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MeghaneMorgane:
His mum loves me. You have no idea how much she does love me😊.

His mom is already giving him advice in private. Don't be too comfortable. Mothers know how to play crazy politics. She knows about what is going on between you two and when the time comes, she would take him to where he would have peace of mind

MeghaneMorgane:
I’m currently in a relationship where both my guy and I are very petty. If my guy does something I don’t like, I tell him the first time, if he does the same thing the second time, I don’t talk too much and I just give him the exact taste of the same medicine. It works every time and he adjusts immediately. Same for him when he tells me he doesn’t like something if I don’t adjust, he will give me the exact taste of my medicine. So far, it’s been working for both of us because we both adjust accordingly.
My question is that I hope this petty behaviour from my guy and I is not a toxic one?
If it is not toxic that’s good. But at what point does this behaviour become toxic?
NB: So far, this petty behaviour has been working well for the both of us.

I’ll give an example of our petty behaviour. My boyfriend went to visit his mum. 24 hours after being at his mum’s place, he didn’t pick my call and he didn’t call me either, and he didn’t respond to the numerous messages I left on his phone. I was so worried, I had to call his mum and told his mum to give him the phone. His mum gave him the phone. His mum also confirmed to me that my boyfriend had arrived 24 hours before I called her so it wasn’t a case of him playing games with me. Obviously I was very angry and I asked him why he wasn’t picking my calls. His response was that he is busy. That he will call me when he is done with the job he was doing. I said ok. I didn’t call him again until he called me. He called me a day and half after speaking with him on his mum’s phone. All the while I was lamenting to his mum how her son has refused to call me or pick my calls. His mum kept consoling me that he will call me immediately he finished what was doing. Guess what?, when I went to visit my own parents, I did exactly the same thing to him. He was so angry. Since then he hasn’t tried that rubbish again. Then we had to promise each other to always pick each other’s call even if we are very busy. Since then we’ve been picking each other’s calls.

Both of you are graduates of the school of pure and applied vawulence. so that means if he cheats, you'll retaliate by cheating too then the cycle goes on and both of you would start treating infection. Let your relationship stay as boyfriend and girlfriend until both of you sit down and tell yourselves the truth. If both of you eventually get married, it's either your marriage won't last or your kids would really suffer from your actions. Both of you should learn to forgive. Sit down and discuss about what you like and don't like. Let your guy speak too. Infact, both of you can see a counselor. Both of you are likely not compatible! The relationship lacks understanding

Some people would say this one was staged too

PresidObi:
Do you see why Nigeria is a useless country?

Someone brought a story online without links, no pictures and no interviews,

And some people are inclined to believe it like that?

No wonder people believed a drug baron can get them national development, good progress and peace.

Stop lying to yourself. There are lots of touts in the south East. I'm not talking based on hearsay. I have visited different places in Anambra state and I saw them. People complain about them a lot. They even collect money from people carrying loads.

Delicious 😋

paymentvoucher:
NEVER! I REPEAT NEVER EMBARK ON A NIGHT JOURNEY IN THIS COUNTRY IF YOU DONT HAVE RANSOM TO PAY.

IF ANY ROAD TRIP WILL EXCEED 5PM, PLEASE DONT TRY IT.

Exactly. I don't know why people still take the risk. Highways in Nigeria have always been very dangerous even in the old times. I can never embark on any evening or night travel again.

I've never heard of this group in my life. Where did it spring out from?

The aim of this post is to dissuade the public from protesting

EreluRoz:
This is what I've been saying but we all know obidients want to hijack it to give our government a bad name.

Nobody should go out for any protest, pray instead and ask God to intervene, there's nothing prayers can not do but most of these obidients believe in violence

Many people have died praying for Nigeria from time past. Prayers won't change Nigeria. Let's stop deceiving ourselves. we act like we know Christianity and Islam better than the Europeans and middle East people who brought them. I don't support violence but at the same time the protest must happen. Nigerians are suffering too much and the little they are using to survive, this govt is still taking it away. Let's forget about politics. Even if Obi gets there and he starts misbehaving, people would still protest. It's normal. It's a constitutional right. It's only in a military regime or an Islamic republic that protests are termed illegal.

Dangote is correct 💯. Not just cars. Even generators.

Terrible government filled with criminals

This mumu man don come again. Last time he said he would run to Ghana but he hasn't fulfilled his promise. Now he is saying another nonsense

Nice one from Obi. I support dangote too. There is so much sabotage in the oil sector

Government is really afraid.

Why must everything be on social media? If you want to help someone, do it without telling the whole world. I believe this is part of content creation. She would still gain cash from it in the end

God granted her heart desire. She is a smart woman.

bbeckky:
Good morning and happy Sunday my people.
Please I want to get a new phone that's not more than 330k or 350k at most. Major concern is camera because I'm using it for my business and I take pictures of stock a lot but I'm not overlooking a good performance as well. Pls any advice 🙏
Thanks in advance

Cc genius43

You can get the Google pixel 5 or 6. Another phone with a superb camera is Tecno Camon 30 cos of that Sony sensor it uses. Everything about it is wonderful and even in lowlight, it does amazingly well.

Women why? Even if you are separated, stop using your children as weapons. Allow them meet their fathers. The next thing she'll start telling the kids terrible things that would make them hate their dad. As a man, don't make the mistake of rushing into marriage. Date her first and see if you both align. Study her Wella. Do your investigation even if she looks like a saint. If she has some behaviours you can't cope with or discover she is not really into you, let her go. Don't marry out of pity, cos of body shape or beauty. It's a lifetime journey that comes with a lot of trauma when the journey is too turbulent

Tinubu's brother

Kaczynski:
Nice sugar mommy

See her succulent yum yum 😋

Damn! What's wrong with you? The only thing you could pick out from the video was the elderly woman's body part?

Good one. Leaders should know that even if they are voted in, they can still be protested against.

Why would a man be twerking in the first place? Disgusting!

Breeze don blow finally

These people are part of Nigeria's problems

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
Useless trophy

Can you sing?

Congrats MFM. Well deserved. I always enjoy the songs at the headquarters in Lagos

SmartPolician:
For letting every riffraff sleep with his daughters in the name of relationship, Femi Otedola must be the world's most generous billionaire.

When I become a billionaire, broke men won't even be crossing paths with my daughters. My daughters will be betrothed to their husbands at birth to the sons of my wealthy business partners. My sons are free to do or marry whoever they like.

If you don't like this, go suck a lemon!

Let them make their choices as adults. If you eventually become a billionaire, you would definitely become a thorn in the flesh of your daughters. So you mean Dj cuppy and her sister have been moving with riff raffs? You don't know what you are saying. Those people you called riff raffs are people you can't stand up to on a normal day. Mr Eazi is richer than you can imagine. Go and read then you'll know Mr Eazi's background.

So protesting is now a crime. These people don't know what's coming. They really see Nigerians as dummies

God1000:
Another new front, there will never be peace in that region, this circle of violence will continue till the oppressed people have their freedom.

How can a country that relies so much on america for weapons be looking for trouble everywhere, I only pity the american taxpayers



Israel wants to fight a war with Hamas, Houthi and Hezbollah at the same time knowing fully well that it doesn't have the capacity to do so

The genocidal Zionist regime should stop attacking oil facilities and civilians, US and UK have been striking Houthi for months without killing innocent people.


To those throwing curses and insults at me because of a foreign country that doesn't care about your existence, I pity una

You celebrate when people are killed in Israel but you become an activist when Israel fights back. You're not being sincere with yourself

Islamabad

The protest is necessary but it can turn disastrous cos I see some groups planning to use it to their advantage.

So herdsmen have reached here. Where is ESN? I thought herdsmen don't loiter around in the south East