₦airaland Forum

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oya where iron condemn people...over to u

him hide am before

na donkey the best man go use ooo

na white socks she wear so

It always hurts when long-term relationships end. The more we see this
person as being the right match for us and the more we picture our futures
with them, the more we expected things to work out.
When we realize the future we once pictured suddenly doesn’t exist
anymore, our sense of heartache and disappointment runs deep.
Reflecting on these painful breakups, we try to figure out why things didn’t
work out, whether there were any red flags we overlooked or what we might
have done differently.
We might determine the other party was afraid of commitment, was always
angry over trivial things or think, “If I had just opened up more, maybe he or
she would have stuck around.”
Sometimes, we have trouble moving on from the relationships we’ve
invested so much time and effort into. We replay the breakup in our minds
over and over again.
We remember what he or she was wearing, the way he or she smelled, the
words he or she spoke and the color of the curtains in the living room. The
memories are so vivid, we begin fantasizing how it could have turned out
differently.
The most brutal moments are when we see he or she defriended us on
Facebook or changed his or her profile picture to one with a new significant
other.
We become obsessed, even a bit possessive. Though we know the
relationship wasn’t right in the end, it still hurts to see the other person
move on. It’s hard to see him or her touching and holding someone new.
We may question, “Why isn’t it me? What does s/he have that I don’t?”
We convince ourselves the breakup is temporary. That this new girlfriend or
boyfriend is just a fleeting romance, a rebound to get over you. We know if
we reached out, he or she would take us back in a heartbeat. We think, “S/
he loves me. Not this other person.”
Maybe they’re just doing this to get back at me, to make me jealous. You
find it difficult to accept the reality of the situation. You can’t imagine your
life without this person.
When the reality of the situation starts to creep in and the pain of the
breakup emerges, we deflect those intense feelings and replace them with a
far easier emotion: anger.
We think of all the annoying traits of the other person: how he snored in
his sleep, how she smacked her gum or how he never separated whites
from darks.
We chew on the wrongdoings, like that one time he forgot your mom’s
birthday or that time she flirted with another guy at the bar. We start
feeling resentful toward the other person.
Maybe we gave up certain opportunities to be with him or her, like turning
down a job in a new city or not going on that around-the-world trip that
was always a dream to take.
Maybe we’re just resentful toward him or her because now, our hearts are in
a million little pieces.
Through the anger, we start making deals with the outside world. We
promise to be better, more attentive partners if we could just get a second
chance. We’ll do anything to postpone the inevitable and to make the
heartbreak and loneliness go away.
When we realize no amount of bargaining will help us, we begin to
bury ourselves in depression. We hide underneath the covers, refusing to
come out of our rooms for days on end.
Pizza boxes, Chinese takeout containers and cartons of Ben & Jerry’s ice
cream litters every square inch of our apartment. We watch “Dirty Dancing,”
“Sleepless in Seattle” and “When Harry Met Sally” over and over to reignite
our belief that true love does exist.
We’ve gone through boxes of tissues, wiping away the endless tears and
the snot dripping from our noses. We wonder if we’ll ever move on. All we
want is for someone to give us a hug and tell us everything will be okay, or
for someone to buy us a few beers to drink the sorrow away.
As the days stretch into weeks and weeks into months, we start finding
ways to cope. We reconnect with the friends we neglected during our
relationship. Maybe we even find ourselves journaling, trying to make sense
of everything that happened so we can start healing.
We start pursuing new goals, anything to distract us from the heartbreak
and disappointment. Maybe we train for a marathon, buy a kayak or take a
feng shui class.
We do anything unrelated to our past relationship. This reminds us that we
have interests and goals outside of the person we spent so much of our
time with. In a sense, we rediscover our identities and we begin to
recognize there is life beyond the breakup.
Without really having known how we got there, we reach a level of
acceptance. We let go of the need to know and find ourselves, and no
longer gnaw over the “whys” and the “ifs.”
At times, it felt like we would never get here. Though there may still be a
lingering sadness, we are making a conscious effort to move forward with
our lives. Maybe we’ll even start dating again.
They say time heals all wounds, but time just makes it easier to endure the
pain. The breakup stings a little bit less as each day, month and year
passes.
Eventually, we do move on with our lives. We find someone else, we marry
him or her, we have children together. But, we never forget the ones we’ve
shared our deepest vulnerabilities with and given our hearts to with reckless
abandon.
No, we never truly get over them. We carry them with us, always. Because
through the heartbreak and disappointment, they demanded we re-examine
our lives, do a little self-reflection and become better versions of ourselves,
so someone else may love us completely.

so na only Zimbabwe president daughter go school

A scandal appears to be brewing in the All Progressives Congress over an
allegation that party leaders in Delta State, alongside the national leadership
of the party, corruptly substituted the name of one of APC’s candidates for
the elections, claiming he was dead.
The affected candidate, Christopher Anirah, has accused some leaders of the
party, including the National Chairman, John Oyegun, and the party’s
governorship candidate in Delta state, Otega Emerhor, of conspiring to fake
his death.
Mr. Anirah, who was returned winner of the Sapele/Okpe/Uwvie Federal
Constituency APC primary held December 7, 2014, said the APC leaders faked
his death to substitute his name with another member of the party, Gibson
Akporehe.
PREMIUM TIMES has obtained correspondences purportedly from the party at
different levels leading up to Mr. Oyegun, despatched to the Independent
National Electoral Commission, INEC, resulting in Mr. Anirah’s substitution.
The party in Delta State claimed Mr. Anirah was dead, and within 24 hours of
his purported passing, obtained a death certificate, a court affidavit, and
began despatching letters to effect his substitution.
When Mr. Anirah confronted INEC and asked that his name be reinstated, the
electoral body demanded a letter from Mr. Oyegun to nullify the first. The
letter was never despatched.
At least one official told PREMIUM TIMES his signature was forged for the
scam
.
Contacted Friday, Mr. Oyegun declined to comment on the case. The APC
chairman told PREMIUM TIMES he had too much to do as a soon-to-be
ruling party chairman than responding to “allegations of somebody I have
never seen in my life”.
But altogether, documents obtained by this newspaper and interviews with
party officials, paint a troubling picture of a shocking fraud.
On March 27, the office of the secretary to the Independent National Electoral
Commission despatched a letter to the resident electoral commission
directing that Mr. Anirah’s name be replaced with Mr. Akporehe based on the
former’s purported death.
A copy of the March 27 INEC letter, with reference number INEC/LEG/
LM/27T/10/87 signed by Ibrahim Bawa, acting Director of INEC’s Legal unit,
was obtained by PREMIUM TIMES.
The letter indicated that INEC was acting in compliance with APC’s request,
even though Mr. Anirah said he had gone to the commission before to
dispute the claim of his death.
Meanwhile, a letter, dated January 20 with reference number APC/NHDQ/
INEC/19/015/108 bearing Mr. Oyegun’s name and signature was received by
INEC on January 23, informing the electoral body of the purported death of
Mr. Anirah, thereby asking the commission to replace his name with Mr.
Akporehe’s.
The January 20 letter had as attachments a “death certificate” of Mr. Anirah;
and a January 15 letter bearing the name and alleged signature of Delta APC
Secretary stating Mr. Anirah’s death and that he be replaced with Mr.
Akporehe.
Other attachments included a notification of death letter to the Delta APC
chairman bearing the name and signature of Odibo Anirah, purportedly the
head of the Anirah family; and an affidavit of death bearing Chidi Okonji as
deponent.
Curiously, both the Notification of Death letter purportedly by Mr. Anirah’s
family head and the death affidavit purportedly deposed to by Mr. Okonji
were dated January 15, same day the state chapter of the party forwarded
“Substitution of a Dead Candidate” letter to Mr. Oyegun.
That means those processes were completed just 24 hours after the
purported death.
Mr. Anirah, declared dead allegedly by the party, said there was nobody with
the name Odibo Anirah in his family.
As if to back his claim, the two telephone numbers on the “Notification of
Death” letter supposedly belonging to the purported family head, led to
people who knew nothing about the case.
While one of the numbers was not reachable, the other was answered by a
man who said he was Mohammed from Nasarawa State.
When contacted, the Delta APC Secretary, Mr. Okonji, denied knowledge of
the letters. He said the signatures following his name on the documents
were forged.
A source in the party accused the Vice-Chairman of APC in Delta State, Cyril
Ogodo, as the brain behind the forged documents. PREMIUM TIMES could
not independently verify that claim. Mr. Ogodo could not be reached.
But Mr. Anirah, the “dead candidate”, said it was Mr. Otega, the leader of the
party in the state, who started parading Mr. Akporehe as the candidate of
APC for Sapele/Okpe/Uwvie Federal Constituency.
Mr. Anirah said after he was informed of Mr. Odigie’s letter to INEC,
informing the Commission of his alleged death and that he be replaced, he
wrote to INEC Chairman, Attahiru Jega, on February 4 that he was alive.
“Then INEC demanded that Chief John Oyegun should write a letter revoking
the death substitution letter but he refused,” Mr Anirah said in an April 4
letter to the President-elect Muhammadu Buhari.
“Surprisingly, on March 27, Cyril Ogodo the deputy state chairman and Gibson
Akporehe now conspired to write death certificate letter that I am dead and
should be substituted with Gibson Akporehe. They now mounted pressure on
INEC since Chief Oyegun has not written a revocation letter, INEC was
compelled to substitute me.”
“Sir, I am on knees appealing to your good office to ask INEC to revoke the
substitution letter since I am still alive,” he urged Mr. Buhari.
“The election has come and gone and APC did not even win the election in
my constituency,” he said. “What I want is justice because if these people
succeed it could be another person’s turn tomorrow. The world should know
that I’m not dead, I am alive. It’s just some people in APC that want me
dead, and if anything happens to me and my family, they should be held
responsible.”
Mr. Anirah said his efforts to effect the arrest of Mr. Oyegun by police had
been futile because this is a country where people like Mr. Oyegun are bigger
than the law.

men sucking cancer out from bosom since the time of Adam

abeg show us their graphic pics love seeing them graphically

na their way be that..... arguing foolishly

make their landlord check his genotype too

Ahmeduana:
IS IT OKPRO OR OKRO?

na yoluba language no blame her biko

smelling iru..

holatin:
why not pity your dad for fathering a brainless twerp like you.

is he d cause of the roadblock, instead of you to address the militant ungodly behaviour, you are here typing trash.
abeg gerrout

this one wey wetin him talk pain u like this, u sure say u no be hausa boy so

make rain touch u for road u go know say ankara dey wash

wetin them still dey do for the yeye village na make them pack na

ndidi andrew nis000000109421

help me to check

scary though!!! but awesome

chai.... bucket wey we take dey cook for bush those days for hostel

have seen my result before n wrote again hope it doesnt have a negative effect

peeps i just did my exam about 20 mins ago and submitted it showed successful but couldnt see my result ooooo.... but site no gree open again o... hope my own go count?

hamjoe:
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It has not been resolved.

that na the mumu talk na..

na plane go jam all faan officials....nonsense

FAAN PEOPLE DEY MAD

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their response ooo

the poo aint opening joorr

freshyabstel:
can we go to faan office to write the test?

HOW U WAN TAKE DO AM.........I COULDNT LOGIN MYSELF OOOOO

kaydkay:
The Funny thing is that the site opens very well but suddenly closes up when its some few minutes to the scheduled time.

What I think they should have done is to spread it over a period of 1 week so that there will be few people in each batch per hour.

Ayways mine is supposed to start 6.30pm and end 7.30pm today. The only way to do it is to stay in the office and just pray for the best that they would have gotten their acts together.

BROS THAT ONE NA STORY THAT TOUCHES OOO.... BETTER GO THEIR OFFICE GO WRITE WITH PENCIL AND PAPER AND FORGET THIS ONLINE POO

Rubbish wey them dey display



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chai!!!!! time's up

who know the magic code oooo