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Senseless skits. Why would you be dressed as a woman everytime just to make a skit?

Rubyjade:
Real Masculinity Builds, It Doesn’t Dominate.
Marriage isn’t a battle of power or survival. It’s a partnership. And while men do make mistakes in marriage — the real errors are often rooted in outdated thinking, pride, or fear. Let’s unpack this:

1. “A woman must love, a man must provide.”
False binary. Love and provision go both ways in a modern marriage. A woman can contribute. A man should show affection. Reducing relationships to transactions is why a lot of marriages feel like business contracts instead of emotional homes.

A man who only provides but doesn’t emotionally connect becomes a stranger in his own house.

And no — it’s not her job to chase you after marriage. If you stop pursuing your wife emotionally, someone else eventually might.

2. “You must always look like a god.”
Yes, personal hygiene and appearance matter — for both partners. But a healthy marriage allows space for comfort and vulnerability.
Looking good shouldn't be about fear of being left; it should be about self-respect and mutual attraction. If she’s only with you because of your beard oil and boxers, the problem is deeper than your look.

3. “You are the lord. Let her have a say, but have your way.”
Bro. That’s not strength — that’s domination disguised as leadership.

Real leadership listens.

Real men build with their wives, not over them.
Being decisive is good — being dismissive isn’t.

4. “She’s not a mind-reader.”
True. Communication matters. But it’s not just telling her what you want.
Try asking her what she needs, too. Love isn’t just about managing expectations — it’s about understanding and growing together.

5. “Women love conflict.”
No. They love connection. What looks like “random conflict” is often unmet needs or emotional disconnection.

Avoidance kills intimacy.

Mature couples face tough conversations together.
If you treat conflict as drama instead of dialogue, you’re missing the deeper issue.

6. “Prepare for the rainy day; never let your wife be the breadwinner.”
Prepare? YES.
Fear her success? NO.
If your masculinity collapses when your wife earns more, the issue is insecurity, not identity.

Strong men celebrate their partner’s wins.

Marriage is not a competition — it’s coverage. Some seasons you’ll earn more. Other seasons, she might. That’s life.

7. “She’s not your best friend.”
Why not?
If you can’t laugh, vent, dream, or be your full self with your wife — who are you even married to?
Friendship is the foundation of lasting love. You don’t lose your masculinity by being emotionally close — you lose it by being emotionally unavailable.

✨ FINAL WORD:
Real men lead, but they don’t lord.
They provide, but they also protect emotionally.
They pursue wisdom, not ego.
And they build with their wives, not just expect to be served by them.

We need less alpha performance, and more emotional maturity in marriages today.
You don’t lose your role by listening — you strengthen it.

Carry yourself commot. ITK. Naso una go dey give advice wey go turn man to beggar for him own house.

Boniface abeg fear God. Na double food you wan chop so

This guy has finally landed in hot water

Tulumbu, what about yahaya bello AKA white chicken

madridguy:
Go to Twitter and search for Bayo Bilisi, he was once like you until he realized LP was built on hate against his people. Search for him and see the wonderful job he is doing.

I have criticized BAT and his policies here more than you as a person.

Dey lie small small bros. Your last paragraph is one of the biggest lies I've seen on nairaland

Tinubu and Wike have done Rivers state dirty. E be like them wan give Hitech the contract

Black man and power. It mostly doesn't end well. Nigeria military needs a total revamp. There's too much corruption in there. Many soldiers have been detained for what they don't know about

Antichristian2:
Three year old?

Anyways Ondo people are the Yorubas that marry more from the Igbos.

In fact, Igbos dey mix wella with them! Very nice people!

But why kidnap a kid?

WTF did you just write? Ondo people can be quite rugged and rough. I've experienced ondo state and moved with ondo people. Nice ain't their strong quality. They marry people from South South a lot and not igbos. There is a difference between Igbo people and Niger delta people

Not far from the truth. Pastor dey speak from experience

Tired of this talk talk abeg. Tulumbu talk pass this one when he never enter

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SultanOfPuna:
A girl i was messing with asked me for 40k to add to her rent.
I promised her 40k since febuarry
So i decided to give her the money on tuesday this month
Only for me to visit her today and we gisting when she showed the new wig she bought.

She brought out one useless wig and told me she bought it for 100k

This is someone that begged me for 40k
How can somebody spend 100k on synthetic hair

Are women really dumb or what??

You sef you no try. Why would you give her 40k? It's too much for her. You for just slash and to 5k. Before I give any girl 2k sef, I dey analyze her social media first and see if she really deserves it . If the girl dey use iPhone, I no dey give shishi. If she be all these "we outside" people, I no dey give. Na only girl wey get sense I fit give money and no be say na big money sef. I prefer to spend on myself and family. Even if my babe ask for 20k, I dey slash am to like 5 or 6k. I'm not CBN

They have turned a street crook into a hero. Democrats sha. Propaganda machines. Baba wey be serial shop burglar and druggie. Make una dey play. The real racism is right here in Africa

RichBoy247:
When village pipu are after you, no matter what people tell you, you will want to jump inside fire.

Ehyah. Try to pray hard so that those village people won't disturb you again. You can meet VDM for special deliverance too

Zubby is always on hard drugs so I'm not surprised.

TimeManager:
You would have to tell us the section of the code of conduct where building an educational facility is a violation. We are aware that almost every security chiefs build schools or academic centers during their tenure, which is a major part of enhancing security through formal education.


-Kiss the truth!






Watery explanation, don't ask me to grab a copy, I asked you to provide the section where building a academic center violates code of conduct.


-Kiss the truth!

What are you always kissing? Too much colos ain't good for you

Fantastic write up

So United can win against Aston Villa. How did Spurs win the Europa League? Oh my God, spurs is definitely going to disgrace England in the UCL and super cup

Madness

Tulumbu never finish 4yrs, meat don finish. After 8yrs, egg sef go finish

Good one. Send them back to their villages. They shouldn't come here and be constituting nuisance

So you no chop any babe there

Correct 💯

Women love lies. If you tell them the truth, they won't like you

Stop calling it love bros. That's konji you're feeling but one thing I'll tell you is the lady would stop respecting you the moment you confess your feelings towards her. Then if she's a troublesome tenant, just know you have gotten a wicked landlady. only let her know your feelings after studying her properly and you can see that she's also showing green lights. If not, just jejely find babes outside to save yourself from future embarrassment.

Wtf is all this?

Bonga4:
See this one. Where is the lie? This is a true life event which definitely took place. Some people be ranting cats and dogs just because it's Tinubu’s son. They are just transferring their aggression to the boy for no other reason. Petty.

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Agbado man. Continue