A vast majority are against it.

What they did was terrible.... yes.

But the painful truth is you won't heal from that experience if you don't forgive them.

UyaiIncomparabl:


You seem like a very intolerant person and a perfectionist (that one with OCD).

OCD....... maybe.

At the bolded, I'm quite the opposite. My friend was just being too carefree with things that could be hazardous. Hence, my attitude.

Nope..... Actually, I was the accuser this time.

A friend of mine came to my place to stay. He was obviously not familiar with how I handled things, so he found himself constantly being corrected by me. And yes, i could see the displeasure on his face.
He summoned up courage to talk to me about it and pleaded with me to give him time to adapt. I felt a little bad about it.

One day, i came back to find the bathroom tap opened. Luckily, water wasn't running at the time. I was livid and called his attention. He innocently came out and insisted he wasn't the one. I asked him who then could it be if not him coz i wasn't home?

Just after asking him, i remembered a carpenter came to work at my place and he was around to supervise.

He said nothing and went back. I felt all shades of shame that day. My apology meant nothing....... even to me.

If you can make the NO like this, then you're on the rightest track!

That sexual lust get as e be.

I feel exactly all the bolded on OP's post when I'm yet to pray.

1 & 3........

A little jealous: Love.

Too jealous: Lack of trust.



My one kobo!

Bbnaija...... maybe.

Football...... don't go there sir!

Kidnapped a native doctor?!!!!

The story of a drowning fish.....

Almiron:
I will always be there lol

Almiron:
🐐 effect

There's no way you'll miss this thread....

Some relationships within this age brackets work just fine. Obviously, respect, a lot of respect, is at play.

So if you know and are sure she'll respect you, carry on.

Zyxsc:
1. For a man, it's just a bills-paying institution. You go pay bills sotey you go forget wetin carry you enter the marriage in the first place

2. Enjoy your bachelorhood Wella before going into it. 40 is not too late for a man to get married.

3. You can't prove you're mentally strong until you're married because na then you go know what it takes to retrain an adult child like your wife. She go do some kain things wey be say, e fit make you go crazy.

4. If you can avoid it, please do. It's not worth it. Once you're married, you'll loose a part of your freedom. You can only regain it at the detriment of your home.

5. Don't go into marriage because of children. They may grow up and not make you happy by going against your wish (of course, they have their own lives to live. You've lived yours). Don't go into marriage because you love your girlfriend. Na this one go clear your eyes pass. Go into marriage because you want a life-long friend. Even at that, it's still a gamble. E fit shock you 10 years down the line.

Divine!!!

Inside the under.....

Coz unfortunately, many are not mentally prepared for it.

Many, among other reasons, rush into marriage because they don't want to be 'left behind'.
Some don't even see themselves as adults until they are married.

So when they rush into it, barrages of inappropriateness and mistakes follow.

Hmmph!!

Mine was in my former neighbourhood long ago. He was in a competition with me almost all the time. It took me a while to realise it coz i thought he had a good heart.

It dawned on me finally, when we were seeking admission into university. God did it and i got in first. But it only got worse for our friendship. Witch- hunting at its peak.... looking for avenues to discredit me, sometimes even publicly.

When we relocated, everytime i went to visit him, he was NEVER home. I cut him off for good.

By the time he was in school, he began showing a friendly side.... by snubbing him, he realised we weren't on the same level any more.

Ask the women following the men also......

It's true.

It's just a term given to two people having deep feelings of love for each other....for lack of better words.


So yes! It's true!

She 'mistakenly' reconnected with her ex.....

The truth must be revealed eventually;

When she starts making silly demands, don't complain.

Even the tree won't support him for long.....

They've failed in trying to prove there's no God.

Now, they wanna prove that they don't need Him.

Keeping friends is an aspect of life you shouldn't force.

Apart from not knowing who's a virgin and who isn't...
How about a divorcee or widow that wants to remarry.....


Moral of the story:
Once you're at the altar, na bride be your title. Hence....

Westerhoffe:


They will hear whin this year.

Serious one

Could this be GWR's busiest year yet?

Unfortunately.... this question should have been asked first.

To not believe is to not be a Christian!

Now we're talking!!!

phemmyfour:
Yinmu
That will be the easiest UCL final

Anything less than 3-0, I ll deactivate my account

Abbaa!!

Try rate Inter small na...