₦airaland Forum

Mariangeles:
What are you afraid of?

Do the damn court marriage and stop complicating matters!
After all, the court marriage is the middle ground between you two.

Someone wanted to harm herself, just to marry you, but you're finding it difficult to "sacrifice" marrying her legally. 🙄

I think he is not sincere with himself. Why is he scared of court wedding?

FreeStuffsNG:
Only unfortunate unpatriotic elements doubt that such operations are held jointly with Nigeria.

The US apparently want to keep the military assets used for the particular operation under their own control just like when they bombed Iran on behalf of their proxy in the middle east.

Trump is hyping as usual, it's more symbolic than any significant military success. Nigeria is too large and the cost of such operations will be too expensive for US to sustain.

Nothing really significant and nothing powerful and lethal. Just to bomb small parts of a forest in Sokoto when there are multiple forests in Sokoto and thousands of forests in just NW geopolitical zone in Nigeria. Sokoto state alone is bigger than Israel and Gaza Palestine combined.

The most important task will be undertaken by our armed forces who combine all the intelligence along with internal policing. Patriotic Nigerians will support our armed forces that are more effective than failed multiple US bombings in Gaza and Afghanistan.

To fly one or two aeroplane and drop bomb is the easy part. Ground operation with boots on the ground is where the big deal is and US cannot do that because their soldiers will get killed.

Please shut up. You don't know anything, you are just blabbing

press9jatv:
Malami looted the treasury under buhari government no be small. Buhari too is a clueless dullard. Na were*y he be . More pictures

Very clueless but his minions want us to say only nice things about him.

AllBlack:
they want to do EYE SERVICE for uncle Donald

Rubbish country, disgraced country. Tinubu has brought nothing but bad luck to Nigeria, yet he still wants to contest 2027. Talk about the greed of Gehazi

Why a court hearing? Just sentence him to the maximum punishment

Well this is Nigeria where anything goes. Please leave her alone.

AndroBlaze:
I wonder how extreme poverty will ever end in the North, when their ruling class always insists on marrying themselves. Funny people.

It's a common practice everywhere in the world

Godfullsam:
The price of food items really dropped this year. My sympathy goes to those who did beans storage business.

I can attest to this fact. Maybe due to falling price of fuel and dollar rate fall

Zocalite:
Sebi tinubu isn't Fulani and he condemned Deborah killing that's why you want him to continue

So tinubu can continue in your life not nigeria again

I said what I said. I am not a Tinubu supporter neither am I Yoruba or Hausa or igbo before you profile me based on tribe. I just want a sane country where human life matter

Zocalite:
You said tinubu should continue instead of Atiku, I quickly personalise it for you and your family and that's how it will be

Is Atiku fulani murderer, is he the one ruling now

You don't know anything

You think he will behave differently if he becomes president? A Fulani man is always a Fulani man. The killings won't stop if atiku becomes president. He never condemned any Christian killing not even Deborah's death. Goat

Zocalite:
This kind of tinubu, and what he brings will continue in your life and family

This kind of Fulani murderers will also continue in your life and that of all your families. Ewu Gambia

olaiya2007:
If this man becomes president, it will be a field day for all these bandits and Islamic extremist

Better for Tinubu to continue than for atiku to win. Bloody Fulani psychopath

Samantha125:
Maybe for your wife and other ladies, but not for some of us.

I totally understand you, we should do what we believe in not what people say or do. Our actions should be based on our personal convictions and personal philosophy about relationships and how they should go.

Samantha125:
Well, I preferred not to take that risk, but still got married afterwards.

It's a risk worth taking though but with caution.

Samantha125:
Every guy would claim to have good intentions and promise the lady marriage even if he just wants to do a hit and run.

Well I will speak for myself, I did marry her. It's a risk, you either win or loose

Samantha125:
Cohabitation is when the couple is living together unmarried, we never did lived together.

It had nothing to do with any religious belief, my family just didn't permit it... My father is very overprotective of his daughters.

I think it's just a period of spending time with your partner where U have to spend the night in his house. It doesn't matter it it's few days or weeks or months. I don't think there is a time duration to it. I know fathers are over protective of their daughters and rightly so. It's not entirely bad especially if the guy is a good person with good intentions and is working and can take care of you and has plans to marry you genuinely

Samantha125:
But I just told you I was visiting him...🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️... And who would've attended my lectures had I stayed in his place for a whole week?

Would you have expected me to abandon my education for a man?

It's still cohabiting, and it helps alot. I am trying to point to the fact that cohabiting no matter how short the period is helps alot in knowing who we want to marry and it exposes some hidden characters which can help one make decision for or against marrying such.
You can set ground rules if Ur religious beliefs doesn't permit it. Like no sex during that period of stay, because I know that's the biggest concern for ladies about cohabiting

derecho:
That doesn't worry the electorates. If INEC conducts a Free, Fair and credible election, APC and T-shame won't get up to 1 million votes across Nigeria

Nigerians are smarter now

Even with majority of states forced to join APC, it doesn't translate to a landslide victory in the presidential polls. If they are confident about their popularity among the Nigerian masses they should try free and fair elections in 2027. Fools

Samantha125:
I'd rather be immatured than a blockhead who easily gives herself away to be used without any guarantees of being upgraded into a worthy wife.

Even if my man stayed in the city nearby, I'd still visit him and not move in with him... And why would I move in with him when I had a comfortable accommodation that my parents were paying for?

Not moving, like spending weekends. Or say one week. Unless U don't love him enough. It's not about what Ur parents can afford to give u. U can't stay with them forever. Those few times U spend with Ur potential spouse can unravel some traits U both will be glad U saw which will help U make a rational decision weda to marry them or not. No one said U should engage in intimate things while staying there. It should be Ur choices. U have to take some certain risks in life.

Samantha125:
In my family, you do, else you'll have my father to deal with.

You are not matured enough then. most cohabitation happens during university days, let's say Ur man stays in a near by city where he works. I am not saying date Ur fellow undergraduate o. Date someone older and working class not fraudsters or jobless men

zeyt:
curiosly the killing has subsided across the board. Everything that was happening is delibrate and calculated.

Those bandits are government children. Our politicians are evil

helinues:
If you start your relationship with friendship, then cohabiting should be easy

During the friendship process, you should be able to know if the person is someone you can cohabit with. If you stick with your love map, anything from 60% should be okay

We used to be role model to other couples during end of tertiary. We no dey get any issue as we both understand each other. God bless the lady wherever she is

Why didn't U marry her? How can you cohabit for more than 6 months and not marry the lady?

phemmie06:
No, I don't do that. Why should you when you are not married to her?

Life is not black and white. Besides if you have a well defined purpose and goal for the relationship, cohabiting is not bad

Samantha125:
I never did cohabited with my husband before getting married, I'd just visit and come back home.

I wasn't going to perform any full time wifely duties when I wasn't married and my family is against it.

It's not something you do with your family's consent or knowledge.

dawnomike:
I see no need for that whatsoever.

You don't know much about that. It has more positives than negatives

If it's Benin republic now they will send fighter jets and bomb them. Why won't you send fighter jets to bomb these dare devils.

Putindbutt:
Nnamdi Cownu is among the 860 convicted terrorists. As a matter of fact, he's the number 860, the latest convict in Sokoto prison. May God bless Nigeria.

God will punish you and your entire generation. What a wuss