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I'll advise you to go for the Msc. Using my own experience as an example - I worked with ETB for 2 years before coming to the UK for my Msc. In hindsight now, I really thank God that I left ETB when i did cos after about 8 months, a lot of staff were asked to go and most of them didnt have any plan B in terms of business or career path. Please know that Banking only looks glamorous from outside - it doesn't really develop you in terms of career. No bank sends you for any training even if you work in the Head Office.After 5 yrs in banking you'll still be feeling so empty and asking yourself how much has been added to you in terms of career development.

People tend to forget that life is not all about money, it's more about fulfillment. Going back to my experience; I came to the UK not knowing if I'd made the right decision or not. The first year was very tough cos I couldnt do more than 20hrs of work per week to support myself but after the Msc, things got easier. Long story short, where I am today is 5 times better than the banking job I left behind (better in terms of salary and position) & the sad thing is that, the guys I left behind are still on a peanut salary of 150k after 5 yrs!!. Please dont get me wrong, it's all by the grace of God.
Take the US offer, do your Msc, get the relevant certifications while in the US then start applying for job - most importantly, expect the BEST.
It is well.

My friend played a recorded phone conversation he had with a married woman for me and I was totally gutted. This is a woman with 2 kids and a husband who dots on her. The conversation was on the x-rated side - she masturbated on the phone and begged my friend to come over to her city and lodge in a hotel.
This is a woman who has everything to lose - her family, dignity, respect, etc risking everything for a single guy who has nothing to lose. If the phone message gets to her husband, your guess is as good as mine. Women should think before they act. I do not condone cheating in any way but a woman loses more if she gets caught.
You can't pay a cheating man back by cheating, you will only hurt yourself in the end. The best thing is to quit when a man makes it a habit to cheat - that means he doesn't respect you.
I hate to say the cliche that "it's a man's world', but it's somehow true. The society will 'forgive' a man caught in the act but will never forgive a woman caught in the same act.

This post is not meant to support men who cheat on their partners. Cheating or having many girlfriends is not a sign of your male dominance, it only shows you are weak and you lack self-discipline. If you know the true measure of a man, you will know how to love and make that woman in your life feel special.

Atiku bawo? The guy will be so beaten.