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unzend:
Lagos Government just finding ways to harrass and embarass everyone.

Thank God I'm currently out of that place.

You were part of the people destroying Lagos. Thank God you left. Go and dump all your refuse in your village

TimeManager:
You need to define "insult". You don't even know what to type that will be characterized as insult.



-Kiss the truth!

The truth is tired of your kisses

busariabeyx24:
Why I Want to Separate from My Wife

Our relationship has become emotionally unsustainable for me, and after long periods of silence, inner conflict, and attempts to make things work, I have come to the difficult conclusion that separation is the healthiest path forward—for both of us. There are several deeply rooted issues that have contributed to this decision, and I believe it’s important to lay them out clearly.

1. Lack of Intimacy and Weaponization of Sex
Intimacy has all but vanished in our relationship. What’s more painful is that she uses sex as a tool—to control, punish, or manipulate. This has left me feeling undesired, unwanted, and emotionally abandoned. Intimacy is not just physical, it's also about connection, vulnerability, and shared closeness—and we have none of that left.

2. Emotional Abandonment and Loneliness
While she often chooses to go out and spend hours with her friends, I’m left alone in the house, feeling isolated and neglected. Even when we’re in the same space, we’re disconnected. Her priorities have shifted away from our relationship and family, and I feel like a ghost in my own home.

3. Neglect of Parental Responsibilities
Despite being a trained teacher, she makes no effort to support the children academically. Their homework, school needs, and learning challenges fall entirely on me, even though I’m also the primary provider. It hurts to watch our children miss out on guidance that she’s perfectly capable of giving.

4. Communication Breakdown
We barely talk. When we do, it's either transactional or tense. There's no emotional sharing, no joint planning, no meaningful conversation. We exist like two strangers under the same roof.

5. Disregard for My Input and Support
Time and again, I’ve offered her advice that could have helped her avoid unnecessary stress or mistakes, but she disregards me—only to later face the exact consequences I warned about. It feels like my voice has no value in her life.

6. Encouraging Poor Habits in the Kids
She not only neglects the kids’ school work, but she also encourages them to go to the next neighborhood to play or hang out—at times when they should be studying or resting. It undermines my efforts to instill discipline and focus in our children.

7. Lack of Respect for My Hustle
She shows no interest or concern in how I make money, the pressure I’m under, or the sacrifices I make to keep the family going. There’s no appreciation, no empathy, just entitlement and expectation. I feel invisible, like a machine that’s supposed to produce without rest or recognition.

8. Misplaced Priorities
Her life seems to revolve around eating, watching TV, and spending hours gossiping with friends. There’s little to no effort toward improving our household, our relationship, or our children’s future. That kind of passivity is damaging, not just for our marriage but for our family as a whole.

9. Manipulation by Friends
She allows her so-called friends to influence how she treats me, even to the point of disrespect. Rather than defending or standing by me as a partner, she lets their words shape her actions against me. This betrayal by proxy is incredibly painful.

10. Ongoing Emotional Disregard
As I write this, she has been outside gossiping with a friend for over three hours—leaving me inside, emotionally abandoned once again. This isn’t an isolated event; it’s a pattern. I’ve begged for her time, attention, and partnership, but she chooses others over and over again.

Why are you begging. Now that's where you finished yourself. When a woman starts misbehaving, sit her down and have a heart to heart talk. If she still proves stubborn, let her be. Move on and enjoy yourself. Move with friends as well and meet ladies. You better don't kill yourself. With time when she sees that you don't care anymore, she'll start chasing you again. Women usually love to chase and the more mysterious you are, the more she chases but many men still don't get the point. She might not have loved you enough sef before marriage. Maybe you begged her to marry you or family pressured her to settle for you

CrisNews:
My Girlfriend went for a wedding and posted pictures from the event and I notice she Tagged her Ex-Boyfriend on the Facebook Post. On Easter, yesterday she also tag him on her post!

Should I confront her because I feel like something is wrong somewhere?

Advise me on what to do please

She wants to brag to him that she's doing well and deep down inside, she wants him back. If her ex is a bad guy ehn one day when konji hold him, he would just call her to examine her something and that's the end for you. Start looking for a serious girl

He took her to meet azalaar the doking king

The phone has impressive features for a low end device

Unisoc T612 uses A75 performance cores. That's not midrange. It is low end

Money well spent

Which movement is this. Money don enter pocket

cyberguy72:
Just like e be like film yesterday abi

United has nothing to play for in the EPL. Anybody who follows football wouldn't expect any big results. Their main focus is on Europa cos no matter how good they play in the EPL, they can't finish beyond 10th. Any logical thinker would know the match yesterday was not bringing any positive result. If ManU is the only team that can go all out to meet the requirements, so be it. You can't force osimhen to stay back in Napoli where he isn't welcome. Do you have millions of euros to support what your favorite club has to purchase osimhen. Ighalo went to United and did well so relax. No one is dragging anything. Just let the guy make his moves

Adakintroy:
Mostly sign of vineral disease.

Stop sugar and bear forever. Absorb lots of energy from sunlight. I mean intensely. Eat fruit a lot and take lot of water. You will be fine. Don't go for drugs ooo ..just follow this step. Give yourself 1_2 weeks you will be fine. It will stop. Guarantee.

Those disease are weak..just that some of you are weaker.

What is this quackery you're displaying on this forum

cyberguy72:
Osimhen cant afford to miss UCL,Man Utd cannot win Europa Cup

E go be like film to you when Dem lift that trophy. Those guys do well when people write them off. See what happened against Lyon. Look at how bad they were under ten hag and still managed to beat city to enter Europa League and win the FA cup against all odds. That's what they do. By the way, they are the only unbeaten team in the Europa League

cyberguy72:
Poor decision

It's not poor decision. It's the conditions Napoli put in place. Several clubs can't reach an agreement and Napoli wants to cashout big. Amorim is a good coach and if the board supports him during the next transfer window, he'll build a good team with osimhen in it

Nonsense police. No truth for their mouth

cyberguy72:
And i heard Osihmen wan join Man Utd ......I HOPE ITS FAKE NEWS

He would likely join ManU if they win the Europa League. That is automatic UCL football for him. United have the funds to get him and pay his wages

I didn't expect anything much from United today but that loss doesn't make sense. They had chances to score but blew them. They just gave wolves free 3pts. If ManU don't win that Europa League, they're finished.

My best gospel artist. See what the Lord has done

Fenrir:
See, Christians are wrong

Nigerian men might all be evil but seems sadistic demons aren't

This creature from the pit of hell just did a wellness check

If Nigerian men are evil, why were you looking for them to bang your wife in lekki?

Staged!

noobody:
Transsion can't relate!!

Someone is still pained since that day. Wawu!
Thank God you're using your mouth to advertise transsion now.

Fujiyama:
^^^
The truth is out there and it doesn't care what anyone thinks or writes. It speaks for itself.

The people with "proven track records" have been unable to put down what started as a low level insurrection about one and a half decades ago. Today the entire country's highways have turned into a giant kidnapping bazaar with a thriving secondary market for the victims.

You may be trolling and having fun here but for some people this is deadly serious business. As we speak there are families in anguish because their loved ones are being held hostage in the forest by boko terrorists or rogue herdsmen. Your former NYSC director general was held captive by terrorists for nearly two months before his release a couple of weeks ago. He was once a member of the people with 'proven track records' - but that didn't save him. He is very fortunate to be alive today.

Your people with 'proven track records' could not even secure their own academy in Kaduna from invasion by terrorists - an invasion that led to an abduction of personnel and at least one casualty. . So much for 'track records'.

Stop the unnecessary PR and focus on making sure Nigeria "doesn't happen to you".

Your president and his cohorts know the sponsors of terrorism in this country but would never prosecute these people. The army can't do much if these top politicians keep interfering. In other countries, terrorists are shot on sight while your APC government gave instructions to soldiers to arrest terrorists and not kill them. Many soldiers had to resign cos of this. Una never see anything. Continue wailing! If you like don't gather yourselves and vote in competent leaders, una go hear am louder. Make una still dey trade blames and play tribalism. If you are so sure you know everything that is going on, oya give us solutions or better still, go to the DHQ in Abuja and tell them what you know

Fenrir:
Says the man that's names himself after a demon and a nationality of rapist men

But yes im a self admitted sociopath

You have high blood pressure. Treat yourself quickly.

A sociopath is on the loose

FiveFootNinja:
Punk, stop telling me sweet nothings and explaining yourself like a chick owing money to her daddy pímp. 🤣🤣

I gave you two choices.

Let's talk reasonably like gentlemen and dissect your arguments with logic and reason

OR

Let's leave reason and logic out of it and start up a shítstorm.

I'm ready when you are. 🫠

My brother pls don't reply that guy again. Something is wrong with him honestly. Go and check his posts especially the one he was recruiting guys to knack his wife. E fit be say e don use those guys for rituals sef. He's a simp and a cuckold

Fujiyama:
^^^
We first have the chest beating and the loud claims of comptence...



^^^
Then come the excuses...



^^^
Then comes the discrediting of democracy...and the subtle, cynical yet unspoken promotion of military rule as a 'desirable' alternative...


This PR job for the military isn't going anywhere. We already know the truth.

PR for the military? You're so funny. Nigeria military has proven track records. You can look anywhere. You don't know any truth. Go and learn the dynamics of war.

AFvckingAlpha:
The Lake Chad region is Islamic State playground. ISWAP run things there, even Boko-Haram insurgents loyal to the slain Shekau still control some places in Borno.

This is a fight beyond the Nigerian Goverment, the North is where it is today because of decades of neglect.

Only America can completely dislodge Islamic State.

Has Nigeria millitary with all its aerial prowess ever taken a hold of Sambisa forest. If you know the terrain of the forest, its easy to attack numerous locations from that axis and run back to hiding.

What about the Lake Chad islands.

The recent dislodgments of millitary formations in Abadam and its environs.

Lets be serious, Nigeria lost this fight, the moment Shekau pledged allegiance to Islamic State. ISWAP is a well run terrorist organisation.

We cant even deal with the remnants of Boko-Haram.

And to cap it all, we have arguably the most useless president ever, not that he can do anything though to stop this menace.

Take it or leave it, terror and Borno signed a life long patnership unless US(Trump) goes hard on IS in the Sahel and Africa in general.

I said what I said my nigga.

On the contrary, naija military can end the insurgency. They are very much capable. I don't think you know how strong naija military is. Go to global firepower website and read up. War within the country is more difficult than country vs country war. If the Nigerian army was that weak, BH and Iswap would have seized power by now. You can read up on countries where insurgents seized power. I'll tell you some facts

1) there are moles within the military. Some top officers are benefitting from this war and don't want it to end.

2) politicians are using the insurgents to play politics and so part of their funding comes from our politicians. The president knows these people but some of them are his guys and people who give him guaranteed votes so he would not want to annoy them. You see naija politics. The military has been making moves to arrest and prosecute terrorists and their sponsors but they can't cos this is democracy. To make matters worse, the terrorists are being reintegrated to the society to continue on their killing spree. This is the disaster democracy brought.

3) USA coming here would only make things worse. Look at Afghanistan, Iraq. It's not that USA is bad but the war would now become much tougher because Russia would use the opportunity to fight a proxy war by arming the terrorists to the teeth. Trust me you wouldn't wanna see how that ends.

4) Islam is a problem in the North. There are so many fanatics who are directly and indirectly supporting the war. As long as Islam remains in the North, that war won't end unless the Muslims there are willing to embrace proper education and give less priority to religion

Islam and terrorism na 5 and 6. They should enjoy it jare. The evil seed kwara Muslims have been sowing has germinated. Extremism at its finest

I played games with my Dad's sagem My x7 back then. Gulo's tale and Siberian strike

Why are these sets of people hell bent on ruining this country? After South Africa, now india. Na nonsense be this