he has done his best, which later i will find myself guilty and try to make up but the spark and connection isn't just there.
Most times, I have a non-challant attitude towards him and everything he does to make me happy.
I feel lonely, bored and incomplete even when I'm 90% sure my husband loves me and always ready to make me happy.
I feel awkward communicating my feelings and thoughts to him because I know I might flare up with anger even when he hasn't done or said anything to warrant it.
Please I have come to this faceless forum to pour out my mind, my heart is heavy, I need someone to talk to, I'm afraid my personal intention of walking out this marriage even when my husband hasn't done anything to deserve this might backfire and has its negative effect on our child.
I honestly don't need anyone to insult me please as I'm going through a lot. All i need is mature married wo(men) opinions
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Career › Re: Should I Drop A Bank Job For A Federal Job? by ayoolakj(m): 8:09pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
Topsydo: Good morning all, please I need your advice on this, I am a recent graduate of polytechnic and I have complete my Nysc and currently I have been offered a job as a contract staff of access bank with 85k per month and now I have been shortlisted for an interview in a federal university for d post of technologist at the ICT centre of d sch, now I am confused on what to do maybe to attend the interview and drop the banking job I just got not up to a month.
As a HND holder how much will I be paid and I was told I won't be able to go further until I spent a certain years.
Please I need Ur advice . Please without hesitation, go for the interview. |
Celebrities › Re: Tonto Dikeh Remembers Her Mother, 30 Years After Her Death by ayoolakj(m): 12:00pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
RIP |
Celebrities › Re: Davido Remembers His Mother, Veronica Adeleke, 16 Years After Her Death (Photo) by ayoolakj(m): 11:55am On Sep 10, 2019 |
RIP |
Celebrities › Re: Davido Remembers His Mother, Veronica Adeleke, 16 Years After Her Death (Photo) by ayoolakj(m): 11:52am On Sep 10, 2019 |
[ Rest in perfect peace mama. quote author=EtihadAirways post=82093456]This woman fine oo. Is she related to MJ?
RIP[/quote] |
Romance › Re: "If A Man Can Have 4 Wives, A Woman Can Also Have 4 Husbands" - Nigerian Lady by ayoolakj(m): 10:22am On May 20, 2019 |
IamD18: Padlock wey many keys dey open is very very useless, but key wey dey open many padlocks will always be seen as a master key.
Use your head! Madness! |
Sports › Re: OOU student dies in a stampede during Barca vs Liverpool match (photos) by ayoolakj(m): 7:41am On May 09, 2019 |
[Rest in perfect peace. A first class 200 Level Architecture student of the Olabisi Onabanjo University, Ibogun campus, Ogun State, has died in a stampede that occurred, yesterday, during the Champions League match between Liverpool and Barcelona. The stampede occurred at a viewing center after a student felt something crawling on his leg and, thinking it was a snake, raised a false alarm which made everyone take to their heels. The rush to exit the place led to the injury of over 40 students and the death of Gbenga Olukoyi, who allegedly gave up the ghost after being rushed to a hospital where he was rejected him due to the inability of those who took him there to make initial deposit. Source: https://www.mediahelm.com.ng/2019/05/oou-student-dies-in-stampede-during.htmlL[/quote] |
Christianity Etc › Re: Ten Years After Biodun Kumuyi: How Time Flies! by ayoolakj(m): 11:20pm On Apr 21, 2019 |
[May your soul rest in peacequote author=JusticeSeeker post=77730110]This woman is a woman of God. She feared God as her creator when she was alive. Rest on Ma.[/quote] |
Crime › Re: I Killed My Wife Because She Planned To Remarry After My Death by ayoolakj(m): 11:16pm On Apr 21, 2019 |
Very unfortunate ikewaterwater: A Nigerian man who was arrested by the Niger State Police Command after he killed his wife, has disclosed that he committed the said act because she planned to re-marry after his death. The suspect identified as Uwani Danjuma, reportedly killed his wife with a cutlass in Uddu, Niger. According to him, his wife had told him, when he was sick, weeks earlier, that if he dies, she will re-marry another man. The man who killed his wife while she was sleeping and further disclosed that he did it because she planned to re-marry after his death, said;
“I can’t imagine my own wife telling me that if I died, she will remarry. I lost my temper and inflicted injuries on her neck with matchete which led to her death.I am not regretting killing her since she wanted me to die. I killed her so that she will not remarry. She should not have said that to my hearing, there is power in the spoken words; so let her go. Allah will send her to hell fire for that unguarded comment.”
https://unclesuru.com/2019/04/21/i-killed-my-wife-because-she-planned-to-re-marry-after-my-death-husband/ |
Politics › Re: Bishop Wale Oke: Osinbajo Is The Light In The Midst Of Darkness In Aso Villa by ayoolakj(m): 11:09pm On Apr 21, 2019 |
joshuisiukwu: Bishop Wale Oke Founder of Christ Life Church in an interview, stated that Vice President Yemi Osinbajo is the light in the midst of darkness in Aso Villa. According to Bishop Wale Oke, Osinbajo is the light in the midst of darkness in Aso Villa because he’s been there for four years without any scandal.
“The point is it is easy to criticise. A lot of people don’t know the role that man is playing there. He is the ‘sole light’ in the midst of darkness in Aso Villa and he is doing his best”.
The cleric added, “On a personal level, he’s been there for four years without any scandal. He has carried himself with poise and dignity. His grasp of national issues, the analysis, the confidence with which he speaks, oh come on!
“Church, wake up and celebrate your hero and champion. On the two occasions on which he has acted as President, everybody knew everything was different. What else do you want him to do? He is not the President. There is a limit to the role of the vice president.
“He and the president are close because the President has found him trustworthy. We’ve had issues in this nation before where governor and deputy governor would be at each other’s throat.
“It was the same with the President and Vice President such that rather than getting busy with the administration of the country, they would be creating distraction. We don’t have that now. The man just wants to serve the nation. I give him kudos.”
https://unclesuru.com/2019/04/21/osinbajo-is-the-light-in-the-midst-of-darkness-in-aso-villa-bishop-wale-oke/
Exactly! |
Politics › Re: Bishop Wale Oke: Osinbajo Is The Light In The Midst Of Darkness In Aso Villa by ayoolakj(m): 10:59pm On Apr 21, 2019 |
Exactly |
Health › Re: Burial Of Man, 2 Daughters Who Died After Taking Traditional Medicine In Anambra by ayoolakj(m): 11:01pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
So painful |