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arthurwillia:
Hangout again and lodge if you want intimacy, if you are looking at just normal visit, then let her come visit and stay in the living room na abi? If she’s scared then she never know wetin she want for this life.. you are probably not it for her.. use this Info anyhow you want

Thanks

Divaacares:
How.old are u to start with

Im between 27-30

U should be close to ur sisters
My brothers are close to me that way they trust to open up

I don’t have problem with my sisters or even mom if I have her around. Infact, everyone of them are eager to see the person I’m dating and would not have problem if I bring her home. But this babe is literally scared of meeting any of my fam now.

Datboredberri:
You write like a teenager... It's cute...

I forget you're a grown man...

I appreciate your contribution to the thread sha.

Datboredberri:
You write like a teenager... It's cute...

I forget you're a grown man...

You mean the OP looks like it was written by a teenager? Emi laye mi

arthurwillia:
Wait small as in underage?

She’s above 20

Datboredberri:
So let her go... You know it's not gonna last...

Don't play the victim... You're the one who's gonna hurt her... Not the other way round...

If anyone needs an advice... It would be her...

Hmm thanks

Datboredberri:
Of course you do... You're still living with your parents...

Lol

Doesn’t mean oh. I’ll be concluding my service in few months. I have a business plan for that. Also plan to leave the afterwards.

Stallionhorse:
You and your gf are stupid.. Unah dey whine me On top my data... Use Tiwa to savage the situation ode

Alaye calm down, we just dey talk. Shey Orijin wey you drink pass your gauge right?

Datboredberri:
And just like that, he's manipulated you into denying your feelings for her... Smh...

No good men anymore...

I’m a good man. And I’m a ladies man. Girls frolick around wherever I find myself, but the respect and love I have for this girl, I’ve never had it for other. But I feel danger looming like mmadu4 said. She once joked she’s not wanting to get married in the next 4 years.

And I’m definitely not gon wait till then.

Datboredberri:
Why can't he love her?

Most of you guys here are toxic af! And it's obnoxious... Wailing online 247... Fu**!

Relationships end! Deal with it! Do you think the op wants to get married anytime soon? Or spend the rest of his life with his girl?

So it's gonna end one day... That shouldn't scare you from falling inlove... Don't be a coward...

I want to get married pretty soon actually.

mmadu4:
From the looks of things you have made up your mind to love her .No amount of advice can change that so carry on . No be person go tell you later on

Wo thank you jare. I understand you very well.

It’s part of why I started to withdraw my emotion for her. But she’s been clinging a lot lately.

Datboredberri:
Don't mind that one... He ain't ever seen the light...

Hmm... Drug them?

Put sleeping pills in their meals... Then smuggle your girl in...

My older sisters. Not younger ones oh

mmadu4:
Date women from 27 going . 22 is still growing

I truly think about this, but I’m just trying to not discuss that with her because I have a feeling it’ll break her heart. She’s kind of into me more than I’m into her.

Do you think I should free her?

kodded:
that is how they behave when they see a new toy.


I tell you that love will fade away once another new toy comes around

I’ve never been her toy. Lol

Datboredberri:
Aww... I love her already! You're still gonna break her heart...

Well... I'm glad you're a decent young man... You considered her feelings... Commendable!

Could you get your sister away? For the day?

They have their 2 shops attached to our house. There’s almost no way to get them away. Besides, my brother’s wife stay in the house with her husband too

BigRocky:
To her to ur friends place na

I no come get FriendS around

kodded:
Shine her congo and walk away


She is not your girlfriend, it's just your turn, enjoy it while it last

This girls so into me and she’d beg me most of the time not to break her heart

Datboredberri:
I'm a small girl... Most of us are after love...

A fairytale romance...

The op's girl is a comrade...

I no even understand you

mmadu4:
Date mature gurl leave small girls alone they have ally of growing up to do . I once date small girls and I can tell you it's mentally and emotionally draining .

She’d be turning 22 in few months. 22 is small too?

Datboredberri:
A hotel? You can afford that, right?

And use a condom cher...

Yeah, I’ve tried that option, but she feels I don’t regard her well and that’s why I want to take her to hotel. Besides, she’d always complain hotel money is unnecessary too much.

mmadu4:
Why are you dating a small girl They are mainly after material things

Yeah she’s small though, but I’ve been able to not flash material things too much to her face. So far, I’ve not invested more than I can afford to lose on her

I have these girl I’ve been dating for about 4 months now. We are so into eachother and I feel she’s starting to fall in love with me. Since we have been dating, we mostly hangout, and whenever we hangout as such, we get to kiss a lot and romance ourselves. But she was not ready for sex until i notice that she’s starting to crave for one from me.

So for the first time, she’s asking that she comes to my house.

here’s where the problem lies:


I don’t know the kind of perception she has about me, but I’m sure she rates me a lot and probably thinks I’m from a rich home kind of, maybe due to how I furnished my room and the pictures of my room that’s she’s used to seeing. Whereas, I’m in my parent house and she knows this. And I have some of my siblings around, especially my older sisters. This girl’s such a young girl and she’s one hell of a shy girl. She’s made it clear countless times that she’s not ready to meet my sister and my mum for now. And although my mum is not around, my sisters are always around.

She’s already planing to come tomorrow and I don’t wanna tell her my sisters would be around so to not scare her off.

And if I do the other way round, and she comes in contact with them, I feel that will even piss get off the most.

What can I do?

ubunja:
how is that different from someone saying don't get married because Leonardo dicaprio never did? Or someone saying don't get married because Nikola Tesla never got married? It's the same thing cause both cases are using real people as examples.

Religious sources are logical to us religious people,, and a vast majority of red pillers are actually religious. I wonder why you insist discussions become flawed if spirituality is introduced. Even Manosphere legends like Roosh of Return Of Kings, are verbally Christian and his blogs carry religious references. Nothing wrong with this. Mankind is a religious race. Whatsmore, religion and the redpill have common aims: Don't red pillers want virgins? They do. Well religions are the foremost teachers of virginity. Don't red pillers want traditional wives? They do. Well those kind of women you'll mostly find within Christianity or Islam and other religions. Whichever way you look at it,, you'd be a fool to war against religion because it mostly wants the same things you want. And Jesus Himself never had anything against marriage. Didn't he perform His very first miracle at a wedding? Isn't He the one who said, "It is not good for man to be alone". It's Him.

Let people come to the red pill how they want man. We're from different backgrounds. Let it be. Some of us will lose interest in the red pill if the religious aspects are totally removed because then What's the point!

Religion and the redpill are two side of DIFFERENT coins. And as a matter of fact. There’s a lot more differences between the two than similarities.

The red pill (not solely pertaining to women, marriage etc) like you been insinuating with your examples from the Bible, is all about setting man free from the shackles the society tries to cage him. What makes one blue pilled is when you’re being dictated to, and not really acting in such a way that you feel is best for you.

Religion is the bluepill given to us by some ancient men. You don’t engage in religion and be free to do what is best for you and humanity, this was why people were killed in the dark ages for holding views contrary to what’s in the Bible. Remember the story of Galileo Galilei.

Simply put, religion tells you a lot of nonsense, and tell you to not use you brain to see whether this is nonsense or not, you’re to simply believe. That’s bluepill in my opinion. Therefore putting you in a cage.

The red pill tells you something on the other hand, and allows you to question that thing so to reach a conclusive answer that ensures the continuous survival of the human race. This is simple to see.

Please comment. Thank you

Opinions needed please?

If not, how can one go about it?

Cc: seun, lalasticlala
This is a very important topic please

Heartbender:
Depends on the quality of advice. See my signature for further information

You're not In Lagos, are you?

When you need a legal advice from a lawyer, how much would it cost please?

Advice urgently needed.

Never done this before, but I've read about guys doing this. Sending d!CK pics to girls on Twitter on Instagram or Facebook, just to catch the attention of these girls. What I don't get is, does this work? As a guy, have you ever tried this? Or there are levels before you do this? And to girls, how often does this happen in your DM? And what do you think about it?

mezarddinny:
23 year old and youbare running after teenagers, you no get game i swear

What's your own definition of game?

FrLukas:
How old are you? Ijust want to know the gap in your ages.

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